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writes:So I'm kinda worried right now. I have this fling ( we were on a no commitment zone) and we were planning to get into the sack after his vacation next month. Although we've seen each other in person, this will be our first sexual experience. The thing is, I just got into this really really ugly backne last month and it left me some dark big scars. I'm doing everything to lighten up the scars on my back. So my skin is fair, which makes it visible. I'm now shy to put on my clothes that'll show off my back. Will this turn him off?
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 The only people that don't have imperfections are the ones you see in the magazines. Here's a hint, the "touch up department" air brushes the hell out of these photos.Everyone has imperfections, he has them too.If your's bother him, then I guess he's a little too superficial. Your better off without him.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 You are who you are. If he has a problem with that then you can find someone better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): He might notice, but I highly doubt that it would be much of an issue. I can't imagine getting that picky about a woman's appearance.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 A couple of trips to a tanning salon might help them fade. But he probably won't even notice or say anything bad about them. If he does then he wasn't worth it in the first place.
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reader, cupidlover89 +, writes (25 March 2011):
First, I think the no commitment zone adds to your insecurities. I think women over anaylize what a man thinks. Men don't really study your body that closely! Only a shallow guy would be worried about some acne scars...maybe you have nice breasts, maybe you have nice curves, maybe you have a nice bum! Try to concentrate on what you think is the sexiest part of your body, and your concerns about a little scarring will be non existant, and you can enjoy your experience.Ps...a man is most attracted to confidence, you go in there with your head held high, he will not care about your acne!
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