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writes:Do I have the right to be mad in my situation with my bf? We've been in a relationship for 6 months and everything has been for the most part pretty smooth. Our only fight that I recall was a month ago cause I felt I was the only one putting effort into the relationship. He usually calls everyday, I usually initiate talk however. But today he didn't even attempt to contact me. I'm a little frustrated cause when I went on facebook I had seen he was on earlier. He's never done this before and I started playing back in my head the argument we had a month ago. Now it's about 11 still no contact. And I couldn't sleep so I once again logged onto facebook and there he was online. Now I'm near crying point wondering why he's not contacting me at all. So I text him after a while telling him we need to talk. With no response. We're supposed to be going on a trip in two days and I have no clue why he's suddenly acting this way. Any advice on what to do from here?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2010):
It's just one day. That's all. What you do is stop panicking and seeming like you're desperate, jealous or way too clingy, and you relax and do something else. This is a major indication that you're becoming too attached to him, and at some point it will threaten your relationship. Just because he doesn't call one day isn't the end of the world.
I think you need to calm down, relax and just let it slide, or you'll wind up being too clingy. Men don't like clingy. Just relax.
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reader, turkishsabre  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 i think you re not comfortable with this relations because you do not trust..and you re so much needy..of course you will not die if he doesnt call you 1 day..but if this is a routine and he doesnt reply you back..there is a problem..and the best way is to solve the problem when it is hot..not cold..anywayz..next time you see him and come together you must tell him exactly what you want and how you want..if he doesnt respect your needs..shoot out him from your life..dont afraid love is a like a bird in your hands..if you press too much you kill it..if you open too much it fly away..you must set up the balance my friend..
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