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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm the cause of our relationship troubles, but I want to work it out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - im my name is alicia and i have relationship trouble with my boyfriend giving up on us. im to blame and play games and lie to him for no reson. at the same time i want to work it out. and l been dealing with this issue and i dont know what to do im ...

Why am I taking so much bad behavior from him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - 1) Husband infertile, cannot have sex, and not bothered to fix it. 2) Listens only to his mother, father and sister. Completely controlled by them, and expects me to dragged along. They exploit him for money. 3) He was not there for me phy...

My boyfriend won't accept the truth that it's his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - What should I do ?? Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6yrs off and on. im 19yrs old he is 29. I am 5mon pregnant. he is constantly dening that its his. About almost 2 months before I got pregnant I started seeing some one else due to ...

Why won't he spend his money on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend recently lost his job, and is now on unemployment, so we don't go out as much as we used to. If we do go out, I usually pay for myself, and he pays for himself. It is just expected for me to pay for myself now, and that's fine,but I ...

My gay friends boyfriend is hitting on me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I hav a big problem,my friend is gay, his older boyfriend is hiting on me,what do i do? They have been together for about 15 years. Suppose he finds out,my friend,and what do I say to his longtime older boyfriend nexttime he hits on me? I don't ...

I caught him flirting with another girl, now he's unsure whether he wants to see me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Ive recently started seeing this guy that I met at school. We liked each other then but nothing ever happened. 15 years on we finally get it together so there is a huge amount of expectation that I feel I cant live up to. Ive been hurt this y...

Please help! How can I revive my troubled marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - How do I save my marriage and make my husband fall in love with me again? the romance is gone :( ? how do i put the spark back into my marriage? I feel like my husband and I are growing further and further away every day..we argue about everythi...

My young son driving me crazy, how can I change his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - This isnt what some would call a relationship question,but it does have to do with the parent/child relationship beetween my son and myself.I have been a single mom for around 4 years now.I have a daughter age 6,and my son is 8 years old.He doesnt ...

Are all guys this selfish in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about eleven months now, and I really can't help but notice he can really be a selfish guy when he feels like it. Namely, I'm talking about our sex life. When we met I was a virgin. Before we started having ...

I'm confused! Does he want us to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I'm still confused me and my partner split up four months ago we have a child and one due anyday he's really good with our son, we haven't talked about getting back together for a few weeks but the thing that drives me crazy is he still got a tattoo ...

Should I agree to being a swinger, to stop him from cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I've been married for 13 years. We have a pretty honest relationship and we have sex about once a week. I know my husband looks at porn and has for years. It doesn't bother me. However there are times when he has problems keeping an erection ...

Overwhelmed by insecure, needy boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - This is going to be long, so I apologize in advance and thank you for reading this. I am a 21-year old, divorced single mother and full time student. When I was married, I had been cheated on multiple times, lied to, called names, neglected, and m...

She lets them feel her up and I don't want to sit with her anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - ok here goes one of my best friends is kind of a slag, i mean shes pretty shes really thin has big boobs and is really confident, but even tho she has a boy friend she still lets all of our male friends feel her up at dinner time, she trys to make ...

He can't get over my cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 December 2009 (?) - Ok so I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years now. When we first got together I had cheated on him. He broke up with me and evetually he took me back and its been good ever since. I apoligized to him continuously about how sorry I was I would ...

Is my boyfriend backing off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I'm so confused that I really don't know where to start. Basically my boyfriend's best friend came on to me around a month ago, he got quite pushy but I turned him down repeatedly even though I am a woman and i'm not blind, he is a good look...

He stole my jewelry, told me where it was, but its not there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - i have been seeing a man for a while now, he is an alcoholic who is on and off the wagon. we have had a few problems with him stealing from anyone including myself, when he has done this he admits it when i question him, he was on probation for ...

Should I break up with him, even if I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend last January by internet. We become a couple in the first date. After three weeks he broke up with me. One moth later i had to move to another country. After that we started to communicate by e-mail, until we end up being a c...

I cut off contact and did the right thing, so what now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Well, I did it. I thought of my girlfriend of ten years and her feelings first, like everyone always says, and I cut off contact with my best friend (who is a woman) who I was getting too close to. She understood, of course, because she's awesome. ...

This pervy man has threatened me, posted pictures of me on the internet and I just don't know what to do!,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - This might seem like a strange question to ask help for, but I don't know who to turn to for advice. When I was 16 I was friends with an older man who told me he was a photographer. I was happy at first because I was studying photography at c...

