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writes:need help guys, The thing is i have a girlfrd and we've been together like almost 4 years and we've been doing good and i can say she was 100% honest with me and everything. We start it in college now we both have a job. But first there was this guy flirting with here through FB and i found out about it and she reply to him also. And she didn't tell me about it. And when i found out about it, i told her that she has been changed lately and i told her that i know about the guy but she over reacted on me that this is her private life and has nothing to do with our love and he is just flirting with her and im really in love with her so I apologizes to her and we continue. And now that they are still chatting on FB and i even saw a video thats captured from his apartment veranda from her camera and since i know his apartment and i ask her about it and she lie to me again and i kept quite cause i dont know what to do and i love her to death. And there is also another guy that she works with and flirt with him too. i know this things cause i know her passwords. i know this is not good but what can i do? The craziest thing she is still virgin and she want to lose it to me and she told me that she loves me and we talked about that we are going to have sex. So im confused really, i really don't know what does it mean cause i thought girls want to lose their virginity to the guy they want to marry and love so much? I hope im not confusing you here. and you can say are you sure that she is virgin and i can tell you she is im 100% sure. I also try to talk to her about us calmly that how did she see our relationship in the future and she told me that she want to marry me and she also tell about me to her friend and her friend told me that she want to spend her life with me. i really afraid of her and i can’t even ask her or tell her how i feel about her cause i think that what if she left me. so please please if you have the time please help me suggest me something. thanks for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks dude. but i'm really in luv with her and i don't know hw to break up with her. that is a lot to take for me
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reader, amenthyst3356  +, writes (24 March 2011):
To me when you are in a relationship, you can have your own hang out time with your friends. BUT you don't have a seperate personal life, you still have your spouse with you some of the time. She is not serious and is totally disrespecting your relationship. It's time to tell her goodbye. She has lied to you and is openly flirting with others, you can ask her if she wants to change and work at it, but it sounds like she has been done with your relationship for a while. Stay firm and good luck!
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