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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just found out my cousin was cheating with my boyfriend two years ago, and all my friends knew and didn't tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i recently found out that my cousion who im very close with, was cheating with my boyfriend around two years ago. me and my cousion have been close more or less since we were born as we're around the same age. we've always done everythin together, ...

They were on the verge of going out and suddenly he's screaming at her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - how does one deal with a situation where your heart is telling you one thing about a boy and your mind is tellign you another my friend has this guy she likes and they were on the verge of going out but suddenly hes mad at her and they are having s...

She's breaking up with me, so it's hard to show her she is special and also to suggest there might be another way to handle this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hey, My girlfriend of 2 years and 6 months just broke up with me. Apparently the biggest part of it is that the relationship felt 'tainted' she loves me, i know this is true, and i love her more than anything in the world. But she says she doesn't ...

My boyfriend's friends never let us be alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriends friends piss me off they are always there when we want to hang out my friends give me and him alone time he wont leave his friends i don't know wat to do because they don't let me be with him and i don't think he has the guts to t...

Why does she act so weird around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok, Pretty straightforward. There's a girl in one of my classes and I really like her. Problem is, I'm gay and she has a boyfriend. That suprised me, I was dead certain she was gay. The way she walks, talks, sits, dresses, speaks, her non-...

I've kicked him out after years of emotional abuse, his sleeping all day and watching porn all night. Now he wants to come back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my husband and i were married for 5 years. he never got his ged or drivers lic. i was injured and out of work for 6 years. since then i've returned to work and began college. he sleeps all day and watches porn all night. i kicked him out after ...

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word p...

We met online, never face to face, I want to ask him out!

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7 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy on the internet, and we've talked pretty much every day for the last month. I've suggested that we meet up a couple of times, but we've actually never made concrete plans. He's a pretty busy guy, in quite a high pressure ...

We are living together but she doesn't want sex

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7 December 2009 (M) - Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a little ova 2 months. Im 20 shes 18. Shes had a rough patch, and shes been used, cheated on, and used some more. Shes been living with me and my parents for about a month now (wed be on our own but I got ...

How can I encourage him to admit how he feels?

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7 December 2009 (F) - I like him and he 'secretly' likes me, but we're too shy to do talk openly about our feelings. How can i encourage him to admit how he feels? we don't talk alot as it is and often avoid talking to one another! he even asks my friends question...

Torn in two

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - After meeting my fiancé at our former place of work, I thought we were meant for each other and were going to be together forever. We had the chemistry, both on a emotional and physical level but it's slowly evaporated over time. Then our mutual ...

Why does he keep on breaking up with me and coming back within weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have had the same boyfriend for a yr and half. he has broken up w/ four times!!! and returns w/ in weeks ....anyone can tell me why??? ...

Why would my husband suddenly stop wanting sex?

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7 December 2009 (F) - What are the reasons ,when a highly sexual husband suddenly stops wanting sex, and when he tries it he is losing his erections? I mean one day to the next... With no signs for any change. Just suddenly ,like bang. And its over. He went limp at the ...

How do I change my opinion of women and relationships?

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7 December 2009 (M) - I'm 22 and single, I keep thinking about having a girlfriend but always scared to ask a girl out. I thought it was fear of rejection but then I realise that its actually because of bad experiences and from what is happening to other people. Every ...

I still hope one day he will come back to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello Aunts and uncles I am really hoping to get some help because I'm at my wits end. My husband left me three years ago for a younger woman. We had been together since I was 19 and he was 20 and have two children (now aged 24 and 21) and in ...

Just found out my boyfriend called my ugly and a dog to his friends after sleeping with me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I recently started dating my best friend. We have been together a couple months, I know it was wrong of me but i went on his facebook and I found a conversation between him and someone. My best friend and I slept together a couple times a few years ...

I have no trust in him, he's been flirting with girls on dating sites again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 yr a couple of months at the beginning i found out the was on dating sites flirting with girls on the net and i asked him about it he said he wouldn't do it again and now i found out hes been doing it again what ...

I'm going crazy not knowing what he thinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i text the guy that i like last night.the day u txt me was the happiest day of my life, today i dnt knw. i jst wonder wht i did tht was so wrong to deserve ur silence and ur rejection it hurts so bad. never been rejected before.i guess theres always ...

