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Archived questions from: 18 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is terrible, why can't I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I met this guy online on a website not for dating. He contacted me first after I posted something about a video he did. He is the same age as me and kind in the same situation. Neither of us had been in a real relationship. I was not looking for ...

He's pressuing me for a baby, but I know I'm too young

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - hey cupids, ive been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. but recently hes been talking about starting a family together! its scared me a little. we only lost our virginities to each other, about 6 weeks agoo, i mean to be honest, hes 20, ...

My friend fulfils my needs more than he does. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, thanks for reading Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now and im only 25- hes my first and only so far- the thing is i dont think i feel complete- i hear that when your in a relationship you feel complete with th...

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

I feel stupid talking to my boyfriend..Should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year and i love him but it´s weird. We always have ackward silences and when ever we´re together it´s either we´re making out or other things but it never involves like sitting down and talking. i ...

Friends are ment to stick you right? Why are they telling me to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a 16 year old girl. I admit that I smoke, I occasionally go out at the weekend and get drunk, and I have taken pills about 3 times in my life (but legal highs). And I have had a few boyfriends. I have, however, never had sex or done ...

He got his ex pregnant! Everytime we argue I'm scared he goes to her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - My partner of 4 years cheated on me with his now ex, unfortunately she got pregnant by him. Anyway today I had to go to the doctors as i'm not well and i asked him if he could pick me up from there. We arranged it and all was fine. I came out of the ...

Sex life isn't what it used to be, Hes changed.. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am a 26 year old female. That is very concern about my love life with my true love. My boyfriend does not have sex with me like he use to. we use to have sex all the time but now we only have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month. I have asked him what ...

Hes annoyingly obsessive! Should I just split from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - so me and my boyfriend are having trouble. he is so obsesive, like annoyingly obsessive. for example he texts me as soon as he wakes up, which is way earlier than i wake up and if i dont reply to his texts he keeps texting and texting and texting ...

He's very close to his ex, it troubles me, he wants us to all be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - hi, i have posted on here before and got some good replies. i have been with my partner now for nearly a year and i am planning to move in with him as we live 2 hours apart, the problem is that he is best friends with an ex. he split up with hi...

I feel in my gut he's cheating..but have no proof

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i've been with my bf for over 2 years, before me lets just say variety was his spice of life, literally hundreds of women!! he's a lawyer for a major financial company and i know at times he has to go away on business but this time he told me less ...

Running out of time....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 8 years now. There was a period of time that we werent together and I was seeing another guy. This guy( who i will call romeo) was the perfect boyfrien...

A woman came to my door telling me she was through seeing him, and he claims he doesn't even know her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Boy Friend trouble....Need help figuring it all out...Is he cheating? OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself ...

I don't want to lose him but he's seeing someone 20 years younger than him yet says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - "I was with my fiance for 7.5 years, the thing is i was looking for a bit more than bf and gf." In all the time I can only ever spend the night on a saturday night even though I see him nearly every night. this year I wanted to know where we were ...

Should I leave her be, or remind her of our times together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - So yesterday I wrote of my five years coming to a end with a girl I did wrong in ways but she walked out of my life the night before and so I got my first full 24 hours alone! SUCKED SUCKED...So what do I do try and contact her? it angers me when ...

Should I tell him I kissed another guy when I thought we weren't official?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I have just started seeing this guy for just about a month, we weren't official and the other week I kissed a guy. didn't enjoy it as thinking shouldn't do this as seeing other guy. Had discussion with the person I'm seeing and we said we are now ...

Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried ...

He never includes me in any family functions, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - what is the best way to deal with the following problem: I have been dating a man for a long time and for the past year his kids never include me in any family functions or eating out. they just don't like me because i am with their father and ...

He was trying to keep us a secret, people found out and now he won't contact me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Please help me... I have been seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months. He has been out of his marriage for just under a year and they have 2 children. His ex cheated on him on numerous occasions and the love has gone. He asked me...

My boyfriend cannot go to sleep with me at night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cannot go to sleep with me at night. We went through a phase where we finally managed to get it right then I came back late one night and through out the pattern. Now he is back in the spare room listening to boring fm all night. I...

I love the soul, spirit and essence of him, but our relationship is troubled

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How can I have feelings for a man that feels to me like they are on a different level - as if I love the essence, the soul and spirit of the man and I feel he loves me the same way but he keeps behaving in a way that hurts and upsets me - yet i ...

Worried I've lost a good friendship and possible future relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had ...

