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How can someone get over someone?
Q. How can someone get over someone when it hurts really bad? I'm in deep pain.. I hurt and I feel my life is on hold. I just miss him all the time and he doesn't want to even talk to me. He doesn't respond to my calls or texts.. He took advantage of ...
A. 4 February 2010: I went through sumthing similar to this and let me tell u,HE DOES NOT DESERVE U HUNNI!!! of course ur going to have days when u want to cry and want him back but u know wat,u deserve better and u kno that.So wat helped me was i texted the person and ... (read in full...)
Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?
Q. Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 ...
A. 4 February 2010: Thank-you everyone.I promised my mom that I would never go to a club again because i really didnt like it anyway lol but thank u all for the advice... (read in full...)
His father won't let him use the phone to talk to me. What can I do?
Q. Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.Just recently his father decided he doesn't like me and punished my boyfriend off the phone with ME for 2 YEARS. This made me so mad. My boyfriend still sneaks and calls only ...
A. 11 June 2008: No it has nothing to do with the bill...his dad just doesnt like me or approve of me but i don't know why.It was fine 2 months ago then he started to dislike me all of a sudden.We can't email because his dad said it's just another exscuse to talk to ... (read in full...)
I'd like to go out with her but I'm afraid what people will think!
Q. hey I have a question concerning one of my friends. WE have known each other for quite some time. but just recently have become interested in each other. Like at the moment we are just friends with benefits. But she wants to go out with me. i'd love ...
A. 16 May 2008: Look, it doesn't matter what other people think. Put yourselve in her shoes... you really like a dude and he likes you too but what's stoping you?what he thinks others think about it. Now I know that would surely hurt her feeling because she will ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 6 April 2008: People have told me it's a sin and said it's in the Bible. I asked my mom this same question a few weeks ago and she said yes it is a sin and when I asked why she said because "God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve!" lol
My dad also told me t... (read in full...)
I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?
Q. I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...
A. 30 January 2008: Thank you all for all your answers...... My boyfriend said that he will always love me and that nobody can break us up.... (read in full...)
I'm rather shy, whereas he's outgoing. Do I have a chance?
Q. How can you tell if a guy is going to ask you out? Will I ever have a bf? I'm almost 16 and never had a bf because I'm quiet and shy. I like a senior, who I think likes me, but he's outgoing. Do I even have a chance? ...
A. 25 November 2007: I had the same situation wit my bf....I was shy and he is very out going. Well over time I started being non-shy around him and we talked about it and he told me that I can just be myself around him and I don't have to be scared to say or do ... (read in full...)
All I seem to focus on is the negatives...how can I stop this and have a normal relationship??
Q. Hi everybody. Hope somebody can help me here or if somebody is in a similar situation. I have met a lovely guy who travels alot for his job but when we see each other the time we spend together is great, he is very caring and very affectio...
A. 29 October 2007: I have the same situation. Everything you wrote matched everything about my past and present relationship. Just talk to him about it, that's what I do and my boyfriend reassures me how much he cares about me and ect. but we have a long distance ... (read in full...)
Underage kids and sex - whatever happened to youth?
Q. I have to say that i am noticing a lot of KIDS aged 12ish asking questions about sex. What on earth is happening? Or are they maybe older and just putting this age? But, what has happened to kids and their youth? They are under age and shouldnt be ...
A. 24 October 2007: To tell u the truth, maybe these kids have been mentally abused and hurt and maybe even lonely all the time. They ask because they have heard it's wrong but they like somebody so much that the are willing to have sex with them. I know this because I ... (read in full...)
He don't want me know more
Q. i have been with my boyfirend for 6 years and three weeks ago he told me that he don't want me know more but he want us to still live together for the kids i love him so much i really don't know what to do can you help me ...
A. 22 October 2007: Have you asked him why he doesn't want you? Tell him how u feel and keep asking why and don't take no for an answer.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my celebrity crush?
Q. I have a bad problem. I have a celebrity crush on the rapper T.I and I want to get over it very badly because I get upset and hurt and I'm tired of feeling this way. Any info would help and thank-you 4 reading....
A. 18 October 2007: Thank-you for your help... (read in full...)
I was wondering if you can tell me how long periods go on for because mines have gone on for 12 days...
Q. I was wondering if you can tell me how long periods go on for because mines have gone on for 12 days and and I'm getting pains in my stomach like every 15 minutes and very uncomfortable!!! My dad is moving out and I don't feel as if I'm close eno...
A. 12 August 2007: Periods are suppose to last up to 5 days so you need to go to the doctor to see if your okay!!! You should really tell your mom about what your dad did even though he told you not to.... (read in full...)
How old should I be before I get a boyfriend?
Q. I'm going into middle school. How old should I be to have a boyfreind? Not to kiss or anything, but just to talk to and hold hands....
A. 3 August 2007: I really think you should have a boyfriend at at least 15, even though I have one, It won't feel right until your older. trust me I know!!! ... (read in full...)
