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36-40,
*orchwood
writes:I'm a 24-year-old virgin and I've just now got my first boyfriend. Got your attention yet? Good. Anyhow, he knows I'm a virgin, and so he's been a really patient guy and letting me take it slow. We've fooled around, sure, but he always stops himself before it goes too far. All in good time, he says. He's told me, half-jokingly, that I'm frustrating him, sexually, but I think really deep down he really is taking it slow for my sake.Well, the time has come now where I'm really like BRING IT ON. I'm ready. I feel like I get so hot for him sometimes that I'm ready to burn up. I'm sure about it. But now I'm afraid to initiate anything, because he'll still have that 'all in good time' attitude. I don't want to seem easy or anything. How do I convince him I'm ready without just coming out and awkwardly trying to say it? Reply to this Question
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (31 March 2011):
 awwww im so happy for you :)
you wont appear easy to him no matter what you do. you are 24 and a virgin :)
you can ask him to buy candles :P After 1-2 days you can bring them out & ask him to light them :) He will get it.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (31 March 2011):
awwww im so happy for you :)
you wont appear easy to him no matter what you do. you are 24 and a virgin :)
you can ask him to buy candles :P After 1-2 days you can bring them out & ask him to light them :) He will get it.
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (31 March 2011):
Well maybe you could wait until it's one of those night where you're both fooling around and when he goes to stop, ask him to carry on perhaps?
If he asks or hesitates just say you've thought it through and feel ready. That should be enough.
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reader, 16finix  +, writes (31 March 2011):
i think u can show ur interest by ur emotions,physical appearance and body language. if his love is true he will never underestimate ur feelings and think u as 'easy going'. best of luckk!! :)
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reader, FamousWarrior  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 Put it on paper and leave it on his pocket, or try something simple, sometime simple is best
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