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Archived questions from: 23 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is sooooo controlling! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend reformatted the computer so I lost all the pictures of the last two years of my children and very dear things to me. I tried to find other software I used and needed and nothing works. I need some private corner of my world to go to ...

Can anyone help me make sense of this behaviour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race c...

Reassurance needed. Is there something wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I get a lot of compliments on how attractive I am..I'm pretty shy normally, but if I had to be social I could...I like to laugh and could be silly at times..I'm a pretty laid back person most of the time... There was this guy I liked in college...

When is it that friendship starts becoming destructive and harmful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I have a very complicated situation with a girl... I used to work with her, and we would talk all the time at work. After a few weeks, I was completely smitten with this girl... and it was around Christmas at the time, so I bought her a really e...

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...

I need your help with regards to my husband and his work female friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - i am married for over 6 years now and have 1 child. its been 2 years now that one day i have checked his mobile out of curiousity and seen a msg sent by him to her saying 'ok.kisses everywhere'. i have discussed this with him and claimed that it was ...

Am I wrong to feel slighted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have a friend who I have done a lot of favors for --I have helped her out with her daughter a lot, picking her up at school, keeping her after school, during their son's ballgames, etc. We also have invited this girl over to play after school, on ...

I really love him and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no, O...

My friends are advising me to cut her off but I'm not sure what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her ...

I'm stuck in the middle of this rift. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 8 years. My son was 12 and my daughter was 8 when Mike came into our lives. He and my daughter have a great relationship however, my husband and son.. now 20 (in college, home for the summer) are always bucking ...

If love were easy everyone would do it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I need some help sorting out my feelings right now so I'm hoping you will have some insight. Here's the story: I've been dating the same guy since high school, which means that now we've been together for 11 years (and married for the last 1.5 yea...

He is so selfish and has really hurt me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My heart is breaking, my partner and i have not been getting on for a while and we have had a temporary seperation. We have been living apart for almost 4 weeks now but he is here all the time, but yet he wont commit to the things he promised.. ...

I need to know what's going on rather than wait in limbo.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi There, I guess what I am about to ask you for advice on - most people already have.... BUT I seriously dont know what to do.... I met this guy 2 years ago...we get a long and when we first met each other we said would see 'how things go'.... t...

Ghosts of past relationships are eroding our trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over the past year. I love him unconditionally and the moment we started dating, I have been nothing but faithful. Before I started dating him, I had a past - as all relationships do. I had had sex with one...

Stuck in the middle of you!! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have two best friends. My bestest friend Noureen* really likes this guy and has done for over a year, and he's just told her after them doing sexual stuff that he never wants to see her or touch her again (hes a horrible person). She has also, may ...

Does he seem like a player?

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23 June 2009 (F) - hey! well me and this boy have been talking for a little, he always comes over, he is very respectful to me, we don't go out, heard he hooked up with a girl, but he kept asking to chill with him, he came over my house for a little then left to his ...

My parents want me to marry someone else but I'm not a virgin any more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I was committed with a guy for 2 years. I even lost my virginity. I belong to a very constraint hindu family and so my parents were against my love. My guy was getting worser every day and we broke up but now they want me to get married to some ...

Obsessive and haywire brother...

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23 June 2009 (?) - Someone may remember about my issue with my adopted brother. Well, I made my decision that I wanted to end our relationship so I talked to him but then, he went nuts. He scolded at me and said not to leave him and said that he'll change. I said that ...

I found out he has a girlfriend! WHY do boys lead girls on!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Why do boys lead girls on, kiss you, hug you, act like they care for you. then when it comes to it they 'don't want a relationship'? I was with my ex for almost a year and a half, it was so perfect to begin with, we were so in love, we broke up...

Am I a fool, or is there still hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...

Drinking turned my boyfriend into a "handsy" sex feind. Is this how he really feels toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - To start this off i am a very insecure person. when someone flatters me or compliments me its really hard to take it in because i just dont beleive its possible for me. Yesterday night I was hanging out with my boyfriend of two years and a half and ...

How do I tell him that I have a son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I am in my early 30's, single mother of 8 year old son... My son is not with me since I'm working overseas. I've got my boyfriend through net and we have our wonderful relationship for almost 4 months now. We meet once for he visit where I am. Our ...