Is there any hope that she might come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Me and my ex fiancee broke up after over four years. We were engaged for about three years and living together for two. We had some problems, but nothing we could not have fixed. To cut a long story short, somebody popped up on Facebook a few m...

Why did he suddenly stop contact with me after being so polite and so nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a man I met through a dating site, we clicked right away because we have the same goals. He treated me with respect and always sent greetings to my parents. He was actually talking about marriage after 8 days of dating. He ...

Should I recommend her to divorce???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r ...

How could someone so polite and nice suddenly change?

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We're not a family and I just need advice.

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7 December 2009 (F) - okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to under...

How do I cope with losing my virginity to the wrong guy? Dumb dumb dumb!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - lost my virginity last night - still feel like a virgin. It hurt and it was completely with the wrong guy - i remember crying after nad just wanting a cuddle - he feel a sleep and i was left in the darkness thinking about what i had allowed. I was ...

She won't let me do anything about this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - This guy that dated my girlfriend once won't leave her alone and she wont let me take care of the situation as the boyfriend. When I try, she calls me annoying and tells me that it would only make things worse. All I ever wanted to do was maturely ...

Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys? It seems as if guys get bored with me or something. I've never been asked out on a date nor been in a committed relationship. I've heard the key to success is not to sleep with the guy on the first ...

I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male. I've never had a girl in life. I've released my sexual satisfaction by masturbating watching porn. I believe watching porn is bad but I'm addicted to it. I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please ...

Two men, one me...

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7 December 2009 (F) - My relationship has been rocky lately, so I met this guy whoms currently in a relationship, we talk on the phone alot, and we have met out alot, we even text each other through out the day, I love the attention that he shows me because my man use to ...

Is he just telling me that or does he just not love me and is with me for the sex??

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7 December 2009 (?) - Everytime I tell my boyfriend I love him or I miss him he seemed to get unconfortable, so I asked him why and he said he feels its too soon. We went out for a year lat year and when we were going out last year we told each other we love each other ...

We've barely had sex for 3 months, is he cheating?

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7 December 2009 (F) - I have been in my relationship for 5 years, and we had sex at least 6 times a month, but within the last year, we barely have sex within 3 months at all, what should I do ? Do you think he's cheating? And before anyone say sex toys, high heels, ...

He's a Momma's boy. And Momma does NOT like me!

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7 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death. No one can doubt that. We've been through a lot, he's even saved me from wanting to take my own life. But theres one thing that bugs me about him. He's a Momma's Boy. And his Momma does NOT like me. I'm his first kiss ...

I don't know what's wrong with me! But I don't want to feel smothered and married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i was just in a 2 year relationship and felt smothered by him cause he was so inlove with me and up my butt it drove me crazy. so i cheated on him with this boy named sean and and eventually we got abck together i loved partying and playing with my ...

What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change? I am in a long term gay relationship. After a few years of being frustrated and rejected I broke it off as I couldn't take it any more. My sex dri...

How to deal with stupid boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - So, i am not a typical relationship kind of girl. i never liked having a boyfriend or being tied down by commitment. i would much prefer to be single and go out and do whatever i want whenever i want with all of my friends. ive always been proud of ...

How will I know if I'm 'in love' with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i'm really confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year in a half. Weve broken up about 3 times and have gotten back together. We broke up because we werent sure if we wanted to have a long distance relationship bec...

I have two friends who generally are not very respectful.

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7 December 2009 (F) - i have 2 friends who generally are not very respectful. they both think their amazing and a lot of people don't. but anyway we were having a conversation and one of them told me that she treats the upperclassmen in the drama department like ...

Why do I feel so guilty?

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7 December 2009 (?) - I usually always blame myself for things, even if it has nothing to do with me or I can't do anything to have helped the situation. I don't know if this is a self-esteem issue or what, but I've always been this way, even while growing up. My dad was ...

His mother introduces me as his 'acquaintance' (after 2 year together!) and speaks Albanian around me! Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years and last thanksgiving (11/26/09) my boyfriend's mom introduced me to her friends (who btw already knew me from previous meetings) as Ervin's aquaintence from school. 1) I'm his girlfriend, ...

How can I make him see that she is trying to break us up

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7 December 2009 (F) - My problem is my boyfriends female friend who has tried everything possible to break us up. The first time I went out with them she got ontop of my boyfriend and tried to kiss him. The second time I went out with them she pecked him on the lips ...