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*ewyork82
writes:I have been dating my bf for two years. I am co_dependent /insecure so breaking up has always been hard for me. We have a very loving relationship, except for the marriage issue. I am 28, he is 29. He tells me he wants to get married in the next two to three years time. But that he is still not sure I am the one. he said this last year when I asked him of his plans for me. I broke up with him after that but couldn't bear it, and I went back. Since then we broke up six more times and still came back. I really love him, and I felt that staying back will make him love me and want to marry me. But that's not happening. He sats he wants me to stay and not leave, but that he doesn't know if he wants to marry me, and doesn't know if I am the one. How can a guy love u so much yet not mind if u leave him for someone else?I am so confused now. Part of me wants to stay back, hoping he changes his mind. Part of me wants to move on. What do I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): He doesnt see you as his lifetime partner or love you, but hes happy to keep you as a live in maid and cook. Hes got it easier here. I am submissive too and look after my man in the same way and i know he loves me more than anythign in the world however if he didnt i wouldnt let him use me as a door mat. Stop being his doormat. Your more like his mum than his partner.
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reader, newyork82 +, writes (19 November 2009):
newyork82 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust wanted to add this. i do everything a girlfriend/wife would do. Right nor, he even lost his Job, i have been the one feeding, helping him in everything. i wash for him, cook for him, take food to his house, support him, i am submissive. What else would a man want
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Move on. He doesn't see you as his lifetime partner, you're just wasting your time on him
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