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Archived questions from: 12 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Leave the boyfriend? Is this an abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Long story. Thank you for taking the time to read this! My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. When we first dated, I had just left an abusive relationship and eventually had to place a restraining order against my ex. I truly shou...

He covers my mouth and talks about other women during sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Self Centered In Bed My boyfriend of 9 yrs is 16 yrs older than me. Im 25, he is 42. Throughout the 9 years, 90% of what he does in bed is cover my face with a pillow and have sex with my mouth taking about other women. The othe...

He doesn't split the bills fairly and I don't think this is right!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - My bf has a house he pays a mortgage for out of state that no one lives in. He got it in the divorce but can't sell it due to the ecomony. He pays about 1300, no heat (in the south) and about $10 a month for elect. He lives with me and I pay ...

I just want my sister and I to get along!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - I'm really nice to my little sister (11) but she is mean to me. We get along but out of no where she will start calling me names and hitting me for no reason. I'll hit her back some times but I get tired of it. I really want me and her to be close ...

He says he loves me but doesn't like me as a person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've been goin out with this guy for about two years. But since we hit our first anniversary he went on holiday to the coast and cheated on me. I did too as part of revenge later but i didnt have sex. Neither did he, but i'm sure he'd hav if not for ...

Can our relationship be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 and half months. For the first month or so things were great! We both have the same group of friends and we're always going out. He was always calling; I knew he really liked me. However, I think we spent too ...

Is it reasonable that I'm upset because my husband doesn't know why he's impotent, and the doctor doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - [Mod note: Assume this is a female poster for the purposes of answering.] How common is that ,when a man becomes impotent with their wife, they can't tell why? My husband does not know why, and he went to doctor and the doctor says he has no medic...

How can I convince him to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. As strange as it might sound, I'm having trouble getting my boyfriend to have sex. - We're both 20 years old - We're extremely attracted to each other I think we're both crazy about each other but I have the bigger sex drive, a...

He wanted to marry me and now broke up with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Please help me figure this out. I have been in a serious relationship for a year now and I moved in with him 7 months ago. Things have been great, awesome and fabulous…I don’t understand what went wrong. About 2 months ago we started having more ...

Does he not want to be seen with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I don't know how to move on. This is a bit of a long boring story (sorry), I have fancied this guy at work for about 2 years, he always seemed interested but when we arranged to go out he cancelled at the last minute with no explinaion, anyw...

I'm insecure and need reassurance from my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long but i sent him a text yday saying I didn't feel like he really cared for me like he used to. To this i got no reply so today i sent him a text asking him for his address so i could send his stuff ...

Our affair has been revealed. Where do we go from here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I’m having a relationship with a married man for nearly two years now. He’s been married for about 18 years. We are both contract workers and work away from home for months at a time and only get back home one’s every four months. We love each oth...

What's up with them? Why are they ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Were friends and his bestfriend and I used to have this weird 'more-than-friends-but-less-than-lovers' thing going on until he(bestfriend) cleared out that he did not like me. Then he (the guy in question; not the 'bestfriend') started complime...

I love my boyfriend, but have butterflies over another boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Heyy aunt's and uncles. I feel so bad, and i havent even done anything. I need major advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Im only 16, and hes 17, but where in the same year in school, as ill be 17 in july! He arranged a sup...

How can I make my fiance and my dad get along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been having problems with my fiance. I'm 19 and he's 24. We've been engaged for a few weeks now but my parents don't know this. I love him dearly yet he hates my dad; he despises my dad's morals and wishes my dad could act more like a real ...

He wants to go away for six months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. i am 20 and he is 22. we have a very good relationship, we enjoy each others company and make each other very happy. however there is one problem... at the end of this year he is thinking ...

Should I be playing games with him to make him interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Why do guys whom I dont want a relationship with keep pursuing me like they are obsessed? And the one I really love is not? Could it be that I am being to easy with the one I want to be with? Do I need to act more aloof with him? I know some men ...

B/f & anger issues? Is he just a bit off? Or will it get worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - My b/f has such anger issues - non violent - and it is affecting our relationship. For example, he is so mad at an owner of a restaurant because the owner did not say hello to him at an event. Now he wanted to punch the owner since he felt he was ...

My friend and I kissed. Does she regret it? What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I am a 14 year old female, and am in love with [at least have a huge crush on] one of my friends. She is also 14 and a girl. I'm not sure if she likes me the way i like her. At times I think she does, and at others it seems like she doesn't. About 3 ...

Compulsive liar? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for like over a month, we're 23/24 and met over the net. Lately I've noticed little things like, inconsistency in the things he says. Like, I'll ask which days he has off work, he'll say Tues and Weds. Then later I asked,...

I'm afraid to say I love you to her because I'm afraid she'll end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into. i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i...

New boyfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Well you see im dating my friends brother and i have liked him ever since the first day i met him and he felt the same for me. Well we started talkin then he moved out of his house and met this other girl, they dated for like 5 months and they broke ...

She wants a break but will it actually help or make things worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 months wants a break. At first I was ok with it and I knew it meant hooking up with other people. Her best friend is a guy also an old friend of mine. She has been hurting so she said she probably wouldn't have sex with him cause ...

We're complete opposites, can this relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I know that opposites attract, but can two opposites really work in a relationship? My bf and I are so different and sometimes it scares me because I fear that he will want to change me to be more like him. He is a big drinker, and I dont dri...

Dating my brothers ex. It bothers me when I think of them having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - Ok I will try to sum this up quick. I'm currently dating my brother X. My girlfriend had a pretty ruff break up a few years ago with my brother and I pretty much been there for her helping her out in her problems. During that period we became real ...

What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...

Girlfriend won't talk to me because of looking at porn

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and my girl friend is 20yr old girl we have been together for about 10 months now. I have been in several relationships before but nothing has come close to this. She is amazing, she drives me crazy and has so much going for her. We are both ...

I want to run away with my teacher and start a new life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I ...

Boyfriend's family is trying to pressure us into marrying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - If I went into all the details, it would be a lot longer, so here’s the jist: My boyfriend is from St. Petersburg, Russia. He and his family immigrated here to the U.S. when he was fourteen and by then, he already knew his fair share of English. ...

My fiance wants to watch me with another woman and I'm tempted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ok, my fiance of 2 years been together 4 years and have 2 kids asked if i was intersted in being with another women, he just wanted to watch.. yeah as life gets shorter i start to get curious and now im kinda thinking about it but i really dont know ...

One night I have always dreamed of... or lifetime of happiness with boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've always had this secret crush on a friend of mine but it was just childish. hes now 24 and im 19 and he has just split up with his girlfriend. i was there for him as a friend in the beginning and now it has esculated that he is physically ...