Males point of view: He says things have flopped, could this mean he still likes me?
Q. Okay, I'm dating this guy. I'm 15, hes 16. Things are not the same anymore as I haven't seen him as much. He said things have now flopped/failed between us. Before I told him I liked him he used to do all these cute things to get my attentio...
A. 22 July 2008: Hun, I think this is a question you should really be asking him. I am not sure how things can flop. If he really liked you in the way he did, then he would have seen you during your recovery. If I was with a girl and the same thing happened... (read in full...)
Do a person's true feelings come out when they get drunk?
Q. Hi everyone would like your opinions please, do you believe that when somebody is a bit drunk their true feelings come out, does the fact that inhibitions are dropped make it easier for someone to say or show how they really feel. Thought it would ...
A. 22 July 2008: No, I do not necessarily believe that their true feelings come out, but 'other' feelings do. I think that a person can become over emotional and irrational when they are drunk. They tend to be much more open about things, but the feelings are gene... (read in full...)
18-year age difference, parents say NO, what do I do?
Q. I'm 20 years old and I'm with a 38 year old man who represents everything I want in a partner. We 'clicked' the moment we met and now have an undeniable connection; we just seem to fit together. I love him deeply, and he feels the same. We REALLY ...
A. 17 July 2008: At the end of the day hun, this is your choice, not your parents. If this guy makes you happy, then go for it.
Your parents may be angry at the moment, but I am sure that he can win over their respect in due time. If he loves you like he says, then... (read in full...)
Ejaculations problems! help!
Q. everytime i have sex with my girlfriend as soon as i enter i get the kinda tinging feeling in my penis like i'm going to ejaculate and then i do :S How do i stop this from happening so fast?...
A. 4 July 2008: I think this is a problem which affects most of us, but when you feel like you are close to climax, remove your penis (not literally) and maybe go down on her for a bit, licking and sucking her clit and using your fingers inside her. This brings her ... (read in full...)
I had a comtraceptive implant in March and now I'm torn between being safe and dirty or unsafe and clean
Q. First a little background info. I had the contraceptive implant back in March and the doctor did say that it would take about three months for my periods to sort themselves out. In the first couple of weeks my period was constant then stopped but ...
A. 28 June 2008: I would just continue as you are for the time being hun. Your periods should start to settle anytime now. At least your boyfriend is being sensible and understanding about it all. He seems like a really genuine guy.
For sex, you can still do it, ... (read in full...)
I am suppose to be going on a date tonight, but I don't feel the want to go? I don't know why
Q. I met a guy 2 weeks ago at my local pub. We've kept in touch by txt. I am suppose to be going out tonight with him. He is 30, 7 years younger than me. We have nothing in common, he likes to drink frequently, used to do drugs, and doesn't have any ...
A. 28 June 2008: Then you should do what will make you happier in the long term. If you really do not want to date this guy, then you should be open with him and explain how you feel.
If you are feeling reluctant to go out, then it may play on your mind and will... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to masterbate every day?
Q. is it wrong if i masterbate everyday?? my friends say it is wierd for girls to masterbate...but i dont see why guys can and not girls?? so is it healthy if i masterbate everyday??...
A. 25 June 2008: I imagine that most girls masturbate, including the ones who say it is weird.
Providing you are not using things which could hurt you, then you won't come to any harm by masturbating. It is perfectly normal, so don't worry, just enjoy.
Take ... (read in full...)
Any help on making my Curriculum Vitae?
Q. i know this isnt to do with relationships but ive seen that this site is just soo helpful!! i really need a bit of help with writing a CV ive just left school and am looking round for jobs as im bored stupid and also need a litle cash before goin...
A. 25 June 2008: Hi hun.
I usually write my friends' CV's for them and would be happy to help you. If you like, I can send you a 'mock' CV. Then you can just paste it into a word document and edit the details yourself to suit your requirements.
Other aunts a... (read in full...)
1 year on since heartbreak, and I haven't yet found anybody... Should I be worried, and how can I feel better?
Q. Hi everyone. Well, here I am, one day before the first anniversary of the day that my first love broke my heart. And I don't really know how to feel. Our relationship was long distance, lasted 2 years and we met up 13 times over that course of ...
A. 24 June 2008: Hi there. I have been in your situation before, so can relate to your post in many ways. As it has been a while since you did break up and you are starting to find things easier, but the memories remain at the forefront of your mind. You are ... (read in full...)
Why did I dream about sex with a girl? I'm straight!
Q. Okay so basically, I'm a straight 16-year-old girl. But last night, I had this dream where I was me trapped in a guy's body. Then this really beautiful girl walked over and made me lie on my back. Then she started touching all over my back. And then ...
A. 20 June 2008: I think the beautiful girl in your dream symbolised you and the guy was your fantasy partner. You did to yourself what you would like a guy to do to you. You basically saw yourself from a guys perspective. Then once the sex was over, you were able ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him treat me better?
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 19 June 2008: Whoah, you need to get rid of this guy and find someone who actually deserves you!
I feel as though he sees you as nothing more than a trophy. He has absolutely no right to speak to you or about you in that fashion.
I don't think the age differen... (read in full...)
My boyfriend acusses me of cheating all the time and I don't know what else to do, help please!
Q. Hiya, i'm really confused :( i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and everything is just going wrong :( i love him so much but at the moment he's really hurting me, he makes me sound like an awful person who only cares for myself and that really ...
