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Archived questions from: 8 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I stop being in denial?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Every once in a while I text my guy friend who hasn't been talking to me and ask him a question. Well last night he answered finally jus to prove that I spelled something wrong then after 2 texts he ignored me again. I don't get it if he wanted to ...

How can I help my son with his drug addiction?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I don't know if I can help him (my son and his drug addiction.) Presently he lives with me and I want help, but he is not really ready to quit. I don't know if he will ever quit, but WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP? What do you think... what is the most comm...

I'm so confused, just what is he playing at?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start, please bear with me. I've had a rocky road with my boyfriend over the last few years. He left a relationship to be with me and we were living together, a problem became apparent in our relationship regarding my sis...

Help!!! My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

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8 June 2009 (F) - I am so in love with my boyfriend, I do so much for him, I go out of my way for him, I hang out with his friends, I tell him how much he means to me and how I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend however does nothing for ...

He is such a complex character and I want to be there for him to help him through all this.

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8 June 2009 (F) - I'm hoping for some advice to help me through all this. I've been with my partner for 9 years, lived together for 5. We're not married as he always told me he 'wasn't ready' but he would be one day. Anyway a few weeks ago when we were cuddling ...

I think I was used as a rebound girl for my ex boyfriend, but don't understand why he picked me?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend slept with me two or three times when he were broken up with his girlfriend that he had after me and then left me when the girl came around. (At that time I still loved him and wanted him back...) While we hung out when they were b...

Hearts not in it, but don't want to add to the pain

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8 June 2009 (?) - I have been dating a girl for the past 3 months. We have gotten along fine and have actually never been in a fight, but my heart is just not in it any more. I struggled with the same thing at the beginning of the relationship, but I thought I have ...

Cousin troubling wife...

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8 June 2009 (M) - hi, I just got married to a beautiful lady about 6 months back.. my wife is a good looking 25 year professional.. I am 30 years old.. recently my cousin brother joined us in our house, he is 16.. so he trying to date a girl...so he asked my wife if ...

I'm in one big lonely mess...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - I'm in one big lonely mess and it is getting me so down I spend nearly every night crying. I used to have a really close circle of friends, and even though we went our separate ways after school, we still kept in touch and went out together at the ...

My negativity is pushing her away and I cant lose her!

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8 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend/best friend for close to a year. She is, by a long shot, the best thing to ever enter my life. Im 28 and I just now found love. The problem and my question is I get so paranoid that she will find someone else. I used to ...

How am I suppose to forget her when it was love at first site?

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8 June 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have a little girl trouble. I'll give you all the story. Back when I was 13 I met a girl and I liked her the second I saw her, I'm not a strong believer in love at first sight, but if there ever was, this was it. We proceeded to spend th...

Says he loves us both, did not answer quickly, if he was " in love" with me, what do you think?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for over a year. Sometimes I feel like there is something missing between us and he cheated on me for over a month with some girl who he says he loves and is still friends with. He said he's not ready to ...

I love my girlfriend but her over-protective brother is driving us crazy!

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8 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my g/f for 4 years now and shes perfect, I love her. Its her annoying overly protective brother. He never lets me be alone with her at her house.I've spoken to my g/f about it and she had a talk with her brother about it and after ...

What kind of game is he playing with me?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Dont understand my ex broke up 2 months ago. He came to my rescue a few days ago with a family illness. He acts like he wants me back but yet has not called for 2 days. Not even to see how my father is doing in the hospital. So why did he offer ...

He has no job, he doesn't go to school and I am so annoyed with him! Why am I like this?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much...we've been together about 4 months now...but recently I've just been getting really angry at him..he doesnt have a job or go uni, so this annoys me as i work very hard so he doesnt understand why i like him to be on ...

I'm so confused by my semi-fiance, that I need an interpreter!!!

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8 June 2009 (F) - Last year, I left everything and moved to Spain to be with my then fiance. It has not been an easy transition and he hasn't been as supportive as I would have liked/needed. Anyway, we broke up two months ago, but I don't think either one of us is ...

He and I have always been close before..so what's happening now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Im pretty young to be in the situstion im in. Falling in love at 15 wasn't my plan nor my parents. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2. I commited my self at such a early age. My parents both love him dearly. But he's older then me which ...

He does not want a commitment and it's driving me crazy, please help?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Help how do u get over someone. And stop feeling shit bout giving your all being totally inlove. Them saying they love u back. Then just deciding that actually the cant give u what u want. 3 yrs i gave my all to someone who i was totally in love ...

My husband is very defensive, but needs to understand my side of the story, how do I get through to him?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My husband and ihave been married 7 years. He has been not doing so well in his business and I have been paying all the bills. He is always upset about everything I do. I stay home all day with kids and go to work at night. I asked him to take our ...

I'm overwhelmed by my family. How can I get my own life back and not worry about them?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Help, iam overly overwhelmed with my life right know, this is the deal, I’ am 22 and I feel like I have the weight on the world on my shoulders…..1st…my dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, psychofrenia, I was 13-14. Growing up I saw my mom struggle ...