I texted my wife's sister and she's no longer talking to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - i have this sexually fantasy of doing it with my wife's only and youngest sister. she's not pretty. dark, thin, small breasted and all but i am really turned on when i think of having sex with her. i texted her anonymously but she's very bright she ...

How can we help her see that her relationship with him is ruining her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl for 15 years. She has been seeing the same guy for over 6 years. They met in Grade 9 and have been together ever since. She followed him to University, and they are currently in their 3rd year together. T...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - What do I do when I think my girlfriend is cheating on me?...

Is my ex trying to play mind games with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - my ex fiance contacted me this year -he told me he got married-we'd had a bad split -mutual but i always just wanted to clear the air so i did and we emailed a couple of times but i noticed he was answering the emails early in the morning and would ...

I'm so tired of my boyfriend's accusations, I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we live together. Monday-Friday he works in another state and I'm at home by myself. I have three children from a previous relationship that lives with us too. I only get ...

I've really messed up, is there any chance of fixing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I've messed up with a girl I care deeply for, is there any chance of fixing this? A girl I've been friends with for six years has recently become more interested in me. We've had the beginnings of a long distance (2 hours by car) relationship, an...

We were due to be getting married before Christmas but his close frienship with another woman is ruining everything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - A coule of months ago I posted a question regarding my fiance's very close friendship with another woman and how I felt uncomfortable with it. Well we are due to be married before Christmas and ths lady has started calling him more and more. ...

How do I prove I'm sorry and I want her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Hii, my girlfriend ended things with me because im over protective,she texted another boy with x`s, (AM I WRONG) to be upset, the truth is i love her more than anything and i know she loves me too, How can i tell/prove to her that i love her and ...

I wish he would treat me better and be there for me as a friend! Is that to much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - How can I move on when whatever I do he still talks to me? I and my friend/crush have been having some problems. He ignores me and treats his other friends better than me. So I’ve been confused. I already told him that I like him and he acted nor...

My girlfriend is still in regular contact with the woman she cheated on me with, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I am female and i am in a relationship with a girl we have been together over a year now and in November i proposed to her on our year anniversary she said yes. the only thing is six month into our relationship she cheated on she told me straight ...

Should I presume my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - hi i know i seam to b asking lots but that's only because i've found somewhere to get it off my chest and u guys have helped with the other 2 questions. my third and last thing is to ask should i be jealous of my boy friend and my best mate are ...

What should I do with this girl? I think she still has not gotten over her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I met this girl a while back and we have dated a little, hooked up a couple of times and ive been to her place a few times, but we never went passed kissing and everytime I asked to stay over she refused. I asked her why and she says she broke u...

Are these normal customs in Switzerland or am I being taken for a fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 2 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and...

What should I do if talking to her about our problems doesn't work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I've been dating a very sweet loving and charismatic girl for just under 6 months now (6 months exactly on the 27th of December). I'm really worried about our compatibility; although I sincerely am in love with her, we share almost zero common ...

Ever since we have fallen out he ignores me, how do I move on from this?

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15 December 2009 (F) - The guy I cared deeply for and I had a falling out recently. I met him in 2008 and we were briefly "dating" for a few months. At first we saw each other a lot and he would always bring me around his friends. He was affectionate and seemed like a ...

Why can't he be just a good brother to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I have an uneasy situation. There's a guy who would suppose to be just a brother to me. Our relationship is like he is my sworn brother. I rarely talk to him cuz I feel a little shy with boys. Then one day his friends and him decided to make a fe...

How can I help my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, looking for a little advice here. My boyfriend of a few months/friend of several years has a lot of general issues. I love him dearly and I'm sticking with him, I'd just like some advice on how to help him. He has mild anxiety and ...

What is the best way for my friend to deal with this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My friend met this person a year and half ago and thought she had found her soul mate. He told her he felt the same. But at the same time he told her they could never be socially together because he comes from a Bangladeshi rural family and he is...

Serious doubts... or marriage jitters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are making plans to get married. i have known him and his family my whole life, i love him and so do my parents wich is a big plus. But for a couple of days now i have been feeling really ...

Why do I need so much love shown to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I am a 23 year old male that finally found the person that ive always been looking for but for some reason i always feel as if she doesn't love me when i know she really does. she is really independent and self confident and i admire her sooooo ...

What should I do, I'm afraid to hang out with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - So my ex boyfriend says he wants to hangout wiht me. Im afraid to though. When we dated he was abusive to me and tried forcing me to pleasure him. So what do i do? We have been friends for so long. But what if he gets me alone? Im scared he willt ry ...