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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! Anger problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok so heres my problem.. I think I have a problem with my anger.. I always fly off the handle for stupid reasons, especially at my boyfriend. It's putting a strain on our relationship as I get really angry at him for no reason. When I'm angr...

Boyfriend being completely insensitive and will never support me when I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I need some relationship help. I've not been getting on with my partner lately and it's really stressing me out. I've had a lot of issues this year and he hasn't helped me through any of it. The first major one was that i had major issues abou...

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me. Will he ever change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is always broke! We've been together for 4 years, living together for 2 years. I am a recent grad with BS, he doesn't even have a GED. I'm 24, he's 25, but he's been financially dependent on me and it's draining my savings. He's a g...

Are the rumours true or is he lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - well pratically i don't know what to believe. i found out that the other day my boyfriend said he fancied one of my mates, but i took a long time to think about it, and i figured that was false, as i spoke to him and he said this was a couple o...

He told me he loves me but not 'in' love with me, cheating at the same time. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 yrs just told me he love me but not in love with me.we have a 3 yrs old boy and live together.what does that mean.he have been seein women behind my back.will that relationship work and lead to marriage?...

Should I be worried about this teenage crush? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My 40 yr old boyfriend has a 17 yr old daughter. The daughters friend is 15. They have been friends for a few months and the 15 yr old has stayed at our house a few times. It appears to me the friend has a crush on him but he doesn't see it. If he ...

I lied about being pregnant and took money to pay for medication. He found out and wants me to prove that I won't lie again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I was recently in a relationship, and we are now broken up for 6 days. It hurts more then anything. I have always been beaten in relationships so I have a very very hard time opening up to people. I was starting to open up to this guy a lot, because ...

I have just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - hello everyone, well i have just found out my boyfriend has cheated on me (kissed another girl at a nightclub). I found this out because i went on his facebook account and the girl herself told me as she thought it was my boyfriend she was talking ...

They are BOTH denying their affair! How can I know for sure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My husband and I have ben married for 7 years and we have two daughters. The other night my husband received a text message from someone known as just the letter "J" on his phone saying "good night". I called the number twice and a woman answered ...

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

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30 June 2009 (M) - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who ...

I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud.. I was seeing a girl that just did everything wrong lied cheated and lied some more. it crushed me and she wouldn't admit to it. Finally after all said she admits that she did some really messed up ...

Help! Should I quit my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am a fairly young teacher and I teach special ed with a lot of really high needs students. Feeding tubes, diapering... the works. I took this job when a very experienced teacher retired. I work with five other colleagues and plenty of assistants ...

Can anybody help me with what to say to him I'm really nervous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hear's the thing i met this boy when i was nine at school and i really fancied him but i thought that maybe my crush would fade like all of the others that i liked before him so i didn't say anything to him about it.But what i didn't realise was ...

I'm NOT going to give him another chance but I can't leave him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I love a boy and he love me too. we are in a relationship from the last four years. now he is ignoring me saying that he want to concentrate on his studies but one of my friends told me that she found him with a girl. after this lots of my friends ...

Don't know what to do - boyfriend with drug problems...

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30 June 2009 (F) - I’ve never posted to one of these things, so I am new at this, but I don’t really know where else to turn for honest advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years and we have been living together for 3 years – we are both 26 years old. He h...

She's really into me but I'm not into her I don't want to lead her on

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30 June 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 28 and I met a woman she's 37, We met about a month ago and she seems to be really into me, She's unmarried no kids, but I don't really like older women I like younger ones. She's nice and has cooked for me, we haven't been intimate ju...

How does the small stuff determine whether a relationship is worth investing in or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I wrote about a week ago. Guess I need a bit more feedback :-) So, for 2 weeks my boyfriend of 3 months had suddenly changed his behavior from loving to quite indifferent so I was close to the conclusion that he was trying to break up ...

We still can't trust each other and at 22 he's already gone off sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - This is quite a long one and I apologise but I feel like giving the history is really important in this case. I've been with Roger* for nearly four years. We met online and were friends for three months before we became a couple, I guess we were ...

This "cold spell" is going on too long!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. This guy liked me and I liked him but he is shy and if im honest a bit strange... and I hardly ever saw him. But for some reason I still liked him. Anyway if any of you watch 90210 (series 1) where Liam is hot and cold all ...

The guy I'm seeing already has a partner - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Help!!!..... ok what do I do? I recently started seeing somebody the only issue is he has a partner of 5 years already! I know this was wrong but our feelings just grew for each other and it became difficult to keep away. Everything was g...

Girlfriend focuses more on work than our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Wow I better add a little to this, it seems that I didn't describe enough. My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. But I had the affair after one year of us NOT having sex. The ...

Should I ignore his calls for a few days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm in my first relationship, and things are going well, but I feel unappreciated and like I've lost myself in this relationship. My boyfriend and I are college students and usually spend several hours together everyday including weekends. However, ...

