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writes:Hey Dear agony aunts!!!!!!!!!i just want an input on this what would you do if no matter what you do...no matter how many hobbies you may get you can never really get over someone???what else should i do???especially if this someone was "forrbiden" (sorry if i spelt it wrong)and i never had him in the first place???to make it more clear he was my mentor i've known him for 3 years well 4 years but my last year in h.s he left and i went into depression....i tried my hardest to move on and when i finally obtain my goal i see him again all it took was that day to realize i didnt really move on....now its been half a year and yeah i feel better than last time but i cant help feeling what i feel....i still adore him....what else can i do to forget someone i never had???
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reader, manaja  +, writes (2 November 2009):
I remember being told three things to do when you break up with somebody, give yourself time, distance yourself and finally, be silent , no texting , phone calls etc, with time you will eventually forget him, love blossoms, its never something at first sight. you'l be ok.
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reader, blaz£ +, writes (1 November 2009):
 truth is its hard, you need closure to truly move on from somebody and because you were never with him your lieft with what ifs. Your always gonna be thinking how great he was, how many things he could have done, how great your relationship is. I had a relationship with this girl 2 years ago and even thou i am now in anothero ne and am very much in love the memory is still there, those emotions still linger a little even though they are dampened now by past and a new relationship. The key word there is past. You need time, and that is all. It will take longer because you haven't had any closure yet, no definitive break up or no from him. you haven't confronted him about your feelings. It iwll go eventually it will just take time like all break ups, only thing is this might require a bit of a longer period. Believe me from somebody suffering from the same thing, you will be ok:)
good luck for everything ok, i really hope things work soon for you xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 November 2009):
Yo're forgetting the most important thing of all and that it to give yourself time. If you really liked him that much, then it will take longer I'm afraid. It probably doesn't help that you never really had him either. That will be making it difficult, I suspect. Keep doing as you are with the hobbies and keep solizing with other people, and you will feel more and more better about it all. You say that you are already feeling different, so continue to do as you are, and you'll get there. But give yourself time. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): The cure to forget someone is to meet someone else. And you did say you felt better this time, so it will get easier and eventually you won't care.
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