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Archived questions from: 29 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there something still here worth saving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I had a huge moment of weakness, I was working off of 8 hours of sleep total for the last 5 days. I went to first text my girlfriend no answer which was weird. I started to worry something happend she was out of town on work. I then called no answer ...

Is it okay to feel this way?

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29 June 2009 (F) - pls tell me if it is ok to feel this. my relationship had been through ups and downs that even led me to the hospital. my parents were totally against it and they were imposing someone on me whom i hate. well i got to convince them through a hard t...

I'm having trouble managing my income with 4 kids! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have 4 kids and no help!!! I was praying one day that the father of my two little ones would just leave me alone, he has had a drug problem for the entire 7 years and has ruined my life we have been together, finally I came home one day and he w...

I don't trust him because he "hid" from another girl he dated before he met me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Something has been really on my mind lately and i just can't shake it. I have been dating my boyfriend for well over a year now, but i have had a problem for most of that time. It must have been on our second/third date (and my birthday) in Mar...

Sister and husband moved in with family and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My problem is family related, my sister recently moved back home with her 4 kids and her unemployed lazy husband , i still stay here at home with my parents , she's been back for about 2 months now, i guess i'm thinking of moving as soon as i get a ...

My feelings don't match my thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I'm in a year long relationship with a wonderful girl and we're about to move in together. She is gorgeous, brilliant, very loving and completely loyal; she is helpful and sweet to me. We like a lot of the same things. She is very sensual and ...

Men yell smutty things at me and now my boyfriend is treating me smutty too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - i often have men yell smutty things at me... it's unfortunate, disrespectful, but what can i really do? i just keep walking and ignore them. sometimes, even when im with my boyfriend, men yell things at me. my boyfriend obviously gets very upset, ...

I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...

He cheats on me but doesn't want me to move on, what must I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - my guy is so over protective towards me and this irritate me as i can't even go out with my friends. he always think that im going to some other guys. he never caught me cheating on him but he just doesn't trust me coz if he trusted me,he could not ...

He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...

Is my boyfriend pulling away? I'm pregnant and he said he'd get back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think ...

Did my boyfriend dump me as he was scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Did my bf dump me as he was scared of commitment? We'd been together for nearly 3 years and in that time things were mostly great but every now and then he'd bottle it and question whether or not we wanted the same thing. I wanted the wedding, the ...

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...

Has he gone off me that quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello About a month ago I started to speak to a really nice guy.. he told me he liked me.. but I didnt at the time find him very attractive at all.. we got on really well - his name's steve. I was seeing someone at at the time as well. Anyway whe...

I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion. At first we got on well, I'd heard of her before, she is one year below me and is known for having a bit of a bad reputation. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and last month af...

My girlfriend always expressed her love to me and all of a sudden she's doesn't..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend since July 4, 2008, it's been the best relationship i've had in my lifetime, we understand each other, and we sincerely have told one to another that we want to be together 'till the end of times. Thing is that ...

He drools over other girls every time we go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am so angry with my boyfriend. He takes me out then drools over another lady looking straight past my face into hers. He has been making remarks at other ladies in front of me and I tried to brush it off, but this time it was too much. He says I ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...

Did I move in with my boyfriend too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I basically feel really lost right now and im not sure which direction to head in. I'm 16, moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and i think we moved too quickly, although it does really work well and we dont argue, we get along just fine....

How do you get a guy to text you again? I try but he won't respond.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - How do you get a guy to text you again? I miss him and I want to talk to him. I used to be able to tell him everything that was bothering me but now he doesn't talk to me. I'm being set up with this guy I don't know? I want to cry because I love my ...

He's hot-headed... how do I talk to him without the fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My fiance and i are starting to fight everyday. our sex life is fantastic and we are very much in love but he is very hot headed and jealous. I'm usually calm untill he says something smart then i get accused of being snappy. I don't know how to f...

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...

She's just indifferent to me! Now what?

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29 June 2009 (M) - My name is DJ. I am 59. Her name is Michele, 32. We started dating 11 months ago and fell in love. She has some mental issues. 50 tests in one day, insisting on a baby, while she has 3, all from different men. So in February, after endurin...

Should I stay? Or get rid of the hoe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Ok here is the story I have been dating this girl for two yrs and she hasn't ever spent any real time wit me. if im lucky I get to see her lik 5 hrs every 2 weeks and she says she is busy but she will cancel or plans to make time for her friends and ...

Controlling psycho mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Seeking advice on my controling mother. I am 26yr old college graduate with a full time job and my mother still feels the need to run my life. All be the fact she and my step father helped pay for college and other financials during my growing up my ...

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...

I feel utterly alone and worthless and I don't know how to make it go away. Can someone tell me what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I think I have a big problem. All I feel is loneliness. My father and mother have been split since before I was born. My dad has this girlfriend who treats him like crap and talks about me and my sister all the time. He always tells us what she says ...

I feel more for my younger boss than my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been obsessed with another man who happens to be my boss and 12 years younger. He is funny, good looking and sexy. He doesn't feel the same way about me. He is married with 3 children. My husband is disabled and our marriage is having ...