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Now we are back together he never says he loves me!!

Q.   My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(. what do i do?...

A.   4 September 2007: Hi If I were you then I would try playing him at his own game, it seems to me that he is confused. Try to stop telling him that you love him, and just wait, then after a couple of days or weeks, which ever you can handle (REMEMBER NEVER PUSH YOUR ... (read in full...)

I don't want my bf getting sucked into his ex's dramas!!

Q.   An old girlfriend tried to I.M. my b/f tonight while we were on the computer downloading some music. He chose the "do not accept" this person as an I.M. buddy, but I was still upset that she's contacting him. He claims he hasn't talked to her and ...

A.   4 September 2007: I think that maybe you should ask your boyfriend to email her, maybe it would then seem genuin that he does not want to speak to her. It seems that he is fixed on you anyway so I'm glad that you feel that you can trust him, but I would not contact ... (read in full...)

Our paths keep crossing and I feel we should be together.

Q.   Is there any chance of getting back together,i was with a guy for 7 months we had a good relationship together,never argued,thing was i fell in love with him and i think it scared him. We was talking about moving in together,but because he had ...

A.   4 September 2007: There is always a chance of getting back together, but I think that with this guy, he's scared of commitment, thats why I think now you may need to slow down to his speed. When you do bump into him from now on always try to make a point of saying h... (read in full...)

I had a tubal reversal. Now I'm wondering if I could be pregnant?

Q.   I had a tubal reversal of 1 2007 no luck yet but this month i started 3 days early is this a sign of being pregnant?...

A.   4 September 2007: No this is not a sign, it is most likely only your period being early, however the best way to find out if you are pregnant is to go to the doctors or buy a home pregnancy test, if your not then why dont you try the ovulation test from clear blue, ... (read in full...)

How can I handle the tour of duty?

Q.   Last night I got back with my boyfriend. We went out for a year and broke up because he had some issues he needed to sort out. We found we seemed to pull back together and after a long talk last night to give it another go. He is a soldier and next ...

A.   4 September 2007: Distance makes the heart grow fonder the saying goes, when your boyfriend is away it is always natural for you to miss him and be worried about him. While he is away if I were you I would use this time to see your friends more, take time out with... (read in full...)

I'm almost 16 and haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know theres plenty of time but why do other girls cheat and seem to get a different guy all the time???

Q.   I am almost 16 years old, and I haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know, there's no rush and I've got 'tons of time to find the right one'. But what I don't understand is why girls who are constantly cheating and doing awful things to their ...

A.   3 September 2007: They always say that the nice guy finishes last, in some cases its true, at teenage years you will always find that the girls who cheat, and do horrid things to their boyfriends are the ones that feel most insecure in life. It happens all the ... (read in full...)

Can an 18 yr old get in trouble for dating a 14 yr old even though they are not having sex?

Q.   If my mate goes out with her boyfriend who is now 18 and she is only 14 even though there not having sex or anything like that could he be put in prison ?...

A.   3 September 2007: Not if the parents say that they are happy with the arrangement, plus he would only be put in jail if someone had called in complaining about it. So I wouldnt worry to much about it, but if you are worried and they are going out then just ask them ... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell me the meaning of a bj please?

Q.   hi i just wanted to know what the hell a bj is, cuz everyone is talking about it and no1 will tell me the meaning. thx!! xoxoxoxoxoxxox...

A.   3 September 2007: A bj is normally short for a blow job. It when a girl sucks a boy penis... That about it really lol! Hope you get it now! BeckyBadger x... (read in full...)

I was abused in the past and I found out my guy watches porn. What should I do or say about it?

Q.   I have been with my man for 7 years gonna get married well about 9 years ago i was abused for a sexually abused for a year he has always surported, me but now i have found that he watches porn when i go bed. it makes my skin crawl and he doesnt ...

A.   3 September 2007: Hi Im becky, and sorry to hear what has happened to you, A good idea if you dont mind watching the porn with him, go to bed and wait for him to put the porn on, then get up and go to him calmly and sit by the side of him and ask him what he is u... (read in full...)

How should I propose to a girl?

Q.   I want to propose a girl but how? ...

A.   3 September 2007: Hi Im becky! I would have to say that you should try to propose the way you think comes naturally. The most common proposals are usually over a candle lit dinner, with the ring either given on one knee, or placed in the girls champane gla... (read in full...)

How should I propose to a girl?

Q.   I want to propose a girl but how? ...

A.   3 September 2007: If I were you I would try to do what is natural to you both, as in your favorute way to spend time together. The most common is to take the girl out for a dinner date, then between the main course and the afters, propose, or wait until the end an... (read in full...)

My mates have all had experience with boys. Why does noone want me?

Q.   Im 15 and have had ZERO experience with a boy. All my friends have snogged boys, gave and been given oral gave handjobs, been fingered. And i have not done any of that. The most i have done is hugged a boy! I feel so repulsive. Im 5"1, 9st 5 and the ...

A.   3 September 2007: Hello, Try not to panic or worry at the situation. I guess your friends do believe that it is quite strange that you have not done any of these things yet, but I would really not worry about it. If I were you I would make a point of going out ... (read in full...)

Post breakup sex and he is playing with my head

Q.   hey all im really confused, Me and my ex have been broke up for just over 3 months. It was a bad break up, but yet we have still continued to sleep together. Whenever i ask if he wants to work stuff out he says i dont know, or 'i'm never gunn...

A.   3 September 2007: Hi there, I just read your letter and I really think that you just need to take control, you dont have to stop being in contact with your ex, if he wants to talk then fine, meet up in a public place, then the sex can be avoided and he will have to ... (read in full...)

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