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*illh
writes:I'm not very experienced at relationships, since i've only been in two. This one being my second. My first gf and I lasted a few months, and now i'm on the 2nd month, with my new girlfriend. I do everything right, i treat her the best, tell her she's the best and hangout with her, when i'm not working. I took her out for St Valentine's day and made her a card from the heart and we spent time doing things she loved. We havn't said we love each other yet, ( i mean its only been 2 months) and keep in mind its not about the sex, i am a virgin. Everything i feel for her is emotional, she doesnt know i'm a virgin though, and has been with a few other guys and has been in two, year long relationships. She cares about me a lot and always tells me i'm the best boyfriend she's ever had. Now here's my dilemma, i went to a party the other night, i told her i was going, even asked her to come, but she said she wanted to have a girl's night instead. She text me later and asked to go to the party, i said, of course.. she knew i would be drinking and at one point asked me why i WASN'T under the influence. Halfway through the night i'm buzzed and she decides to tell me she wanted to say a lot of things to me that night. At one point i go outside drunk(not stumbling but i dont notice much of my surroundings...) she texts me later that night saying she was in a car parked near me waving at me and i didnt notice her, which is true, its also pitch black out and there are a lot of cars outside. She texts me later that night and i ask her what she was going to say to me, she says, 'how everytime i kiss her it makes her want to say ''i love you'' and how she's head over heels for me.' i say i am too. the night seems to end well. the next morning things are still going good and she tells me she is "so so so happy" and she was glad she expressed how she felt to me. Then today ( our 2 month anniversary, i know it's not much) she texts me saying how she is still pissed i didn't notice her on Friday, and she starts telling me how she doesn't know if she meant what she said that night. This is devastating to me since i actually care about this girl a lot. any advice?
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reader, rachel aniston  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 i dont get your question,although i would advice that talking with her about this matter can work out,just ask her if she is stressed out[girls react this way when they are stressed or upset with something extra going in their life]and also you may ask her what she really thinks about you and make her clear what you think about her..................may b this can work out
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reader, billh +, writes (21 February 2011):
billh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot people, i really needed someone to talk to about this, and hear their opinions, u r good people.
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reader, shawncaff +, writes (21 February 2011):
 A couple things I don't get:
Why did she not come out of the car to see you? Why did she just wait there?
Why was she upset that she didn't see you?
I hope she is not playing with you. I think you should clarify these things with her ASAP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): It could be that time of the month or it could just be her.
Well, if you still wanna be with her, which from the way you've written, you will do, just tell her that you were quite tipsy to begin with and that the darkness didn't allow you to see.
I don't get why your girl's so pissed though.
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