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Am I stupid to still care about him?

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Question - (19 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2009)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i was in love with dis guy 2 yrs back,he showed me love he made me forget about all my past we had 5 mnths but it was like many years.everything changed when he want to marry me cuase he wnt kids i suggested we get tested before.he tested positive and i tested negative it was hard 4 me but get back thinking that if it was he may still cares for me .i suported him in everything he ws doing.then after before getting married i found out that he made another pregnat,i wsnt angry bcoz he made someone pregnant i was angry cuase he now his status,i broke up with him teling he must take care of tha girl de afta teling he is getting married to another.i told he must think before geting married and he mst take care of him self first not rushing to get married so fast,he told to mind my own business.now he hate me he dont want to here anything from me but i fell like helping him and i still care about him.plz tel me if im stupid to stil care about him.

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A female reader, Auntie Marilyn United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2009):

You did the right thing, but it wasn't what he wanted. Ask yourself how is this attitude of his going to work out in a long term relationship? Because a sorted out guy who loved you wouldn't want to land you in a messy situation like this.

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