He's my first love but is it worth being in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - okay so i have this really big problem I've been with this guy for 3 years and I love him soo much we had the most amazing relationship and he was the perfect boyfriend. I guess I was really annoying and would get mad at dumb stuff he would always ...

Where is this supposed to go? He's hot one minute and cold the next.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and lived together for about 8 months of that. I just moved out 2 weeks ago because we started fightening and we decided it would be best for us. The last month or so we have said alot of ...

Our sex life is nonexistent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I've been going out with a girl for about five years now. Things are pretty good but our sex life is nonexistent. This year we've only been intimate 3 times and last year it about 10 times. I've tried to talk to her about this but I cant seem to ...

She wants to break up with him as I'm the "third person" in their relationship!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - So, "Rachel" and "Graham" have been together for almost a year now. Rachel is my oldest friend of 11 years and Graham is my best friend of 5 years. Since I've known him, I've also liked Graham as more than a friend but he has never been interested ...

Should I ask if he wants to come next week before I go back or leave him to get in contact.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - hello everyone I have a small problem.. well ive been abroad for the last 3 years and every time i come over to the uk on holiday i meet my ex boyfriend, we kiss cuddle etc and i feel so excited and get the old butterflies back... anyway ive mess...

I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she ...

Swallow one's pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met ...

Is there something still here worth saving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I had a huge moment of weakness, I was working off of 8 hours of sleep total for the last 5 days. I went to first text my girlfriend no answer which was weird. I started to worry something happend she was out of town on work. I then called no answer ...

Is it okay to feel this way?

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29 June 2009 (F) - pls tell me if it is ok to feel this. my relationship had been through ups and downs that even led me to the hospital. my parents were totally against it and they were imposing someone on me whom i hate. well i got to convince them through a hard t...

I'm having trouble managing my income with 4 kids! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have 4 kids and no help!!! I was praying one day that the father of my two little ones would just leave me alone, he has had a drug problem for the entire 7 years and has ruined my life we have been together, finally I came home one day and he w...

I don't trust him because he "hid" from another girl he dated before he met me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Something has been really on my mind lately and i just can't shake it. I have been dating my boyfriend for well over a year now, but i have had a problem for most of that time. It must have been on our second/third date (and my birthday) in Mar...

Sister and husband moved in with family and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My problem is family related, my sister recently moved back home with her 4 kids and her unemployed lazy husband , i still stay here at home with my parents , she's been back for about 2 months now, i guess i'm thinking of moving as soon as i get a ...

My feelings don't match my thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I'm in a year long relationship with a wonderful girl and we're about to move in together. She is gorgeous, brilliant, very loving and completely loyal; she is helpful and sweet to me. We like a lot of the same things. She is very sensual and ...

Men yell smutty things at me and now my boyfriend is treating me smutty too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - i often have men yell smutty things at me... it's unfortunate, disrespectful, but what can i really do? i just keep walking and ignore them. sometimes, even when im with my boyfriend, men yell things at me. my boyfriend obviously gets very upset, ...

I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...

He cheats on me but doesn't want me to move on, what must I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - my guy is so over protective towards me and this irritate me as i can't even go out with my friends. he always think that im going to some other guys. he never caught me cheating on him but he just doesn't trust me coz if he trusted me,he could not ...

He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...

Is my boyfriend pulling away? I'm pregnant and he said he'd get back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think ...

Did my boyfriend dump me as he was scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Did my bf dump me as he was scared of commitment? We'd been together for nearly 3 years and in that time things were mostly great but every now and then he'd bottle it and question whether or not we wanted the same thing. I wanted the wedding, the ...

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...

Has he gone off me that quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello About a month ago I started to speak to a really nice guy.. he told me he liked me.. but I didnt at the time find him very attractive at all.. we got on really well - his name's steve. I was seeing someone at at the time as well. Anyway whe...

I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion. At first we got on well, I'd heard of her before, she is one year below me and is known for having a bit of a bad reputation. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and last month af...

My girlfriend always expressed her love to me and all of a sudden she's doesn't..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend since July 4, 2008, it's been the best relationship i've had in my lifetime, we understand each other, and we sincerely have told one to another that we want to be together 'till the end of times. Thing is that ...

He drools over other girls every time we go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am so angry with my boyfriend. He takes me out then drools over another lady looking straight past my face into hers. He has been making remarks at other ladies in front of me and I tried to brush it off, but this time it was too much. He says I ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...

Did I move in with my boyfriend too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I basically feel really lost right now and im not sure which direction to head in. I'm 16, moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and i think we moved too quickly, although it does really work well and we dont argue, we get along just fine....

How do you get a guy to text you again? I try but he won't respond.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - How do you get a guy to text you again? I miss him and I want to talk to him. I used to be able to tell him everything that was bothering me but now he doesn't talk to me. I'm being set up with this guy I don't know? I want to cry because I love my ...

He's hot-headed... how do I talk to him without the fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My fiance and i are starting to fight everyday. our sex life is fantastic and we are very much in love but he is very hot headed and jealous. I'm usually calm untill he says something smart then i get accused of being snappy. I don't know how to f...