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Archived questions from: 21 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

2 years together but very little contact

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my current for almost 2 years after several years of friendship. My issue is that we have very little to no contact..i mean kisses and hugs are it we enter the relationship knowing of each others desires and limitation. I am very ...

Hung up and don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I have a situation with the girl I am in a relationship with. I am 40 and she is 43. Most of the time she is very sweet, has a tone about her that is just so cute to me. But other times she gets in a mood where she just demands that I do things, ...

E Shocked and Heartbroken at being lied to for over 8 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - Hello. What just happened between my girlfriend and I came as a huge shock, and now I am confused as to what to do. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and she just recently told me that she cheated on me 2 weeks AFTER we started dating. ...

My life feels like dog dirt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - i really need some advice ive been with my boyfriend 5 years. i have to say for the past 4 years it has been terrible-ive only stayed because i did love him. he has been so distant and cold from me-he has left me in serious financial debt. h...

Since I've moved she's been really distant with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - Ok, the issue with my girlfriend is I love her but ever since I moved like far from home, it's like nowadays we have absolutely nothing to talk about, we talk over IM and every time I say something, I usually get replies like she's just either ...

Should I just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Help - I've been seeing a man for 12 weeks now and things have been fantastic. Texting/calling me all the time how much he likes me, missing me when were apart, and it's been wicked. We're both sociable people and we both have a wide circle of frien...

I think I might have ruined our friendship...

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21 June 2009 (F) - Ok, there's this guy who I met in college, he's doing a very similar course to me so we spend a lot of time together and in September I'll be moving in with him because I didn't get on campus accommodation this year and he offered to help me find a ...

Should I wait or just let him go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys well kinda obviously got a relationship prob so ya heres it... So me(17) and my bf(18)dated last summer for about 3 months but sadly had some issues with my mom and decided to end it cuz there was no way of getting her to like him thanks t...

He says to leave him alone but tells me he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I need help. I have known this guy since October. I like him but didn't realize how much till all this happened.To make a long story short, I sent him an email I thought he wanted to hear but didn't.It's a long story then sent him ...

How do I stop my insecurities from ruining our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months and he is without a doubt the most amazing person I've ever met, he makes me so happy. Unfortunately due to my history of unsuccessful relationships (violence, cheating etc) I am incredibly insecure...

I know my ex-husband well enough to know he is lying to me, why does he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - It's Father's Day. My daughter is visiting her dad for the summer again. My daughter started talking about a movie she saw two days ago. I asked her who took her and she ignored me. I asked her again, and she would not say. Her dad told her not ...

Sexual frustration!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me come on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuff ...

I've never had an issue with my body until my boyfriend started making comments about my weight!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I'm 5ft8 and a size 12-14 which ive always thought is pretty normal. My bodies in proportion and ive never really had an issue with it. Until i got with my boyfriend and now am sexually active, i was before but only little flings, ive never been ...

I broke up with her and now she is devestated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - its long ...but will tell you everything about us ...pleae bear with me and read it ...my heartly thanks to all answerers ...i am in a weird situation people ...i dumped this 17 year old girl and she has become quite obsessed about me ....we have ...

I'm in love with her and she hates my guts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Ok my girlfriend cheated on me with this guy she soon broke up with me for but they can't ever see eachother that much because they live far from eahcother and we started to fall in love again while those two were dating now. The thing is, I didn't ...

Am I just a rebound? What he's doing is so confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I used to work with this guy for almost 3 years and we almost had a thing and then it fell apart. and then my friend started dating him.. we'll call him Carl. They broke up bc she was terrible to him.. but he was really hurt. Carl and I had a hu...

Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...

I've been promiscious in the past, and now karma has hit me with guilt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I'm 25. I've been in a relationship since 15 with the same person. We live together for 4 years now. Overall... I have to say the passion and love is there. We're both very confident about that. However, being we started so young (he was 18 now 28) ...

What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife? Is it something very common,or it isn't? Are most marriages going toward no sexual intimacy? Because its hard to know what goes on, if your life is different from others/ So ,what is REA...

They cheated at my house! How do I stay out of the middle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Where do I start? My best friend just revealed to me tonight that she cheated on her husband, at my house, with my husband's best friend. My husband is now worried because his best friend is engaged and the girl he is engaged to has a family with ...

I like him but he's the ex of a good friend of mine. Will I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I like this boy who likes me. We play on the same sand volleyball league and have hung out with each other outside of volleyball. We've kissed, but that's the extent of what we've done. He seems to be a good guy, he's funny, and we get along great. ...

I don't feel happy with him, but I wont feel happy without him...what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Me and boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. He recently asked for a break but i didnt want to. He wanted to hook up with another girl but come back to me. Just the thought of it made me cry and really upset. I was stupid and told him ok ...

I lost my attraction to my boyfriend and broke it off. Was it a mistake?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Over the last year things in my life have fallen apart. I've been unemployed for the year, had medical issues, and recently broke up with my bf of four years. My bf is a great guy and I do love him, but I have found my attraction to him waning. He ...

He tells me he loves me but I don't FEEL loved by him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Over the past almost 3 years I have had a relationship with a man who had just separated from his wife (now divorced over 1½ years). We had many, many ups and downs; 2 short term break-ups, several short term “take-a-breaks”, and a couple of his ...

He tells me he likes me as a 'friend' and a 'sister' then has sex with me....?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - What does it mean when an ex tells you "I like you as a friend, a sister and the only college friend I still have around" and then has sex with you? I'm not seeing this person any more. he treated me like crap. He offended me in front of his new ...