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What gives with her? Is she trying to make me jealous or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (M - I have been talking to this girl for over six months, somewhere around there we had a problem which began a lot of tension from there on, now she will talk to me if I want to talk to her and go places with me if I want to go places, etc but I have ...

I'm in love, but I honestly wonder about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - Help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months but we were friends for over a year before we started dating. We know EVERYTHING about each other and I love him more than anything. He means absolutely the world to me. We don't fight or argue ev...

Flirting problem

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2 June 2009 (F - I'm in a relationship with an assistant manager that I love a lot. So, in order to keep this going I have to keep it a secret from the head manager and other co-workers. So I started flirting with another assistant and his friend that is a cook and ...

So confused in love...

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2 June 2009 (F - okay, so recently (about 11 months ago) I moved to a new town. for the first 9-10 months I was here I never knew anyone, so I pretty much just worked and did whatever. Then about a month ago I decided to go to a party with my little brother, just ...

What can I do to stop obsessing about my teacher?

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2 June 2009 (F - I have a question, and it may have already been asked, but here it goes: I was walking down the hall going to lunch and it was pretty empty except for this one teacher coming towards me. I looked up to smile and be friendly (because you nev...

I'm getting so frustrated. What can we do to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - My fiance and I have been in an relationship for a little over 5 years, and we have been trying to have a baby for a year now and nothing happened. He keeps asking me if I'm pregnant and why I'm not pregnant yet. I'm scared it might be me because he ...

I can't I seem to forgive him? Please help me! He is the love of my life!

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2 June 2009 (F - To keep this to the point here are the facts: Subject: I can't seem to forgive or forget my boyfriends past actions. Term: dating about 18 months Actions: one incident of text flirting with a local girl, one incident of sexual email exchang...

How to get over someone that used and hurt me...?

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2 June 2009 (F - We've known each other for about 6 months, and I fell good and proper for him. We spoke for hours every night and even though he seemed to not make an effort to meet me, when we actually did meet up it was so fun, and i cant believe how well we ...

How do I become attracted to her again?

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2 June 2009 (M - Basically, been with my girlfriend for a year and i love her to bits but i'm totally unattracted to her now, she lost her job and has went WAY down hill, she just sits around all day, today i got offered a job and she went mental, but the thing is ...

He likes me, he likes me not, she likes him she likes him not

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2 June 2009 (F - We're not really friends, more like acquaintances. We KINDA acted like a couple (no intimate things though) and I really thought that he liked me. But then we fell out and he got himself a girlfriend. One that has no feelings for him whatsoever. ...

Do I just expect too much from him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - Ok....Here goes. I've been married for about 3 1/2 years to a man from Africa (...thats right, Africa) I love him very much and try to show him this in different ways. But he on the other hand, has never...ever been able to show me that he really ...

Should I follow my head or my heart?

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2 June 2009 (M - I felt that my new relationship (4 months) was progressing great. I was taken aback by how it ended. Saturday night we had a nice romantic time together. Sunday we had what I consider being a small argument and she told me on the spot that that ...

Should I trust my gut instinct about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - should I trust my gut instinct ? My long term boyfriend and father of my two children has been acting really distant . He has gone for " nights out with workmates " more frequently and gone to Paris with work for a week .He now sleeps in a seperate ...

She doesn't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend

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2 June 2009 (M - I have been dating this girl for like 5 months! But she tells me that she's not ready for being boyfriend and girlfriend! We have had sex already couple of times and we both like it! I really love her and she says she does too! What should I ...

He lies about everything!

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2 June 2009 (F - We've been going out for almost 8 months now and it has been a really nice time for both of us, except for his constant lying. He lies about everything from what he had for breakfast to what he did yesterday, or when we are talking online, ...

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

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2 June 2009 (F - hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

He treats me poorly but I can't stop talking to him

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2 June 2009 (F - So my and this guy have been on and off for about three years. Just recently we started hanging out again. He has recently been calling me and inviting me to these parties and when I get there, he has hickies on his neck and ignores me. I know I ...

Does she have feelings for me but is afraid to tell me?

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2 June 2009 (M - hi everybody, i can smell that something is going on with a girl we have been friends for almost a year. Until the past week we were very very close, we are working in the same bank, i can say on my part that i was acting as if we were just friends, ...

What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

2 June 2009 (M - My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...

My husband demands oral sex every morning to relieve stress, creating for me, what can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - My husband demands I suck his dick every morning but I dont want to. I am over 50 and cant support myself and remaining kids in house. If I dont, he menaces me. I am sure it is not right for him to demand I blow him each morning, but he feels it ...

His drinking , non-interest in sex or communicating is destroying our relationship, suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I would really appreciate some help with my dilema. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. Things moved along quite quickly and he told me he loved me quite quickly. The feelings were soon recipricated on my half. We only see each other at...

I feel like I've lost The One

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I met a guy on the internet almost a year ago. We got chatting over msn, and the first ever time we spoke we spoke for something crazy like 12 hours. We spoke this much every day for a month. We never ever ran out of things to say, it always kept ...

I'm naturally quiet and he can't stand it, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - My boyfriend thinks I'm too quiet when we're talking on the phone. We tend to text message a lot throughout the day and we talk on the phone at least once a day too, so my feelings are that by the time that we talk before bed it's normal to have ...

B/f uses really bad words when we argue, he even pushes me or grabs me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I had been together for more than a year. He is a really nice person except for his ego. He thinks he is all better and knows more than me because he is a year older. He also thinks that he has the rights for everything because he ...

Dating, but not going anywhere, should I split?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I have been dating this guy for about 6 months. We were good friends before we started hooking up and He doesn't get with anyone else but he still has not tried being serious. He tells people we are together but we arent official and I just don't ...

I want to travel, he wants to save for a house, shouldn't there be a middle ground?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - My bf is hellbent on buying a home before he turns 45 next year. Of course as his girl I am being sensible and saving with him, but we never DO anything. In 5 years we have been on 3 holidays, each one less than a week long and 2 of the 3 were ...

Promising relationship off to a rocky start

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I'm facing a difficult problem. The guy I am currently with slept with someone else. He did NOT "cheat" because we weren't committed to each other at the time. But we were involved, and he knew I had been cheated on in my past relationship, so I ...

Molested as a child and she is not open about sex, strain on relationship, any advice is appreciated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 June 2009 (M - I've been dating my gf for 6 months and she told me about her childhood molestation 2 months into our relationship. She's very shy about sex and would not let me do oral on her...so I've not pushed her and gave her as much time as she needs. I'm not ...

Friends for 26 years, have child together, does not introduce me to family, he's distant,.should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I've been friens with my 3 rd childs father for 26 years. We both have children forprevious relationships. Our child is now 6.5 and he will not commit or arrange to live togehter or introduce me to friends and family. Its getting colder a...

Pisces intertwining with Virgo

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2 June 2009 (F - I'm a pisces.i been in love with a virgo for about 4 years and i havn't seen him in 2 years.i live with my dad.my mom and sister just left a few weeks ago so its just me and my dad.well my dad want to see our old nabor and the virgo i love lives on ...

I am so afraid of losing him but I guess I never had him anyway....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - I went out with this guy a few months ago. His girlfriend was away for about a month the first time we went out and I told him I didnt want to get hurt and that I trusted him because he was an old friend of my family. Anyway, he told me he was so ...

I'm not a whore... so what is my problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

2 June 2009 (F - Okay, so I'm 14 and I have a huge problem. I'm a flirt. I know it, everyone knows it. There's this cycle I go thru with almost every single guy I've known. 1. I get their number 2. We text and flirt 3. I send pics 4. He stops talking It'...

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