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writes:I had a friend in college whom i like a lot.. I would actually say I loved him but he did not love me. But he liked me and we used to make out. But I dint wanna lose my virginity that time. I was 20.Still we were making out and he went inside me a bit once. It pained like hell and he stopped. I bled a little. Now I met a guy at office and i really love him. He loves me too. I m 22 and we are going to get married. I really wanna lose my virginity to him. If i could take back what i happened i would definitely take it back. That guy whom i had slept with previously was telling me that he dint go in fully and i would bleed again when I have sex. Is that so? Can anyone help me with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Exactly the same kinda thing happened to me. He was in me for a few seconds and I pushed him off because I was in so much pain. I bled that night and I thought I was no longer a virgin. Although technically speaking I guess I wasn't really, my best mate (Who is now my boyfriend) told me I still was if I wanted to be because it was hardly sex. The next time I had sex (and what I counted as my first time) made me bleed a little but not a lot. I guess it depends on how much you bled and how much you tore. If you tore all the way then you won't bleed again. If you tore part way you may bleed again. Although, from my experience, the blood came a few minutes after the sex was over so don't be too worried about it.If you're marrying your new partner you are obviously close, so open up and talk to him about it so he knows to go easy. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): Virginity is a state of mind as well as a physilogical "condition". Do you consider what you had as sex? I know I wouldn't! You could very well bleed again. I lost my virginity at a very young age to a boy I later married and the first 4 or 5 times I bled and it hurt starting. It is possible you will bleed. Here is a question though.. Did you ever ride a boy's Bicycle? I did and fell on it it hurt I bled and hymen was broke. the hymen being broke is what some call losing virginity. I call it when you actually have concentual Lovemaking and sexual intercourse. "MY FEELING" on this one is that you are a virgin and if you want to loose your virginity to this man you are in love with and he loves you then that little part won't matter. Make sure foreplay is involved though so that it won't be painful for either of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): "It pained like hell and he stopped. I bled a little."
Sorry honey you are no longer a virgin.
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