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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...

Can I still think of myself as a virgin since my ex had a small penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it possible to think you're still a virgin after you've had sex a few times??? Im asking this cuz my ex had a small penis and im ready to have sex with my new partner but im afraid cuz he has a 9 inch penis... Give me your opinions...

Time for this virgin to get her sexy on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 24-year-old virgin and I've just now got my first boyfriend. Got your attention yet? Good. Anyhow, he knows I'm a virgin, and so he's been a really patient guy and letting me take it slow. We've fooled around, sure, but he always stops himself ...

Should I regret losing my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Should I regret losing my V-card? last year I gave my virginity to my first bf ( I was 22 and he was 25)...at first things were great I thought we were in love, but I guess it was just lust. We dated for a month, then he dumped me and then we were ...

Should I lose my virginity to my friends with benefits guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Long story short i have a Friend with Benefits we have met before, but we Haven't yet met up for 'sexual favours' and I know that he just wants me for sex and sh*t, but that's all I looking for anyways but I'm a virgin (he knows this) ...

I wanted to make her first time special but I couldnt keep it up! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm 19 m and in the most perfect relationship I've ever been in, it's been 6 months now and I am madly inlove with her. But- I was molested about 3 weeks ago.. and since then alot seems different, i have anxiety and can't really leave the...

How do you know if you are ready to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm 14 years old. I have had a boyfriend now for almost 6 months. He is truly amazing! I love him with all my heart and I would do anything fo him. :) The thing is that I'm a virgin however he is not. He has had sex 3 times with the same ...

Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl who is a virgin, but last week I was fingered by a guy I actually really like. He was gentle and he understood that I was a Virgin and that I really had no idea about what it was I was supposed to do, but the weird thing is - ...

I feel ready to lose my virginity, but am I wrong to think this way?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am a 15 year old Christian girl who likes to take a, as my mom would say "ride on the wild side". and lately i've had one thing on my mind when im near my bf. well actually more then one but them all leading to the same thing. SEX I am a virgin a...

He has a perfect body and I'm insecure about mine.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I think it would be best if I just ... got straight into it. I am a virgin, and nothing is changing that anytime soon - not even my boyfriend (regardless of how he stands on the subject). However, I do believe that considering my m...

What do I say to my daughter who wants birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - My 16 year old daughter came up to me last night while I was making dinner and asked for birth control. At first I didn't say anything I was in total shock. Let me give you some back story. She's a good kid. She's no straight A student and she'...

Will my body issues turn my fling off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - So I'm kinda worried right now. I have this fling ( we were on a no commitment zone) and we were planning to get into the sack after his vacation next month. Although we've seen each other in person, this will be our first sexual experience. The...

She says she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, so why is she flirting with other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

24 March 2011 (M) - need help guys, The thing is i have a girlfrd and we've been together like almost 4 years and we've been doing good and i can say she was 100% honest with me and everything. We start it in college now we both have a job. But first there was this guy ...

He didnt go inside me fully, does this mean I am still a virgin and will bleed when I have sex again with my future husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - I had a friend in college whom i like a lot.. I would actually say I loved him but he did not love me. But he liked me and we used to make out. But I dint wanna lose my virginity that time. I was 20.Still we were making out and he went inside me a ...

Planning for the future -- how bad is the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - i know this sounds stupid, but I'm genuinely curious... exactly how painful is sex? i mean, does it compare to anything? i plan in saving myself until I'm 18, or even marriage. but i still wont to know because knowing me, I'll hate it and prob...

I lost my virginity and now he says he doesn't want a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Two nights ago, I had lost my virginity. The first time, I really do love this boy, even though we had have a rough past. Very rough. He's the type of boy I had kissed when we were in about grade 7 and I had felt a "spark". He hurts me to the point ...

Scared that my small penis will cause my first experience to be bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M) - hi i m 24..asian.. i have never had any kind of experience with any women.. but now i m kind of desperate becoz i think its time to get into a relationship and know women.... above that what makes me most conscious is i have a average sized ...

