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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's married but we love each other, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Ive just recently started a new job. Me and the manager being very close he knows everything about me and my history of abuse and current abusive situation with my family. It was agreed during holidays i would come work for him to get some extra ...

Ever since we had a child together, he's never home and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - So i have been married to my husband for 4 years now and ever since we had our daughter he never seems to be home. He joined the fire department is always doing side jobs going to friends house and whatever else. He told me the day he joined the ...

My boyfriend makes me wear very revealing outfits all the time, is this right? If not how can I make him stop this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend insists on me wearing very skimpy clothing even in the winter time. I live in Toledo, so it is cold down here! He has made me wear very short skirts and dresses, with little boots,it does look cute but not for every place we go. I am in ...

How can I learn to trust him, when my past experiences won't let me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend n I have been together for 8 months now... Last week I made the mistake of telling him I dont trust him specifically. He knows I have trust issues to begin with due to me being physically and emotionally abused all my life. I love this ...

I don't like his marijuana usage, he won't stop! Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months now. We've have a somewhat rocky relationship. I caught him cheating on me with his ex 4 months into our relationship. However, he sincerely apologized and begged for another chance, so ...

I did nothing while we were on a break, but now he says it's over because he thinks I cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up on Saturday over a heated argument, he went out that night and mingled with other females and enjoyed hiself according to my friends. He also reactivated his facebook account, which is something that we got rid of because ...

My husband has become too close to another woman, how can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My husband likes to be dominated .right now he seems like he is at the point where his friend who is female has control over him ( they met online and have met in person) . I can't get him to do anything and he and she talk everyday for long periods ...

I just need to find a way to get him to trust me, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Hey I've been in a relationship for 9 months, when it started out I was just getting out of a bad relationship and my current boyfriend helped me through, he helped me with my University work and my relationship problems. So I broke up with t...

Couldn't be with the one I love now I've met someone new. How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - HI I am in love with a girl we want to get marry also but her parents was against our relationship and now the girl whom i love is not ready to go against her parents she will mrry to the guy where her parents will tell there is one girl whom i like ...

I'm becoming violent and very angry because I suspect of him cheating, are my fears justified?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - hello i really need some help i dont have anybody to talk to. i just got married 4 months ago,my husband is 33 years and i'm 21 years old.my problem is that i can't trust my husband at all. i have been for a while obssesed with him cheating on me. ...

Parents wouldn't approve of my young relationship, how do I keep it from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - [Mod Note: Stated age incorrect, OP is 13 years old] Ok so I liked this girl and she asked me out at a party and I said yes. We're now going out and I am really happy. The one problem, were 13, and if my parents find out, I will get in a lot of t...

Domestic Violence, Cheating and Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Hey there, I was in an intense relationship for nearly two years. My ex and I had known each other as friends for about six months before we started dating. We got along great, our relationship was normal and happy for the first six months. He was a ...

What might be the cause of my boyfriend's moodswings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - i have been dating a guy for about 6 months and been official for about 2 months. i have noticed and he has admitted to me he gets mood swings. for instance, today was a great day. we went to the gym, we later ate lunch and talked on the phone. ...

Do friendships have rules, and who makes them up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - Is it considered going behind your best friends back if you don't share things like who you are hanging out with or who you like or even what is on your mind?...

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...

I love him, I love him not, I love him, oh dear I love him not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and we say we are in love, which i am. so recently i broke up with him and made out with another guy, then we got back together - broke up, got back together - broke up and now were back together. ...

How do I fix this problem with my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - My wife was not so happy with me so I invited my friend to have sex with her. but a year now I feel I am not happy at all. she always likes him, I feel depresed with the way my wife behaves with me.......

I don't want to do the same as the rest of my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I have a sister and a brother. We're all 16 (obviously, we're triplets). My mother is the cheer leading coach for our high school. My father is a football coach. I guess you could say I'm "the runt of the litter": I'm smaller, weaker, and I've...

He seems to like me but never actually answers my questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - i like a guy. and he goes to my church.. every sunday he makes a point to invite me to sit with him.. well actually he ask if im coming in then leads me to a seat and then sits with me. he smile at me alot.. and we email back and forward.. but he ...

I immigrated to be closer to my mother, but its not working out

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - HELP - I have a very serious problem which is depressing me. I have recently migrated to be with my mother who has retired to the caribbean. I have been here with my son now for about 3 months and it has been a living nightmare. My mother is not ...

My marriage is going downhill and I have met somebody who I can love as I once loved her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I have been married for twelve years, and before we were married we dated for ten years and lived together during those times. We have two beautiful children nine and eleven years old. My marriage has been going downwards for the last five years. I ...

My boyfriend is 10 years older, and my male friend called him a cradle robber!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to ...

Summer Lovin' .. I want my summer romance back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - This passed summer my best friend's brother and i got really close and ended up together, well the whole time she and i didn't speak because of a few other issues. We had this amazing relationship for about a month and then suddenly he just stopped ...