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Archived questions from: 19 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If we can't be friends, then I must let him go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - This is related to this question, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-is-not-looking-for-a-relationship-but.html if you want a bit more backround. We lost touch, with busy lives, and I was a bit sad that I lost someone who potentially we c...

He doesn't want to go away together now, should I just step back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hello aunts I have been seeing someone I have known forever for the past 3 months. He and I get on fabulously well, have fun and the best loving times together - I am smitten. He split up with his ex a year ago after she cheated numerous times. ...

I don't love my future wife what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Hallo, Actually I am sharing this personal matter after getting much frustration. Before 5 years i got engaged with a girl. I stayed engaged with her for 5 months. but during those five months i thought that i was engaged too early and so i was not...

She only sees me when there isn't a man in the picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I have a very good friend, sue, who Ive known for years now and I would call her one of my best friends. She is in a relationship with a guy and they have a child together. But their relationship is quite rocky and they are always splitting up and ...

What do I do with this pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - my heart is a mesh and my soul is darkenned. Many times I feel hopeless in this world. I have a child who is the only one that keeps me going. But the light that my child gives me is easily tarnished by his father. A man who abandoned my child and ...

I don't think I love him so why do I feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I have a friend that I have had sex with more than a few times. Sleep in the same bed. There was a time that we told each other we were in love but things have since changed he now sees other girls I havnt done so yet so I sometimes get upset I ...

He's married, we're cheating..I work for him..what a mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hi im in such a dilemma i really could do with some advice.I'm 26 and i have been having an affair with a married man for the last 9 months the worst part is i work with him part time. I'm his dental assistant, also all my family know him quite well ...

I have anxiety problems, past relationship problems, it's hurting my current love, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - hi all. I need some serious help. My bf is having a hard time dealing with me because I become needy at times. I've had some hard relationships, and I tried to explain this to him, that I become needy due to all the problems in my past. Inside I ...

My boyfriend mentions other girls he finds sexy, should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have what i believe to be a good relationship of over a year and a half. Exept for one thing.... Well, we were talking, and i cant really remember how it came about but he told me he thinks Gemma Atkinson is 'fit as ...

He wants oral sex every day and is going on porn sites

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I am 40 years old with and have 2 grown children. I have been in a relationship for 6+ years now and was actually proposed to a few months ago. Things have really been going great.... until lately, I have recently become unemployed, to which my ...

B/f has issues being verbally affectionate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Okay, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for five months now, he's amazing and everything has been doing well until now. In the beginning he was verbose, funny, and charismatic and had no issues giving me compliments. I’ll be honest; I’m a bit needy and ...

Is it time to leave if you watch porn, even if your wife is willing to make love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - is it normal for married men to watch love making videos on the internet? espeically when they don't make love to their wifes that offten. even if the wife is willing to make love. would you say it is time to leave them? troubled,...

Everything's falling apart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I am getting to a really bad point in my life where i just feel like completely breaking down. I feel as though noone ever wants to listen to me, like yesterday for instance i was trying to help my boyfriend and his friend out and they just talked ...

Living together is a nightmare! I feel too young to be bogged down with all this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Basically this is a rant and a rave about my boyfriend cos hes pissing me off lately. I'm 19 years old and never lived away from home until three months ago when i moved in with my boyfriend. It was a totally irrational decision and wasnt though...

I told him to take some time to reflect and mend. Was it the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing a man for 4 months after he asked me out and we truly get on amazing. He has lots of issues with his ex (they split a year ago) and he has had a rough time since it ended as they have young children together. He admits his head is ...

Ever since we moved in with a friend, he doesn't seem to want to be around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. When we lived together by ourselves it was amazing. He made me feel like i was the most important thing in the world to him. He told me goodbye everymorning and kissed me on my forehead, ...

I know more happened than my friend and girlfriend are letting on. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Well ok i confronted my friend and my girlfriend about a situation i posted earlier... they told me they talked on the phone but just on a friendship level.. nothing above... and they didnt even talk much... but i asked her have i ever called and ...

What can I do to stop sex from becoming a power struggle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I have a very pressing problem in my relationship. Up to now I've been trying to ignore it since I feel concentrating on it too much will just make it worse, and I think my boyfriend is completely denying it, but I would really appreciate some ...

My boyfriend's mates don't make any effort.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I feel very frustrated cos I cant seem to feel accepted by my boyfriend's mates. He has one group of mates and goes drinking with them most weekends. I go along lots but usually they are too drunk by the time I get there and barely acknowledge me. I ...

Mood swings are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - hello, i need some advice please, i am ruining my relationship with my boyfriend with my mood swings. i always take things the wrong way even when i know hes only joking. if i txt him a few times and have no reply i start txting him stuff like why...

I just feel like there is someone else out there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. we recently got "engaged" on christmas eve of last year. i'm gonne start off by saying we're both not perfect in anyway shape or form. when we first got together she instantly told me about ...

How can our marriage be saved now that I've found out about his mistress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hello I am in my early 40s. One year ago, my husband told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he had been unhappy in our marriage for the last year. He said I didnt support him or love him they way he wanted. I was in total shock - I knew w...

Am I in denial about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Heres the story: my husband of 7 years left me 5 months ago for another woman. We have two kids together. It wasnt a happy relationship anyway and I was hurt about how he went about things but I was also relieved it was finally over. I have been ...

He has scratches on his penis..is it caused from my braces, during oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i had sex like a two weeks ago and i gave him oral sex, the day after he had scratches on his penis, not to mention that i have braces, so he healed from that accident, but the day before last we had sex again and i did not give him ...

My wife sends 60 texts a day to this old friend...isn't that a bit much??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - I know there are other answers of similar variety, but I want to include my details to see what others may think. First off, my wife had a crush on this guy when she was in high school. I guess she tried to be with him, but he gave her the "I only ...

He won't leave! So how do I break it off with this abusive, jealous boyfriend?

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19 June 2009 (F) - Me and my friend has been together for ten months, and he always think I am cheating on him. He is always accusing me of something that I do not do, and he always want to be abusive, How do I break up with him, he stays with me and he will not ...

Summer vacations going to suck for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months (Yes, i'll keep saying this) has been contemplating breaking up with me over for the summer and has openly admitted it to my face. This breaks my heart so much, but I understand why. She's used to freedom an...

G/f threw me out because I laughed when her bikini top got pulled off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (of 2 years) is really mad at me for not covering her up at a pool party when my friend pulled off her bikini top and all I did was laugh and well me and my friend (we were both pretty drunk at the time) played monkey in the middle ...

Having trouble with my mom, not sure what to do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Well i need a little advice.My mom is very Bi-Polar(not actually diagnosed).She is always upset about something or shes happy one minute then shes cursing and yelling another.For example:we have a bishon frise(puppy) and he is locked up all day ...