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Archived questions from: 27 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is she "playing" me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I was engaged to a girl that I was with for two years. We began living together after a few months of meeting, just after becoming engaged. We had a great relationship and we were both very happy. However, we both brought children into the ...

I can't believe I turned out to be such a crappy girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a troubled relationship, and I don't know what to do. Ok, so we met and a few months later we started going out. He was my first boyfriend, and I'm the first girl he's ever loved. Well, in the beginning we were PERFECT for each other, ...

Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i ...

We have a baby together but I think he's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i think my bf is cheating on me but have a baby with him so don't know what to do... he showed no interest in our baby from the beggining and only does now when showing off to friends. i hardly ever see him and even then he only wants sex, he also ...

Is life going to get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - aw my life is crap at the moment. 6 years ago i had just bought a house with my first ex-we were on the verge of marrying etc, but in the back of my mind i knew something was not right-he didnt seem all that caring about me and i would normally ...

How do I get my feelings back for him? We fight all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been friends with my boyfriend for about a year and we've been basically dating for about six months now and official for about two. We recently moved in together and ever since it's been non stop fighting. He still cannot open up to me ...

I can't leave my abusive boyfriend! When he's not abusive, he is very caring....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship where I am facing domestic and emotional abuse. I don't know what to do and need someone to talk to. The relationship, when not violent, is perfect and I am deeply in love with my boyfriend. But the way he treats me when we ...

Should I suggest we reconcile our relationship, while both of us are on a holiday in Jamaica?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I recently found out from my hairdresser that my child's father is going to Jamaica for the summer to do voluntary work. I saw him last week and mentioned that I willl be going on holiday to Jamaiaca. I did not mention that I heard he will be. ...

Having a baby-should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Should you stay with someone, just because you are having their baby? Hi, me and my ex boyfreind broke up late last year. We were together for a very long time, and i truly loved him, however i broke up with him, as i wasnt happy in the relations...

Why should he expect someone to be faithful to him when he is still living with her and still hasn't gotten a divorce?

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27 June 2009 (F) - I know this guy that says he has a hard time finding someone to be faithful to him. As a matter of fact I dated him. He said his wife cheated on him. He was still living with her when I met him. This is my question, why should he expect someone t...

Should I worry she's cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girl for 6 months now and things are great. But lately she has acting a little shady. she hides her myspace page and has been keeping her phone to herself a lot lately. she just recently confesed that her ex of 5 years has been ...

How can I save my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Was wondering if you could help... Been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. Up until the last couple of weeks things have been going so well. We both agreed it's the first time we've felt proper happy and comfortable with...

Do you think I'm going too far wanting to give the items back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - When I met the guy that I used to date, he told me he loved me more than anything in the world and he would love me as long as he was breathing. I do know that as time goes on people sometimes change. Our relatoinship was damaged due to the fact ...

Fiance very depressed and takes out her moods on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hello, don't really know where to start. I live with my fiance who is 2 months pregnant (we have been together for 2 years now) and our 2 kids 2 years and a month old and 7 months old(the eldest isnt mine but going through adoption) but with our ...

How can I deal with my "monster in law?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My mother in law hates me, though i am the best son in law, (she even made some comments in the past). None of my brothers in law treated her daughters like I treat my wife and I was so kind with her as well. In the beginning she started the blac...

I feel stifled, cheated on my g/f of 10 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. The affair has ended now but I still have feelings for the woman I was seeing. I am back with my girlfriend and still feel confussed. My ...

My roommate's b/f is racist, but I can't afford to move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My best friend/roommate has been dating this guy for a little over three months. The problem is, I hate this guy. I've met him once, and he said some racist shit to me (I'm black, he's white). It wasn't just one comment either, it was quite a f...

He says he's over being bi-sexual, but ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy who used to be bisexual, he says its in the past and that it was just a phase in his life and i believe him when he says it but sometimes i feel that its not in his past, like when we try to be intimate with one another, he ...

He was sweet before we married, now he's abusive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, We are 48 years old. Both divorced. We lived 80 miles apart - traveled each week to spend together. We dated for 18 months,He got a job here, so we got married. He left his home of 20 years and moved to my town. Within days, he started...

Why doesn't he just leave me alone and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. When we first met he was a sweetheart and would do anything for me and made me feel very special. He was proud of my medical studies as I am a med student and he was very encouraging but after ...

Confused and hurt! Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 5 years. Our relationship started out sexual (bad start huh?). Then it grew to love. He was my first love and I lost my virginity to him also. I was 20 years old. He later, after a year, decided in his mind he didn't want ...

My porn use and cyber sex obsession ruined my marriage! How do I get my wife back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I have been married 19 years. For 8 yrs I watched porn and engaged in cyber sex, and even Emailed women. This became an obsession. My wife found out about it and I tried to lie my way out of it. I did stop eventually, but she left me anyway. How can ...

Will he marry me? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was perfect for two years. suddenly he went back in his hometown and after come back he stared ignoring me and didn't want to talked with me too much and one day he said , he don't want to be with me anymore and after one week I heard ...

Should I really move on? Everyone is telling me I'm in denial.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm so confused cuz I love a man who has been abusive with me and the last incident was yesterday when he tried grabbing me by my hair for trying to get out of his car. I broke this relationship off cuz I'm so tired of his bullshit and excuses on ...

Is it wrong to go for it if I'm not 100% sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I've been talking with a girl a year younger than me for about two months now. I think she's a very kind, attractive and interesting person, but I just don't know if I really like her. I've flirted with her a lot in person, over text and on the ...

Is he in this just for sex? Why would he message another woman? Does he really care? Do I dump him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a pretty big problem right now. My bf and I met through an online dating website. We have been together for about a month and have decided we are exclusive. Anyway I decided to log onto the website we met just to see if he was still using it, ...

Having problems with my girl - I need your help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What ...

Ladies: Are the flowers and chocolates I send making her distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Here is a question for the women. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. In that time I always sent her flowers and choclates. Which I know she loved. Because of her hectic schedule I never knew if she would be there to get them before ...

New baby but don't love the father. I still love my ex! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter ...