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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok guys.im really frustrated im a fine looking girl, everyone says im a nice, honest and a confident person who enjoys a laugh. (im 18).i havent had a boyfreind since i was 14. i have a lot of boys saying how nice i am and they end up texting me and that but it never goes eny further.i dont say enything out of place im lady like in front of them but still have a laugh with them.im a size 12. i do smoke (but im not a chain smoker, im a social smoker).i am a virgin and am proud to admit it as i think it makes me more attractive but i dont go bragging but when a guy does show intrest i think it is important he knows.i just feel really left on the shelf to be honest and i hate watching people my age in realtionships it makes me so jealous when they laugh together and kiss and cuddle... and i just think well wheres mine??its not like im a smelly old slut who drinks all the time and dont give a crap about enything.im very hyginic and i have a good dress sense and totally down to earth..??i would appreaciate if guys could help answer this too.whats wrong with me? ive been waiting ages... "gimmie some lovin" .haha x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Hey there...You're stuck in a rut. One weird thing about attraction is that guy's tend to be more attracted to girls who are taken or it seem like there is a lot of competition for there affection. You need to jump start this to get the ball rolling. Be seen flirting with guys. Have a guy friend post flirty things on your facebook wall, whatever it takes. I found some good advice here: http://www.creative-dating-ideas.com/how-to-be-charming.htmlThat will help with getting the ball rolling as well. Good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 November 2009):
Nothing is wrong with you at all. First of all, well done for not giving it to the wrong guy. My mother had a friend who was once afraid she was being left on the shelf. She married a complete ass. The point being, stop worrying and don't make the mistake that some women do which is to go out with the wrong guy for fear of being lonely. Do not settle for second best. Perhaps you're not meeting the right guys, so try mixing in different places or start a hobby where guys are that you can meet them. Stay a lady. He is out there, just be happy for yourself first, and he'll find you. Be patient. It's better to find the right guy once, that the wrong guy twice.
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