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writes:My boyfriend and I were wonderful, he started to have financial issues in his family and then decided to take some finacial moves to help, one was moving away. About a month or two before he was to leave he told me we couldn't be together, i deserve more and not to wait for him. He said he will alwys love me and apologized but has to go. I tried calling him and he told me to stop. I got a call from his best friend telling me has was in such agony but our of all the reposnibilities leaving me here and him taking the risk of going away for 18 months wasn't far. The friend stated he would find me, he would come back. I wonder how to feel about that. I know there isn't anyone else and I know there is something huge going on (life or death huge) but my mind says wouldn't he want me more, but I know him too, he needs his space. Men, would you come back, would you ever reach out me again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): AS many problems as your boyfriend seems to be having, it should be more of a reason for him to want you around. You're his support, his guide, the ear he talks off, the embrace of security and he love he would want to feel. IF he broke it off with you and then tells you not to look for him, it can only be because he's not at the same mindset of where you're at. Sure, he has financial problems. Who doesn't? If he had loved you on a deeper level, why didn't he ask you to move with him so you could both be together? And his friend is there playing the role of the buffer. He's the one who gets stuck having to wean you off. So, is that fair to you?
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