A. 19 June 2008: Well he sounds like a really insecure boy, but maybe within reason if he has been hurt in the past.
However, this does not mean he can treat you in this way.
Have you spoken to him about the way you feel? It can sometimes be difficult when your par... (read in full...)
I think our relationship is over but I just don't know what to do!?
Q. i posted a problem a while ago about how my husband had been contacting his ex partner via facebook. I decided to try again and i really have been trying and so has he to the point where we are both trying to hard!!!!. we have just spent a w...
A. 19 June 2008: Oh hun, you really need to talk this over with him and let him know how you are feeling. He cannot do anything about it if he does not realise there is a problem.
I am not familiar with your other post about the facebook thing, but you are toge... (read in full...)
How to suggest rough sex? How to make him propose even though his divorce is not final?
Q. Ok I have posted here before and I got really good answers so Im going to try it again... How do I get my boyfriend to propose or even give me a promise ring even though his divorce isnt final? How do I get my boyfriend to be rough during sex...
A. 19 June 2008: Have you spoke to him about any of the issues you have?
Most problems can be sorted, providing the communication is good. Sit and talk with him about what you both want from the relationship. Talk about what turns you on most, fantasies, etc. Once... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to what 'oral sex' means!
Q. When people talk about oral sex, what is it really. is it unprotected sex or what? im confused please help!...
A. 17 June 2008: Oral sex means to use your mouth with the other persons genitals.
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Is it cheating? If so, how do I deal with something like this?
Q. I recently did something so stupid, I literally threw-up an hour after it happened. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought I would be the one to do something like this; I think it's down-right wrong and makes someone look and feel insecure about ...
A. 17 June 2008: Hun, no you should not tell your boyfriend.
What happened could just as easily have led to much much more, but it didn't.
Some people think a kiss is cheating, some people consider sexual contact to be cheating.
What you did was sexual conta... (read in full...)
I've left the teacher who meant everything to me, and my life is falling apart
Q. It was my last day at school yesterday, and i've had to leave this male teacher behind who means everything to me and has done for the past 18 months. I feel so drained and tired, it's as though my life has fallen apart! I know it has only been a ...
A. 17 June 2008: Firstly hun, do not think that you are the only one who has gone through this. Crushes like this are more common between people at your age than any other age group.
You need to try to keep your mind occupied for the time being and realise that... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with best friends cousin,how am I suppose to tell him.
Q. Im having a problem I hope someone can help me with.Im 15 still in school and I met this new girl in my school this year.She is very sexy and spanish,the only problem is she is my best friends cousin.My best friend is also mexican and he is very ...
A. 17 June 2008: I think you really need to discuss this with your friend. Tell him that you really like this girl and ask how he would feel if you asked her out on a date.
He must think you are a decent guy if he is your friend, so be respectful and talk to him ... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted that he showed me a pic of him wearing my knickers!
Q. I've started seeing this guy, and he's great. We get on really well, enjoy spending time together, and the sex is fantastic.... we're really open about our sexuality, and we're both very comfortable in the bedroom, despite only being with eacho...
A. 17 June 2008: I would be honest with him and tell him that he shouldn't be going through your underwear anyway. let alone wearing it.
It could just be a fetish of his, but you need to tell him how you feel about it, whilst trying to understand his side of thin... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and only want sex but can't find a girl that will accept that
Q. I am a virgin and it seems to me that im only attracted to women becayse of the sex but i cant find a girl to be with nthat accepts me the way that i am. ...
A. 17 June 2008: To be honest, I don't think there will be many women that will accept it.
Women like to be treated with respect, not as sex objects.
If it is just the sex you are interested in, with no strings, then I would suggest that you join a swingers... (read in full...)
Bullying problem! I need help!
Q. hello, i'm a 14 year old female living in england. I know this page is for love and sex questions but i have a really important one...about bulling. Its a long story but please read. Last friday me and my friend "AM" skived school. Even tho...
A. 16 June 2008: Well with the bullying hun, you really do need to speak to someone at the school.
If you think you can take her though hun, I would go for it. Bullies bully because they can. They choose easy targets who are smaller and weaker and rarely fight back... (read in full...)
Any tips for giving a handjob?
Q. ive been totally in love with my best friend for like 2 years and a couple weeks ago he told me he felt the same way so we started going out. so we've been fooling around and he can turn me on without any effort and even make me sqeal without ...
A. 16 June 2008: Just be yourself hun. Try to remain calm and don't let the foreplay seem rushed or nervy.
Personally, I find it a turn on if a girl is confident with me and doesnt have to try too hard.
Just remember, he likes you for who you are, not for how well... (read in full...)
First time worries: I heard it may be painful... what to expect?
Q. Okay, i'm going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but i'm a bit nervous. I get the idea on here that it hurts, but others i have spoken to say it doesn't? How long could this go on for? ...
A. 16 June 2008: Well it depends on how comfortable you are. It can vary from person to person, but if you are feeling tense or uneasy, then it can hurt quite a bit.
Just try to take things slowly and be patient.
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Does he still love me?!? What should I do??
Q. I was with this guy around a year and a half ago, and i really loved him. I still believe he is the one for me and lately i have realised i still love him. He is with somebody else, they have been together two months. Me and him were together for a ...
A. 16 June 2008: To be honest hun, you shouldn't really do anything. He is with someone else now and you really should not come between them. You are in danger of earning yourself a reputation if you become involved with them.
If you really feel that strongly abou... (read in full...)
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