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writes: My boyfriend and i have been dating for about one year and 5 months. Everything would be ok, except i have caught him cheating on of by texting 5 times. I feel like i cant trust him anymore. I get so much anxiety over it i get sick. Hes says he wont do it anymore but thats what he said the other time too. Normally i would have left after the first time. But now i have my 6 month old daughter to think about to. Please help me!
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (16 January 2009):
Hun, you know what you have to do. If he's got away with it five times and even after apologising continues to do so, you know you can't trust him.
This is not the way a relationship should feel - you feeling sick and anxious about everytime he looks at his phone. You have every right to be upset and worried but don't give him that opportunity anymore.
I realise this will be hard but just remember - he cheated on you five times after saying he wouldn't do it. You can't trust him anymore and the foundation of every relationship is trust. He realises it upsets you and he continues to do so? Get rid of him, love. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't do this.
Find someone who deserves your love, not someone who'll hurt you and continue to do so even after he's been found out.
Take care and best of luck xx
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