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writes:should i be concern my girlfriend get alone well because i adapt to people well but we are not really compatible and she spend all her time looking at wedding sites,venues shows etc... iask her why she wanted to marry me couldn't really answer.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 You don't need a reason. It's enough to just want to. Getting married is about emotion and feelings, and you don't have to have rational 'reasons' for having feelings. They just are what they are.
But, if you don't think you're compatible then that's a whole 'nother story.
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 I would be concerned, yes. You say you two are "not really compatible" but that you "adapt to people well"...I worry though: do you really want to have to "adapt" for the rest of your life...even though you're not compatible?!....I would really hesitate to marry her...Surely you can find someone who fits you better, don't you think?!I just worry that you're setting yourself up for a married life of misery...be careful about what you decide!
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