If I give him some time, what if he doesn't even think about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me about two months ago. I have made mistakes like calling him, txting him and even begging all that stuff right after we broke up. Then I backed off for a bit and decided to call him once a week. Everytime I txted him or ...

I want to feel loved by my husband. How can we save our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - OK, I'm 31 years old, he is 39, and I been married since I was 18, we have two girls, 2 and 6 and for years our only issue was lack of sex,until we decided to make a schedule!! and I dont know how but it worked for a few years, we were happy with ...

Suspicious of my girlfriend since she had a weekend away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I don’t trust my girlfriend!? She secretive and gets all defensive if I ask her about things. It never used to be like this. She used to be so open, used to tell me everything, I didn’t need to ask anything. It all changed a few months ago...

Girlfriend only shows me affection after a drink

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - GF only shows affection after a drink? When she not had a drink and we kiss, she either pulls away then gives a quick peck on the cheek, wont kiss my lips. She wont hug, more like a pat on the back, wont hold hands in public and sex is def a no ...

He cheated on me so I burned all of his things!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Lets cut to the chase, shall we? my boyfriend and I were dating for a good year and three months. I am sixteen and he is eighteen. I thought we were in love, he bought me a promise ring for our one year. i honestly thought i would spend th...

Sometime people just bring out the worst in each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i have completely screwed up and i need some serious help. i have had a boyfriend for almost a year now. it'll be a year on the 30th. he knows almost everything about me. we have so much fun together; but at the same time we fight like crazy. ever...

I hate kissing!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hey aunts, i am sixteen years old. i have sort of a problem.. i don't want to kiss. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 11 months. i love him so much but about four months into our relationship, i got mono. it made me bed sick for ...

My girlfriend seems to be ignoring me, who is in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My gf and i have benn going out for almost nine months now, we just got out of school, and we dont get to hang out as often. Since she's grounded, she cant use the phone, but still calls me from time to time, but whenever we're both signed in on ...

I've wanted him for so long, I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - ok well i have been after this guy that i met at a party since november when i first met him he made me feel so good inside like woow!!even though i had a boyfriend i started talking to him. i figured out he had jus broke up with his girlfriend the ...

WHY do I still love my ex husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am 43. Still in love with my ex husband. We have been divorced for 6 years, but still have sex about once per month. Last weekend he asked me to meet him at a bar....I did, and he was all over another woman! So, I left. Then HE left me a ...

Why do I get embarrassed talkiing about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi - to anyone who feels the same... I love my boyfriend to bits - when we are alone or around people that I trust I can talk about him freely. However, whenever I am around workmates or certain people I know, I "freak out" incase they might as...

Online guy seems great, but can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Ok well, there is this guy i met on the internet he's 19 and well im 14...and...when i first met him he lied to me about his appearence sending me a false picture (i found that out on google images)so i caught him and he said that everytime he would ...

How do I win my girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - i lost my girlfriend about 2 months ago because we fight too much. She moved on and got a new boyfriend. We still talk but only for a short time. How can i get her back in my arms?...

My relationships rarely last more than a month...except for one ex who I loved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - All of my relationships suck, they don't even last a month. when I break up with the guys I don't even care, there has been one relationship of mine the lasted 5 months and then the guy ended it, I was heart broken. And I think with my previous ...

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...

What can I do to stop the rumours? I really can't deal with this anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - there has recently been a romour spread about me at school that i have been sleeping with a class teacher in his class room *i haven't* its making me feel really bad at school because this is not the only romour that has been spread about me it has ...

Should I have sex with this ex, or will he just dump me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i have recently got back in touch with an ex that i have been split up with for almost two years we had sex once when going out with him. we have been getting closer and closer and he has being staying at my house but the other day we were messing ...

She goes through phases when she's not sure she should be dating me! Help me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Right, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months and its been the best 7 months of my life. She is 17 years old and i am 18 years old. But as of recently, my girlfriend has started to have mixed feelings; she wants to be able to exper...

I lost my wedding ring, never told him and now he's furious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I lost my wedding ring about 4 years ago, never told my husband, bought a ring that looked similar to mine, and just recently he somehow found out and is extremely angry, yet he too lost his around the same time and it was not a big deal. We have ...

I am so afraid of karma, but it just happened. How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I have put myself in a veryyy uncomfortable situation. Basically i have this ex with whom i went out with when i was 16 years old, we were in a relationship for a year, i am currently 19, and well ,between us ended for a very stupid reason, these ...