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Archived questions from: 24 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my indecisiveness keeping me from moving on? I don't want to be treated this way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - hey , well i feel that i got no character because am not decisive when it comes to taking decisions , i mean whenever i say am gonna do something or am not gonna talk to a certain person i go back and talk to him like nothing happened even thought ...

Going crazy here, need someone to help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - My girlfried just moved. Shes been hanging out with her 30 year old land lord she is 18. We're on a "break" like were not together all the time. she is with him alot watching movies shopping exc.. im i just really jelous or does there seem to be ...

Confused Girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years, before he was like the perfect guy in the world and I was soo happy. Today, I am happy with him but due to his moods-swings and his attitude, I don't know what's wrong with him. He ...

Problems with the family and their culture...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hello all i'm in turmoil as the man i love is from India and his parents are tradtional hindu's, he went home 6 wks ago and told them all about me and they are devastated, whilst he was over there his mother arranged for him to meet potential wives ...

Was I being clingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I am/was (idk right now) with a guy and we havent hung out for a month and I guess I would bug him a lot about the next time we would hang out whenever he said we would soon and he never would be able to. this is also in summer so I dont see him ...

How do I know if he is bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems so not interested in me any more. He has been acting werid. He used to care who I talked to and he knows hiss ex hates me and I want him to stop talking to her. He did for a while but he is talking again. The funny thing he said ...

Why do I hate that he loves drugs so much? I feel this might be a burden on our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi I am struggling with an issue with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do anymore. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24 my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2yrs. My boyfriend likes to smoke weed, but until now only did so very seldom (like ...

Is his temper a behavioral problem? Sometimes I think it's my fault...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year. He is my first boyfriend (I'm 21, he's a few years older). He has a bit of a temper and sometimes gets angry at little things. I am a very very sensitive and emotional person, and am not very good ...

He fractured my collar bone...is this likely to happen again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi. Well basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. We're fine, completely, the only problems we've had are his temper. He has a tendency to get extremely agitated and argumentative and often takes stuff out on me (not physical). ...

How can I make amends? I tried to make love to her while she was asleep...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other going on five months now, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me by far, we share a lot of the same interests, enjoy the same things, and really hit it off better than I ever thought ...

I don't want to be the guy that uses text sex services. How do I convince her I'll stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I've done something stupid and need advice on how to make things right. To cut things short, I've been with my gf 7 years, for 5 years we lived together until I left her a year ago. I was tired of my life at the time - I had a long commute to ...

My boyfriend wanted "space" and he's texting another girl! Is all trust lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have just recently broken up with my partner. We were together for about 11months and it was going so well. We had our arguements like most couples, usually about him working so much and us not spending enough time together. He said he want space. ...

How can I find out what's bothering him and try to fix it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Can someone pz help me with this question? My boyfriend has been on the fritz lately and i dont know why. He has been being so mean and i am getting tired of it. He acts so mean towards the kids. He hasnt been to work in the past three days and i ...

Would this be classified as rape or no?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I basically wanna know if this classes as rape and if the guy still has an interest in me or not. Well about four months ago i went to meet a guy off the internet. He wasnt the first person id met off the internet and i always have an incling ...

Cancelled the wedding and I don't feel bad about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I just left my fiance of 3yrs and cancelled our wedding. He was very insecure and always gave me hell if i wanted to go out with a friend, we wanted different things in life and grew apart over the years. He is beyond devestated by my leaving, but I ...

Is he sorry about his affair? Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - My husband has been having an affair with a younger woman from work for five months. I have children and because of that I packed his bag , and asked him to leave. He says he wished he could turn the clock back and see the kids more , also t...

Did she cheat? She revealed a "secret" and it's bothering me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - Hello, me and my perhaps soon to be ex Girlfriend, "confessed" something to me that has me at a crossroads, I dont know what to do now. We met like the last weekend of the month of january and seemed to hit it off with her. We basically spent ...

I'm worried I smothered her and have lost what we had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - i am 45 and after almost 20years of marriage my ex decided to leave me coz i never paid interest in the family, we have 2 boys aged 14 and 11. She was right, work has always been my focus, i loved her, tried what i thought was best and always done ...

Together again after his affair...but I feel like I'm with a stranger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 June 2009 (?) - Well I am back since my husbands affair, you know I thought things would change they have a bit, I feel more strength in myself. As for my husband, who I cherished the ground he walked on, he looks weak, he no longer is the man I loved and ...

He says he only likes me, so why all the fuss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Please this has really got me confussed,this guy. i'm seeing tells me we are not in a committed relationship because he's married so the other day when he txted me i just ignored him i thought if i did that and never replyed he would get tired ...

How can I trust her with her ex still in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I met a girl about 9 months ago she had a boyfriend for about 7 years and she said that he was her first and only boyfriend. Anyway as time moved on she told me that she love me and that made me feel good because I had no one in my life, but she ...

How does one live happily with a perfectionist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot lately, we have been together for almost 2 years, i was married when i met him, we seen each other for 6 months before i divorced, i had been married for 20 years, 2 kids 18 and 15, we moved in together ...

Who is more important - his friends or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - hi guys. recently iv been haveing a few problems, and i think its really affecting my relaitonship. im suffering from depression and i think i have a few other issues. recently me and my partner have been falling out a lot and things are close...

She's using their kids for blackmail - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - The man im with said we cant be together as his ex might stop him having contact with his children. Even though he said he has strong feelings for him and i make him so happy his ex has done this before turned around and that she does not like one ...

Why did he cheat if he says I'm the best thing that happened to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - This is new to me, so forgive me. I'm usually the one giving the advice, not asking for it. But for once, I'm stuck. I've known this guy for two years, and we've always been great friends and just about 6 months ago we started talking every si...

Is he insecure or just nasty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race child...

Girlfriend slept with friend before she was "my girlfriend"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months, and the relationship has been mostly great. She is athletic, caring, friendly, very attractive and has a great personality. I have a high level of trust in her and I know she thinks I am attractive, ...

What if....I had a relationship with my wife's sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - what if you are not in love with your wife, and discover that maybe you never have been. what if your marriage has gone bad, and you are not intimate any longer with each other and considering divorce. what now if you have fallen in love for her ...

Long story....can I get him back? Is there hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi I am in need of help. My husband of 9 yrs was on meds from the Dr for pain the whole marriage. He is very laid back to begin with and does not show emotion and he is not very compassionate. I thought it was the drugs the whole marriage. We had ...

Should I get there first and end it before he does?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy at uni and become really close to him. we lost touch for a couple of years and recently met up . with a bit of alcohol and the obvious attraction still there, we ended up kissing. a week later caught up again and decided we'd be toget...

Do I hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held onto?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he says we rushed into things too fast. We were together for 2 months and had sex after the 1st month. I wanted to wait and so did he but one thing led to another. Like after we did it everything was ...

He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...

Why won't she return my call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...

Why do I constantly feel tired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi I am fifteen years old, ever since school ended, I haven't been able to get to sleep until about three, four, five am in the morning, I then don't got up into mid afternoon.. I feel tired all the time but I cannot sleep, I move around lot...

Is that special girl ever meant to come into my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old and single. I am happy with life, have good friends. I have never had much luck with females. I asked a girl out two years ago and got rejected. I talk to girls but can't tell the signs if they're interested. If they flirt it just ...