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Archived questions from: 9 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Devestated when I heard my ex got married

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9 June 2009 (F) - i used to work at a place with my ex boyfriend-we did the buying the house thing together etc at the time i had a low credit score so he took the mortgage in his name but we paid equally towards it after two years i felt unloved and didnt f...

A never ending cycle of misery, yet I can't break up with her

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9 June 2009 (M) - My girl friend and I have been together for 7 months. Were both 17. When we first started going out it seemed like heaven, then it dulled down, then it had its peaks. Lately for the past 2 months we have been in a frustration/arguing cycle. W...

Boyfriend talks down to me, treats me like slacker..driving me nuts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4751 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Help! My boyfriend is driving me nuts. We've been together near 2 years. We've lived together for one. He's very OCD and I am pretty laid back. He constantly nags at me, as though I am some lazy, unmotivated slacker. This is because, I qu...

I have met someone else but husband won't split up the family

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9 June 2009 (F) - What happens when you are in a marriage with 3 kids and it is not working and no matter how hard you try to talk things through you just can not get through,. He says change my thinking and we will be fine. I can not turn on love in my head as he ...

I think I'm frigid

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9 June 2009 (F) - Im very worried because i think im fridgid. All my life i hate it when people hugged me or touched me and im exteremly stiff, it never realy bothered me but then i relised something is very wrong with me. I dont want a boyfriend like everyone el...

Did he forget what he did? Game? or sincerity?

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9 June 2009 (F) - My ex and I had an on and off relationship after the first 5 months of dating. I treated hims os good and he just seemed so unappreciative. On May 13 we hung out, slept together (pretty typical) and then he said he would come over the next night t...

Do these actions mean he likes me?

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9 June 2009 (F) - i've been having trouble with one of my guy friends because i'm having this gut feeling that he actually likes me. he usually is affectionate in a not-so-serious manner (once he blurted that he loved me right in the middle of teasing me). and he's ...

Need divorce advice!

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9 June 2009 (F) - I’m going through a divorce right now, we have a home that he was living for the past 5 months and didn’t make any payments on it. He moved out two weeks ago so now I’m at the home. I want to keep this house what should I do? I’m going to file for ...

I'm thinking of just giving up on him

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9 June 2009 (F) - I've been hanging out with this guy for 5 months. I brought up us having a relationship. He says,i just want 2 keep things simply 4 now. I decided 2 back off. Then he text me says,guess u must have someone else? I said,trying 2 get over u,in order 2 ...

Does it matter who drives to who's house? Am I exaggerating?

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9 June 2009 (F) - Does it matter who drives to who's house? I've been dating this great guy..going on 5 months.:) At first he would always pick me up at my house..then little by little it was less and now it seems like I'm doing most of the driving to his p...

We keep getting back together...but we're still fighting

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9 June 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months, i only had like one boyfriend before him which was like 2 months he said he loved me and then i found out he cheated on me.So i left him and soon after i started ...

He's a completely different person during the day

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9 June 2009 (F) - i have been married nearly 5 years and have 2 lovely kids. for a long while myself and my husband don't seem to get on at all during the day, i don't know if it is to do with the way we are with the children. i am sometimes soft with the children ...

What exactly is going on with this guy?

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9 June 2009 (F) - Ok this is gonna be confusing but i hope you can help. Some background info may help so here goes...Basically there was a lad 1 yr n half ago in my class that seemed to like me, various things happened that were weird and would point to the fac...

I put my foot down, will he rise to the challenge?

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9 June 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for three months now. Things were looking good and me and my boyfriend tried to be as open as possible about issues. When we started we were both seeing other people. In my case I was in a transition phase. It ...

Parents getting divorced and now I can't stand to be around my father

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9 June 2009 (F) - Long story short. Me and my brother found out last summer that my dad was cheating on my mum. They have been married for 30 years and he's been cheating for the last 4 years. My mum didn't know, and because of her love for him she didn't kick him ...

I'm still worried about losing my g/f!

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9 June 2009 (F) - I am worried about losing my gf again i mean i lost her nearley to a guy before and then after that i nearley lost her to this girl and now i am just so worried about losing her AGAIN she means the world to me and now that we go back with each othe...

I feel like a fool! How do I forget him?

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9 June 2009 (F) - I love a guy bcoz I always felt that he is very innocent and never can flirt with girls. A year later one of my friends told him that i love him. that time he did not said anything but a couple of days later he said that his first priorty is his ...

I proposed to him and he rejected me saying I was ugly!

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9 June 2009 (F) - I am not pretty at all and I love a boy so much but when I proposed to him he rejected me saying that I am ugly. I felt so embarrassed? Now what should i do? plz help.......

Leaving my wife after 15 years of pain

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9 June 2009 (M) - My wife changed the night our first child was born. We had been together for two years before that, and she was a happy, loving woman. When I left her at the hospital after our son was born, she was still the same happy woman, but when I came to ...

My friend married but has contacted me to say it was a mistake and that he still loves me...

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9 June 2009 (F) - Hi Everybody, I am stuck in a dilemma of sorts. I am in love with my best friend. He loves me too. But he was forced to marry someone else one year back. So, naturally, I tried to forget him. But he has again contacted me and says that he st...

I really don't understand what he is trying to say

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9 June 2009 (F) - hi there! i have recently met this guy and we are seeing each other. He has told me he loves me and i the same. He has 3 boys 10,12 and 14 yrs. i have three boys from 18 to 25 and a daughter of 10. He has met them all. We have been seeing each other ...

Something has been missing for a long time, I cheated, but I'm miserable

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Im not really sure where to start with this mess that I am in. Im in a relationship and have been for a very long time but at the end of last year, even though I have never even looked in the direction of another man since we have been together I ...

I'm trying not to contact him but feel he's being rather immature about things

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9 June 2009 (F) - So here's my problem (I'll try to be thorough and not too long): I've been dating this guy for about 5-months. Everything has been great. He has been everything that I could have hoped for. He is attentive and thoughtful-kind and caring. How...

My current guy isn't compatible with my needs and wants

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9 June 2009 (F) - Hi, im new to this site and hope someone can really give me advice on what im going threw right now.... my topic is which lover do i choose First of all i've been in a realationship now with my boyfriend who is now 24 for a year now..im 21 and w...

He gave me a ring I am not attracted to him, how do I end this without hurting him?

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9 June 2009 (F) - i have been dating a guy that is a gentleman but i am not that atracted to him. He is very sweet and i gave it a real go but the attraction is missing (for me). I know he has really fallen for me and that i should have just broken it off with him ...

He still wants to have sex, but not live together, is he using God as an excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and have been living together for 3. I don't know how to define a ''good'' relationship, i'd say it is, with the occasional arguements of course. We're both 21. Recently he's gone through a ...

I say I love him, he never says it back to me, am I wasting my time with this?

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9 June 2009 (F) - I have told my boyfriend twice now that I love him. Both times he has not said anything......AT all. The first time was after 3 months. Sure thats early on in a relationship but unlike many people it dosent take me years to decide if I care abo...

Should I trust him?

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9 June 2009 (F) - i caught my boyfriend cheating on me . He apologized in the sweetest ways , flowers, cards , sending my favorite movies, phone calls, messages , voicemalls constenly. I love him alot and without him i fell horible, but i dont know if i should trust ...

Will this go on forever?

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9 June 2009 (F) - my best friend is really self absorbed, and always kinda has been, its often all about her and sometimes some ppl cant handle her cos of this. She often only talks about her issues, her health problems, of which there are a few, and lately her ...