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writes:Im 19 Im in a commited relationship with my boyfriend where both virgins and are ready and want to have sex but when we try he has trouble getting it in and after a couple of attempts im soar and cant continue .We have no idea what to do,Weve done the fore play to make sure im wet enough but nothing seems to help.Any advice would be appreciated greatly.And if any guys have any ideas what he should do please let me know .TThanks
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reader, Cupid_or_Stupid  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Firstly, using a condom will help reduce friction and also they have lube on them to help him in easier. You might want to look into extra lube too. If you say you've tried foreplay then keep at that. Maybe you should 'prepare' more first? Getting your body ready for it. Maybe add one more finger than usual etc. When he presses against you make sure to take deep breathes and relax, guide him in yourself SLOWLY and control his movements by keeping your hands on his hips.
Hope this helps! :)
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