I want to make our life as perfect as possible but her ex gets her down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I fell in love with a girl who is married. When we started seeing each other her and her husband have been apart for a few months. She kept asking me out and i kept saying no. I was scared cause I'm a guy who has always kept to myself and worked ...

Father found out I had an abortion and I don't feel like talking about it with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - A few months ago my 17 year old boyfriend and I ended up pregnant... we'd decided way before it ever happend what we would do.. Which for us sadly was abortion.. Now I know what your thinking baby killer right we'll my reasoning behind my decision ...

Ugly old man doesn't want to seriously commit to attractive younger woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I am a young woman who is currently dating an old man. He is 24 yrs older than me. He is not very attractive at all, most of my associates find him kind of old and creepy. I chose to be with him because I thought I would at least find real love. ...

He says he's lonely and that's why he looks for others

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I'd like some advice from guys and girls out there. My bf and I have been together 9 yrs, but split up 1 yr ago for 6 months out of the blue, and I found out he was 'seeing' a female work colleague, posting himself on adult dating sites and ...

Break Down of communication with my husband of 25 years!, please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Please can someone advise me, I have a problem with communication with my husband of 25 years. We had a dissagreement which was extremely minor and then he went off in a sulk to the pub to meet his friend. He did not return home that night and in ...

I'm picturing other women and NEED a solution!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I'm a pretty young guy and I'm dating a beautiful girl who I have grown to love deeply. We have been through long distance relationship for about a year, the phase where women need to know if the guy is right for her and what not, and now I'm going ...

Losing love but stuck living with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - He started beating into me when we were living at my dads mainly when dad wasnt home, because things just weren't going his way. My dads rule and only rule was its his house what ever he says goes. I understood that and respected that but he didnt. ...

I've Fallen in love with an older man! What is the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 months and am head over heels in love with him, but, he is 18 years older than me, divorced, and has five children. We have very similar beliefs and out looks on life and want the same things in the future. Unlike him ...

I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...

My Bigoted Wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - It wasn't obvious when we got married, but over the years her attitudes have become more and more racist and bigoted, which I find surprising in such an educated woman. I try to bring up my children to respect all people, but it isn't easy when my ...

I'm scared, worried and sad to death of losing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship since December and everything was going great, we planned on meeting months ago but things began to change after some events in both of our lives. A month ago, my mother had been in the hospital for a week ...

BF slept with his ex after finallly seeing me, which he desired so much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Recently my ex and I got back together. We broke up basically we argued too much, not because of diminished love. After the breakup both of us had such a difficult time - I've heard from his friends that he stopped functioning. During our bre...

After 5 years and many hardships, she leaves. What's the best thing to do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - So after 5 years and many hardships when things go south and she leaves and says theres no changing her mind, you knowing you have said some mean stuff and acted in mean ways whats the best thing to do after shes gone and you desperately want ...

No control of relationship because of parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Ok so what do u do when u don't have control over your relationships because of your parents? Problem is that my mom is overly nosy and controlling. If she sees me typing on my computer or texting, she will ask who I am talking to, come up behind m...

I feel so stupid, alone and unwanted.! Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I just found out today that a man I have been in love with for the past 3 years was dating another woman while he was flirting and playing around with me. He never promised me anything and we never spoke about monogamy but it was implied that he ...

I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...

Boat betrayal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My very committed boyfriend has a best friend who is another girl. They have been best friends for years and had a sexual thing once (despite her feelings for him which lasted much longer) but seem to only hangout and talk when I am not around. He ...

She was my best friend as well as my girlfriend but now her parents are sending her to a different school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so this is what happened: I am a girl and about three months ago my girlfriend and I started going out without telling anyone. Then he parents found out and her mother especially wasen't to keen on the idea of us since we're both girls. For ...

Is it normal for me to have doubts about our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and we love each other, we lived in the same island at first, but then he went back to the states and we haven't seen each other in four months, I know we have a strong relationship, but ...

Why is he confusing me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Well, I am confused about his guy. I signed up for yahoo personals, and out of 160 matches, he was the only one that caught my interest. turns out, he messaged me first! i was so excited, thinking he must be interested. we exchanged 2 emails thru ...

All we do is have sex! Is he serious about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Does my man really want to really get serious... all we do is have sex....... what should i do?...