I feel obligated to sleep with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (?) - I would really appreciate if somebody could answer me. So here's the story; It begins like every other lovestory: girl meets boy, girl likes boy and boy feels the same. We started dating like two months ago nad it has been really fun. He is really c...

How do I stop my moodiness?

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22 March 2011 (F) - Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i thin...

Virgin at 20, should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

22 March 2011 (M) - Hi i am a 20 yr old male and still a virgin. this fact depresses the hell out of me. everywhere i go theres people all having so much fun and i feel that im missing the best parts of my life and falling behind on much needed experience. most people ...

Should I accept his invite to visit his home? he's 23 years older than me. I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - What do you think about this ?. I recently started meeting up with a much older man ( he's 23 years older than me ) . I cant exactly say that we are dating yet, as we have only met up a few times for a drink. Recently, some of his friends, who are ...

I'm still a virgin at 20!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - im going to be twenty in 2 days and im still a virgin. is this normal? at times i lie awake at night and despise myself for it. other times i think its fine and i shouldnt worry. ive considered losing it to an escort-going so far as to make the ...

I am a virgin and not pregnant. But why have I not had a period since January?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I am 16, and I am really confused. My last period started January 5th, and I havent gotten one since. There is no possible way I could be pregnant, I am a virgin. What is going on with my body? It is really starting to worry me that I have missed ...

Boyfriend wants to shower with me but we are virgins and I'm afraid it will lead to sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on a holiday together which means that we are going to stay in the same room. He wants to shower with me but I don't know if I should as we are still virgins and I am afraid that that will lead to sex. Although, we h...

Can you suggest a way to make having sex less painful??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Okay this question strictly applies to sex ; theres no relationship problems involved. So if anyone has knowledge about this please respond. Okay, i'm a young female and whenever I lost my virginity two years ago. And i've had sex since. However, ...

Married 2 years and we're both still virgins!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - I've been married for 2 years and my husband has a pre-ejaculation problem. I am a virgin and so is he. I am getting frustrated every time we try to make love and he would ejaculate before he can even penetrate inside me. He just cannot control it, ...

I am inexperiened in love. And too embarassed that I'm a virgin. Should I reveal this to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

18 March 2011 (F) - I have a problem that i feel quite embarassed about. I'm almost 27 years old, and i'm still a virgin. That makes me feel bad enough, but what makes me feel even worse is that i am currently interested in a man who is 23 years older than me. He appa...

How can I let her down gently? She was a virgin. I was drunk. Her family could be a problem

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - hello. i slept with my best mates sister the other day. im 20 shes 18 it was just a drunken mistake at a party. but she thinks were together how can let her down gently and without her family finding out. also make thing worse she was a virgin. plz ...

I like him, but he's unsure of his feelings; I want a relationship, but he wants us to be Friends with Benefits. What do I do now??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F) - Hello, everyone. I am really confused about my feelings for my best friend and was hoping maybe you guys would help me. We became really good friends when we started university together. At first I didnt like him, just as good friends. When we ...

He has trouble getting inside me during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Im 19 Im in a commited relationship with my boyfriend where both virgins and are ready and want to have sex but when we try he has trouble getting it in and after a couple of attempts im soar and cant continue .We have no idea what to do,Weve done ...

I'm a virgin and sex is daunting!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin. I am ready to finally have sex but i find it very daunting and being that intimate with someone is rather scary. I have someone i would like to be my first but i keep avoiding it because of this. How ca...

I'm not sure what the point of a physical relationship is, is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi i really really need some advice. I am a female, Muslim, about 22 years old, virgin, never had a boyfriend and I live in Asia. I study in a college with co-education system. But i don't have male friends, because I'm from a conservative family. I ...

We're not supposed to have sex before marriage but we want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I lost my virginity a couple of years ago, and was in a serious and long relationship which was sexually active. However, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years and soon after I became a Christian so I know I am not supposed to have sex before ...