I've always wanted to be a marine but my girlfriend says she'll dump me if I sign up
Q. so i've decided to stay with my current gf and just wait. love is more important to me than sex. i do have some what of another problem though. i kinda do and kinda dont want to join the army (marines) but my gf said she would dump me if i did. i'v...
A. 3 August 2007: Well is she doesn't want you to do something you really want to do, she not good for you. Maybe talk to her about why she doesn't want you to join. She might just be scared of losing you. Hope this helps?... (read in full...)
Tried to find my g-spot..was this a weird thing to do?
Q. I recently tried to find my g-spot. Is this so wierd? I'm sure many of you know what finding the male g-spot involves. I didn't really get a lot of pleasure out of it, so I'm not sure that I actually found it, but doing what I was trying to do was a ...
A. 30 July 2007: No, it's not strange at all!! Your just trying to find what feels good to you and leaning more about yourself so don't feel bad about this. It's nothing wrong with that at all.... (read in full...)
She thinks she's pregnant!? All she did was suck me off while I used a condom!!
Q. Argh... my girlfriend's freakin out coz she thinks shes pregnant! and now she has me worried. she cant be pregnant from suckin me off while wearin a condom can she? but thats not the only things shes worried about becoz i went down on her and ...
A. 30 July 2007: She can't possibly be pregnant because you can't get pregnant from oral sex.... (read in full...)
Is he in this just for the sex or is he getting more serious?
Q. Hi I have been seeing a man for several weeks now. We have sex, I stay over, he says hes out for just fun, however in the last week or so has become very very affectionate, outside of just sex which is what he told me he wanted ( and I was fine wit...
A. 30 July 2007: If you've been doing this for a year then of course he will eventually fall for you, at lease that what I think.
You can ask and see because if you don't you will never know!!!
?Hope this helps?... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with a married woman. How do I get over my obsession??
Q. i am obesessed with a woman of 37..i am 57...we were workamates...nearly had sex..i panicked..now all i do is think about her..every waking minute of my life...i imagine her making love to her husband..my question is..how do i get over an ...
A. 30 July 2007: Try not to think about her, think about other things that interest you. Do things to take your mind off her and you'll get over her soon enough.
Hope this helps... (read in full...)
I'm have dark coloured skin and feel it's hard to fit in.
Q. What's wrong with being dark-skinned? I'm a dark-skinned girl and I want to know because sometimes I feel bad for my skin color and I feel unwanted because when I look at tv I hardly ever see anybody my color. I also get offended because my ...
A. 30 July 2007: Thanks for ya'lls help!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed that my boyfriend is a year younger than me
Q. i really like the guy i am involved with i have a great time with him and i love him but he's a year yonger and i don't know why i just fell inmbaressed so i won't tell my friends and i don't know if i really like him cuz i feel imbareassed to tell ...
A. 27 July 2007: Well my boyfriend is older but shorter than me and I'm not embarrassed at all forget what other people think about it, it's what you think and what you want. ... (read in full...)
I like a shy guy; doesn't he like me too? Or is his shyness getting in the way?
Q. I really like a guy. He knows I like him but when my friend told him, he did not react at all. He just said ok and blushed. He's not really the "hot" guy that everyone likes. (Actually, not even close. No one notices him.) How do I find out if he ...
A. 26 July 2007: It's he shyness!!!!! I'm the quiet type myself so my suggestion is to try to talk to him first so he won't feel so shy and he can feel comfortable around you.... (read in full...)
My period is so heavy I sometimes can't even walk
Q. hi.. my period last for 10 days with severe bleeding, i can't even walking sometimes. is this normal? if not what's causing it?...
A. 24 July 2007: Mine is like that to but nothing seems to work but heating pads and menthol patches.... (read in full...)
I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time.
Q. I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time. Like I can eat in front of my mom and family members and at restaurants, but I'm kinda scared to eat in front of my boyfriend even though I've done ...
A. 24 July 2007: Thanx 4 ur answers it helped a lot?... (read in full...)
He said that if we don't have sex, we're breaking up; then he said he didn't mean it but it hurt me a lot
Q. My boyfriend made me upset today. Okay, he asked me if his "thang" is to small for me can we still do it and I said i will think about it and he said well if we can't we're breaking up. He said if we don't have sex then what is the point of kissing ...
A. 24 July 2007: Thanx for your answers everyone, my boy friend said he only said that because I said sumthing that hurt him earlier but he does have split-personality so I don't know what's going on in his mind!!!?... (read in full...)
What's the problem?
Q. I had a baby 3 months ago. I just found out I am pregnant again. I am happy because I wanted my daughter to have a sibling close in age to play with etc. I feel that it will make her happier, I also really love being a mom. I am not married to t...
A. 23 July 2007: I don't see what's wrong with having kids out of wedlock.
Maybe on the first baby they were so happy because they thought since you got pregnant you'll be getting married too. But when that didn't happen and you got pregnant again they were mad beca... (read in full...)
