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writes:Is it possible to think you're still a virgin after you've had sex a few times??? Im asking this cuz my ex had a small penis and im ready to have sex with my new partner but im afraid cuz he has a 9 inch penis... Give me your opinions
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (31 March 2011):
 I feel your pain. Lol. My first bf ever had a very small penis, about four inch and my fiance has a ten inch penis, it hurt quite a bit when we first had sex.
You can't however consider yourself a virgin because your vagina has been penetrated by a penis and the definition of a virgin is, "someone who hasn't been penetrated by a penis." So no you aren't a virgin. Although it may feel like you are losing your virginity because of the difference is size of penis.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 You're not a virgin honey, you had a penis inside of you. No matter how small, you had intercourse, you had sex, you got naked with a man and you did the deed.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 Sorry I'm trying not to laugh here - you have had sex! Of course you are not a virgin! I really dont understand why, after having sex a number of times, you then start thinking 'oh I'm a virgin again because he was only small' - that is just bizzare!
No matter what size the penis, providing it has entered your vagina and you have had sex, then you are not a virgin. You lose your virginity the first time you have sex, regardless of how big or small the penis is.
As for your boyfriend with his big penis - just ask him to take it slow and stop him if it hurts. You can have had sex thousands of times and a really large penis will still hurt any woman, virgin or not. So just take it slow, make sure you are well lubricated and relaxed. Your vagina can expand to allow you to give birth to a baby, so it is a very flexible part of the body. As long as you are prepared for a bit of pain the first few times you have sex with him, eventually it will start to feel better and it will get easier.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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