I'm not sure if I lost my virginity....?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if I've lost my virginity or not because every time I look it up all I ever get are stuff about heterosexual sex. yes, it happened with another girl. which is why I'm not sure about it! I'm very confused. I'm not even sure if it'd cou...

I'm 23 and still virgin. Is this bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. Is that bad?...

Why do I feel scared and nervous with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago and i kind of got the feeling that he liked me and i liked him back. So we would text and get to know eachother but flirt sometimes. But the thing was he wouldnt make a move and i wouldnt either i was too shy. But ...

I lost my virginity and feel so depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M) - I'm seventeen years old and last summer (like July '10) I met a girl and I fell for her badly, we only saw each other for a month and we didn't even go out or do anything sexual (we kissed) thing is, I was a virgin at the time (I'm not anymore) and ...

Do I tell him that "He's the one"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

12 March 2011 (F) - HELP!! Ok, I am like BFF's with this guy (we live in separate countries)and I have not seen him in like 7 months. Now, he is coming to see me. I have started to have really strong feelings for him, and I feel like he could be "the one" meaning ...

I'm 15 and thinking of losing my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

12 March 2011 (M) - I'm 15 years old. I thinking about losing my virginity with my ex. Me and my ex broke up about 3 years ago. Now we go to the same school and we love to call each other name and just make jokes [in public]. A typical high school crash I guest. We ...

How do I find meaning in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

10 March 2011 (M) - Am a 24 yr old male. Am very talented in academics and I have been very successful in my career and I feel am gifted with high intelligence. I always top in everything I take up. I have been working real hard in my career and also trying to prove ...

How to cure my stretch marks for losing confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

10 March 2011 (F) - I am now being the whole body of my lower parts.I am so sad for that somebody thought that I am not virgin.I am now still virgin and I am now 22 years old.I felt that I looks like 60 years old women.I wanna wear short skirt what should I do? I felt ...

Help for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now and i feel ready for sex, we've tried before but it just hurts me alot, so i was wondering if theres any advice for first time? i heard taking paracetamol helps....

Is he playing mind games like my exes?

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9 March 2011 (F) - Hello, hope you can help me.This may be long so i apologise in advance. I have been with my boyfriend now for just over two months and so far it has been quite a bumpy road... I'd known him for three years previously and we got along well enoug...

Bleeding but scared to see a gynae doctor

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

8 March 2011 (F) - I have this weird problem that Im a virgin 32 year old and still not been able to give in to my guy, even though I fantasize so much and so wanna have sex but even the mere thought makes me so wet that now I even bleed while Im with him and ...

My girlfriend lied to me about being a virgin and its really eating away at me now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

8 March 2011 (M) - Hello all, I am in a comiteed relationship from last 4-5 years. When i had sex with my girlfriend for the first time i knew that she is not virgin, i often used to ask but she always refused, but some time back because of my forcing she told me ...

I don't know how to approach my boyfriend with this issue.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

8 March 2011 (F) - I've never had sex before but am with someone now who i trust enough that i have started to consider losing my virginity to them. We have touched on the subject briefly but i'm not so good at talking about my feelings in general so he doesn't ...

This is going to ruin my relationship... How do I get past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - This is going to ruin my realtionship Dear cupid let me start things on a happy note for once i have a girlfreind that i love dearly and would do anyhting for she is my world my moon and my stars. ive only ever had one relationship other to he...

Should I ask him to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now (yeah, I know x)), he's 16 and I'm 17 and I love him and I can really tell he loves me too. My problem is: we haven't had sex and we don't want to right now but we've got to half of the 2nd base ...

Is it impossible to think I might be able to marry a virgin or at least a very inexperienced girl?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Is marrying a non promiscuous girl a rarity in todays world. I am a virgin man looking to marry a virgin or someone with very little sexual experiences. Is there a possibility that this may happen or should I not care about this....

How do I tell him I'm not up for a casual roll in the hay??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - the guy i have been seeing exclusively for the past few months recently told me that he didn't think he was in the right place for a relationship, mainly because at the end of the year he is leaving uni and going abroad, but that he does really care ...