Any ideas on how to deal with an angry, abusive ex-boyfriend, that you want nothing to do with?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Hello, I am in need of advice. I was in a 4 year verbally abusive relationship and have been out of the relationship for nearly 2 years. My ex and I have had angry and painful communication over the last 2 years and we recently talked on the ph...

Is it worth risking all we both have because of one silly, drunken mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friends boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good ...

Does he have feelings for his ex gf..am I 2nd best?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Im kind of a bit worried that my bf still has feelings for his ex? These are the reasons why I think so. When talking about there past relationship, he goes on about how they were so in love and how he made her so happy etc. They only broke up ...

No time for sex with me as he studies too hard!

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8 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf are in a relationship 7 months now. He loves me an all but he is really into studying and i hate it! He never has time for me! but its ok... i try to handle it. i tell him sometimes that he should relax a little, but it's no use... but ...

Communication problems with my stressed out boyfriend! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship (LDR) for about 19 months now. Things were so good in the beginning and he quickly swept me off my feet. He did what he could to relocate here, but his life was pulled out from under him. Since then, it ...

Should I stay with him? He cheated on me once already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - This is very complicated, please help. I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend (Danny) is 17, i live in essex and he lives in manchester, which is 251miles apart, yes long distance. We both handle this distance well, because when we are together, it is li...

Obligation does not equal love!

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8 June 2009 (F) - I am 22 years and my boyfriend is 33. We have been together over a year, during which we lived together- I am not from his country. I returned to my country a few months ago with plans to return in five months. I found out that he was with someone ...

I'm such a wimp taking all this crap from men!

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8 June 2009 (F) - Here's my story. Before I met him I had two unfortunate relationships in a row. First one had a bi-polar disorder, i coud not cope with anymore as he was hitting me alot and then was crying sorry. I had no strenth to tell anyone or dump him until my ...

Should I give him another chance, try again?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy 3 yeas ago and we had a pretty heavy relationship, I have children from previous and so does he. I moved abroad with him and my child but then serious flaws started appearing. We would often argue which I hated as my child was only i...

He only wants to see me when he's drinking

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - To put things basicly, i really liked this guy but he didnt know me so i txted him. I went to his house and thought he was real nice. We ended up sleeping together that first time. So things went on and I went to see him whenever he asked me around. ...

How can I fix our sexual situation?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. In the beginning sex was almost nightly. Then his roomate put restrictions on how much I could be there. That stressed him out and he felt as if he was being controlled. Sex began to dwindle ...

Is this an affair that should go further or is it over?

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8 June 2009 (M) - So i had an affair. lots of reasons, no point getting into it, but rest assured there were reasons. First/last time I'll do it. But i realized i waited for as (held out) long as i did, because i wasnt really looking for an affair but to move on (...

He's clingy and insecure! Need dating HELP!

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8 June 2009 (F) - OK.. So there is this guy i've been dating for two years this September.. I love him to peices and i think he may love me a little [too much] I'm seventeen and he is twenty so i can see where some of this comes from.. he proposed to me in february ...

Is drug addiction a disease, or a willpower problem?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Do you think drug addiction is an disease,or its willpower problem? My sun is an addict, and I'm trying to help him, but he relapsed so many times , that I'm losing hope, and energy. I would never give up, but what can i do as a parent to stop t...

I can't trust my girlfriend because she lied to me. She turned out to be a slut. Should I break up with her?

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8 June 2009 (M) - My cousin went to skool wit this girl that was litterally known as the skools whore. even tho she had never slept wit anybody at that school, e. I had my eyes on her ever since I saw her at the movies one day and I got her number from my cousin just ...

Is is obvious that he is done with me and trying not to hurt my feelings?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 months whom i thought we were quite serious- now tells me is overly stressed with his life and can't handle any extra stress including me. He said were weren't breaking up but he is not talking to me at all except about 1x a week ...

My traditonal indian parents do not accept my American boyfriend! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - this is very long. im an indian girl and i have been dating my american white boyfriend for 2 years now. im 19 years old. We are deeply in love and have been ever since we met. all my life, my parents have been extremely overprotective o...

Why has my friend become so distant?

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8 June 2009 (F) - My old guy friend that I used to hang out with a lot stopped talking to me and is ignoring me. I see him every day and he only ignores me and acts differently to me not his friends. It started out that he liked me and everyone told me he did. Then I ...

Is he holding on?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Welllll.... I been with my boyfriend for 8 months now... and besides normal disagreements and such we're great.... but lately I have been finding out more information about his last relationship (the one that ended a month before we began) and I'm ...

Advice needed! I don't know whether to stay with him or just move on...

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8 June 2009 (F) - ok ill try and make this quick me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years living together as well. he goes out every weekend with his friends while i stay at home i never get to see my friends and if i do then it has to be during the day, ...