I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old... I'm not sexually attracted to her... maybe it's something else I'm infatuated about... maybe her attitude, happy disposition or whatever... anyway if this i...
A. 16 August 2007: Well, you say you don't feel sexual feelings for her, well, maybe it isn't a crush. Maybe you just like how she handles herself and attitude, like you mentioned in your question. I think maybe you have friendship confused with a crush.... (read in full...)
We have so much in common and get along so well but neither of us have a tendancy to date people with more than a 6 or so year difference!!
Q. Hi everyone!! I'm in a bit of a dilemma! I'm 19 and I have been working with a guy who I now find out is 38 (OMG) who I thought was a lot younger at first haha!! I have been working with him for a fair while now and have developed feelings for him...
A. 16 August 2007: First off, I'm very happy you've found someone that you have feelings for, I think you should go for it, baby. Frankly, what's the worst that could happen? You like him, he likes you, yes, there's an age gap, but that can be overcome. Give it a fair ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm ready for sex (or not)?
Q. I don't know if I am ready for sex but I really want to give my boyfriend my virginity he is really nice and cares about me and is only willing to do it if I am ready for it. It will be my first time and he is wanting to make it the best. How will I ...
A. 13 August 2007: If you don't know, you aren't. Its that simple. When you are, you know it. And if you're asking, you're not. I hope this is helpful, baby.... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!
Q. Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!...
A. 13 August 2007: Some girls don't bleed. Some girls don't have 'cherries' at all. And sometimes, even still, it just stretches to the side and doesn't rip. It's perfectly normal, babe.... (read in full...)
How do you deal with age gaps and long distance at the same time?
Q. Hi... I'm currently happily dating a 17 year old for almost a year now. We live in seperate states, and we've lived by phone and email for a long time now. My question goes out to the other older people in age gap relationship: How do you cop...
A. 13 August 2007: Well. She will grow, and she will change, and her life will go where her life will go. But she loves you, she'll want you there to grow and change with her. Yes, she'll have lots of things to experience, but she'll want to share them with you. ... (read in full...)
He acts young so does that make my relationship with a 26 year old ok (I'm 14)... ?
Q. Is it ok to have a relationship with a guy whose age gap is 12yrs.older than you? I'm 14 and he's 26... I mean, he looks like a teenager and sometimes acts like one... and we can relate to some things......
A. 12 August 2007: I'm seventeen and my boyfriend just turned twenty nine. When I was your age, a thirty year old tried to date me, he acted on my level and told me I was mature and that I matched his level really well. Truth be told, he just wanted to sleep with me. ... (read in full...)
I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!
Q. Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old ...
A. 11 August 2007: He's a good guy, and he'll understand if I bring it up to him, and I would love to marry him, but I told him that I would like to wait until I feel more ready. =) Thanks again everyone3... (read in full...)
What is this discharge I have..it's scaring me!
Q. well Since i was 7 or 8 i have had this clear stuff come out my vagina and now its turned brownish and i havnt started my peroid yet and im getting really scared about it what is it please help and quick ...
A. 11 August 2007: Well, right before my period I get brownish discharge, have you been cramping or gotten a headache?... (read in full...)
I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!
Q. Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old ...
A. 11 August 2007: Thanks for your help, its truely appriciated.... (read in full...)
I hate living on my own with just the 3 kids and I want him back but he won't come home and I dont know what to do?
Q. I've kicked my partner our of 4 years for speaking 2 my eldest child who is not his, like rubbish. He calls her names and tells her he hates her all the time, we have 2 children together and I really miss him, he won't come and see his kids and he ...
A. 11 August 2007: Are you serious? If he'd treat your child like that, then he doesn't deserve to breath,let alone have children of his own. And even worse, as the mother of that child you should keep him as far from said child as possible. Its your responcibility to ... (read in full...)
I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught
Q. iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...
A. 11 August 2007: Well doll. Seems you've gotten a lot of people saying not to do it, and I agree, but they're not adressing the full thing. You want to explore your body, masturbate. Sex isn't really necessary if you want to feel good.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he's 32 and I'm very afraid of hurting cos even though it all sounds fine it's still on internet and he may be "fake" even though I dont think so.
Q. I met a guy on internet just for cybering about a year ago, then I didn't enter for about 10 months, after 10 months I started to enter and blocked all the people except for one in particular. Anyway we started to chat not only cybering, I mean ...
A. 10 August 2007: I read your question and I just had to reply to you. I met my boyfriend on my seventeenth birthday and he was twenty eight. I met him through 'vampirefreaks' and I was horrified for a few months that it was only 'fake'. I suggest asking him to ca... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 25 what's the problem?
Q. im 17 going on 18 in about a month. im in love with a 25 year old. weve been dating secretly for about a year now, and my parents just found out and wont let me have anything to do with him. how can i make then understand how i feel, its not about ...
A. 10 August 2007: Personally, I don't see a problem. I'm a bit younger than you, and my boyfriend is a bit older than yours. My parents don't know yet, but I'd imagine that since you will be eighteen in a month, You could just say, "Alright, mother. I'll leave it ... (read in full...)
I want my marriage to last but I am so unhappy! How do I deal with this?
Q. I married and find myself to be unhappy and as more time go by, I seem to feel colder and colder inside. I love my wife but find myself not to be in love with her. We've been married for little over a year now and have a beautiful daughter about ...
A. 10 August 2007: I know this is going to hurt to hear, and I'm very sorry to have to say it, but if you're that unhappy and have to fake the relationship, then you shouldn't be in it. And you can get custody or visitation of your daughter. I understand that you ... (read in full...)
Should I send a letter to my old boss saying how I felt about the way he treated me?
Q. I want to know if I should send a letter to my old boss saying how I feel about the way he treated me? I worked for a business 7 yrs. I was reliable, never asked for a raise or anyhting. I got along great with all of the employees even though some ...
A. 10 August 2007: Yes, of course send the letter. That was a very wrong thing to do, especially after telling you differently and letting you receive all of that money to pay back. I think you should go for it.... (read in full...)
I do stuff to my friend but it makes me feel weird
Q. ok, i m a virgin, but i don't have a boyfriend yet. but i have a really good friend that lets me do stuff 2 him, he has done stuff 2 me also, but everytime we do something, i fell really weird?? why is this happening?...
A. 10 August 2007: Well, I would think that maybe you're not ready for that stuff yet, and beyond that, if he's just your friend, maybe you don't feel THAT way for him. That could make you feel a little weird about it, too.... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: Well. My boyfriend and I do it together, as odd as this sounds.. He lives a few hundred miles away from me, and we use the phone and mutual masturbation to be intiment. I agree that he's cheating on you, with his own right hand. For you to have ... (read in full...)
I just want my husband back!
Q. I have been married for 18 years. I have two kids and raised my step daughter since age 2. Over the years, I had a great marriage. We always had an exciting sex life and looked forward to those intimate times. My Husband had full custody of his ...
A. 10 August 2007: Oh my... I had an exboyfriend like that (smaller scale, I have no idea how that would be for you). But to be honest, I don't know that there IS a way to get him back. He made his choices and he has to live with them. Would you really WANT someone ... (read in full...)
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