Raped by my ex last night.
Q. Hi, need advice and help please. I was raped last night by my ex, i let him in as he said he wanted to talk, anyway we were chatting normally he then tried it on, told him i wasn't interested, he forced himself on me. I couldn't fight back, i froz...
A. 23 July 2007: You need to tell someone about what happened!!!!!!! You didn't deserve that!! Don't hate yourself because it will only make it worse, please tell somebody!!!!!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I broke up recently and I'm suffering from the sex withdrawal
Q. I've recently broke up with my long term girlfriend. Withdrawel is really starting to kick in. I really miss her! Kissing, being together, talking everyday, and last but not least; SEX! I just feel like I want to be doing these things with her ...
A. 23 July 2007: Of course your going to feel that way!!!!!! You've went with her for a long time but sooner or later you'll find someone else to fufill your needs.
Hope I helped!!!!... (read in full...)
How can I stop being nervous all the time? I can't enjoy life to its fullest!
Q. I have a bad nerve problem. How can I stop being nervous all the time because it is stopping me from things I really want to do?...
A. 19 July 2007: Thanx for your answers... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!!
Q. My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!! When were on the phone and we have a good conversation he asks me what do I want to talk about and I always say I don't know because I really don't have anything to talk about. I ...
A. 19 July 2007: Thanx everybody for your help!!!!!... (read in full...)
No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! How can I feel better about myself?
Q. No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! Other people tell me I am but when I look in the mirror I don't see what is so cute about me!!! How can I feel better about myself?...
A. 14 July 2007: Thank u so much yall helped out a whole lot!!... (read in full...)
Why does he never show me any affection?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him, and he loves me. The thing is he doesn't tell me this, we don't cuddle or hold hands, or kiss, unless it's just me and him alone. He doesn't compliment me, he flirts with me still, but like I ...
A. 14 July 2007: Have you told him how you feel about this? If you talk to him maybe he will do all this stuff in public. My boyfriend lets the whole world know i'm his girlfriend in public!! Just talk to him
Hope I helped!!!... (read in full...)
I also think he's not telling the truth about his ex because he's only mixing up the story. I really love him and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm 15 well I'll be 16 soon and my boyfriend is 24 going on 25. Thing is we have never met in person! I was trying to contact a friend and I mixed up a digit in the number which made me send the text to him instead. After a while I found out that he ...
A. 14 July 2007: Maybe he's just upset because he can't see u and he's just pressing ur buttons so u can go see him!!! I don't think he's meaning to hurt you but he just wants to see u really bad. Me and my boyfriend went 3 months without seeing eachother and he ... (read in full...)
My vagina hurts, what's wrong?
Q. well my question is...... I been having this feeling on my vagina for about two weeks....... it feels like something is hurting me inside.... it hurts when I sit down and when I laid down also when I'm walking.... is a feeling like I have crap...
A. 14 July 2007: Maybe you need to go to the doctor to make sure ur alright.
It could be I yeast infection...... but then again a few weeks ago I had the same problem but it went away. Try using femine products cuz that what I did and now I'm back to normal!!!!
... (read in full...)
What's wrong with us fat girls?
Q. Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...
A. 13 July 2007: There's nuthin wrong with u!!!!!!! I'm sure ur very pretty, who cares about weight cuz I sure don't.... I'm sure boys do notice u but their just scared cuz u got body(which is a good thang not bad) and they go for ur friend cuz they know she's not ... (read in full...)
How can I feel more confortable talking with my boyfriend about stuff
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and I still feel a little nervous to talk to him about some stuff, what can I do to feel more comfortable with him?...
A. 13 July 2007: Thank u so much for ur answers!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
He's dating another girl so why is he still contacting me?
Q. My ex and I broke up almost 3 months ago now but occasionally we have been still keeping in contact. I've told him 3 times already that we can't keep in contact anymore but this last time I got in touch with him again because I was feeling down ...
A. 13 July 2007: I think he still has feeling for you and wants to talk to you to make sure he still does. I don't see anything wrong with talking to him as long as you don't have a boyfriend.... (read in full...)
I want this marriage to work but hubby ignores me! What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I dont know y I'm doing this, but my heart just lead me to do this. I've been very edgy on and off about issues relating to my husband. Ours was a love marriage and we just celebrated (was no talking to each other for 2days till the a...
A. 13 July 2007: Have you tried talking to him? Have you told him how u feel? Yall can just pick out a day to do things together and talk about it. Maybe it's not u, maybe he's just depressed right now or sumthing. Hope this helps!!!... (read in full...)
I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.
Q. Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...
A. 12 July 2007: It is definetly okay 2 be a virgin at ur age!!! That is very good and she probably laughed cuz she has done over 10 time probably!!! But u should be proud of urself for waiting to have sex.... (read in full...)
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