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writes:Please help. i was in a relationship with a guy about a year ago and he broke up with me but i wasn't ready to split with him so i spent most of last year wishing i had him back. i thought i was heart broken. in the last few months we became really close and i'm with him again but something doesn't feel right. what is wrong with me? is it that i wanted him when i couldn't have him but now i have him i don't want him? thats so immature and i'm not like that about anything else. he says he'll call but he doesn't, he doesn't reply to texts properly, sometime with two or three word answers unless he is the one initiating conversation in which case he's suddenly interested. i dont text him if i know he's busy. am i over him or something? he is my bestfriend and we talk about everything but i'm not sure if my feelings end there. i hate myself firstly for wasting time being miserable when i was over him but secondly, i dont think i could break up with him because i care too much about him and he is so sensitive. i am such a bitch:(
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reader, Eilish +, writes (21 February 2011):
 In my opinion, I think you are over this guy. I think you learnt to live so long without him, that you're actually used to him not being with you.xxx
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reader, sha9991 +, writes (21 February 2011):
Hi,
How long were you guys orignally together? Have you spoken and resolved why he broke-up with you in the first place, you might have hurt feeling caused by him breaking-up with you, that you might want to share with him? You might not feel the same about him anymore so you need to seriously review your feeling for this guy,is he just a friend now? Are you still sexually attracted to him anymore?
When someone breaks-up with us,it hurts our pride and value,we feel rejected,none likes to feel that! As the saying go's everybody wants what they can't have,but when we get it the chase if over,we have provide we are worthy of them and are excepted again! so we can lose interest fast and look for a new challenge, fresh meat! The thrill of the chase! :)
I hope I have helped? All the best! :)
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