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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...

Is my husband cheating on me with his brother's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So, my husband and I have been married for over 3 years now. His brother has been dating the same girl for 2 years. My husband used to tell everyone how much he hated his brother's girlfriend b/c of a lot of her personality traits and ...

How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while ...

Should I leave my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hello all I am writing because I do not know what to do about my relationship. I met a lovely girl, actually on a dating website (which was new to me). We have now been together for around 5 months. The relationship is for the most par...

How do I stop this? I don't want to jeopardize my marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Confused by attention! Im happily married for 6 years and working. I was initially working on a project with a colleague in a different location. Later I moved to a new office location. Since then, this ex-colleague has been chatting with me...

I kissed a girl on a business trip and now I am getting Facebook messages from her friends about our "affair"! I don't want my wife to find out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Me and my wife have had some trouble in our relationship which unfortunately is not being resolved. We have been separated for 5 months and she is back home in her country. I was away on a business trip and talked to a girl who worked at the hotel. ...

Am I wrong to wonder what my husband is getting up to on his computer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - hi i only been married three months maybe i should have asked you first my husband uses the internet a lot has loads of people he im`s i know some are people for business but about a week after we got married he let me use his computer and i tried ...

Why did he break up with me? I'm really struggling to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm having trouble getting over my ex-boyfriend/babies father.My ex-friend broke up with me in Feb 09, when I was 3 months pregnant. before we get started let me say he is still in my life everyday because he watches are son while I work in the day, ...

He says he loves me but won't be with me because he's not supposed to be happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Please can someone help me. I lost a baby 4 weeks ago and would be due to have my dating scan today. Since then my boyfriend has walked out on me and his parents have said it was a good thing that our baby died, as they would of made sure i had the ...

How can I get my friend back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hi My question is what should i do about this situation my best friend tried to have sex with me and i hurt her feelings and now she hates me. My best friend is a girl she ive known her for forever we just get along so well and have alot of fun...

As a friend I only want to help him, so what could his problem with sex be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, I have a bunch of friends and we hang out a lot together. Recently I got closer and closer to a guy in this bunch and one day when we were drunk we slipped away from our friends and made out. We talked about it the next day and...

My best friend had revealed he's in love with me, but I don't feel the same!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi All, One of my best friends has revealed he has stronger feelings for me than as friends, but I don't feel the same... Can we stay friends? Please read it all, as there are details that change circumstances in what i've written. Thanks!...

I found my soulmate and things are getting hot....but she is married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - We started out just being friends and now we are really close friends. Things are becoming different now. When I am around her, my heart litrally beats faster. I find myself thinking about her all day ((daydreaming)). When I close my eyes at ...

I love and want to be with him but I feel there are so many negative points?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Ok people i have a complicated situations and i wanted peoples opinion about it. i have been dating this guy for 3 years now. i am in love with him and i feel he loves me too. This is my fist time being in love like this. i meet him at a college ...

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as soon as his inside me... he ...

Can anyone offer any insight into my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So I ended things with my first boyfriend of not even two months (I was his first girlfriend also). Not officially, but I just started ignoring him because it was getting ridiculous. I could see that it was gonna get to the point of immature name ...

Why did my on and off again boyfriend get me nothing for this Christmas this year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - (MOD NOTE: ORIGNAL POSTERS TITLE) I got my on and off again bf of 1.5 yrs a christmas gift - he loved it. But was acting kinda weird after. We have just gotten back together. Its been bit tense between us. Anyway, the next day, he txts me ...

Built up resentment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - what to do like four months ago. my cousin n this guy i like told me im boring. i didnt speak to them about it were not that kind of people to talk things out. lately he flirts with n tried to hug me like 20 times saturday because he liked my ...

Young girl with a big problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

Trapped in an unhealthy lesbian relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm eighteen and I'm bisexaul but I lean more towards girls. I've been dating my girlfriend for three years on and off, eventually we stopped hanging out with friends and litterally spent every waking momment together and the rare occassion ...

I can't do this anymore... I'm obsessed with his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm losing grip, and I'm losing my mind... I've written on here before, but I'm still suffering. Things got better, and now they're falling back into a place that is haunting me, and it's a place that I can't escape. I am 20 years old (almost 21),...

I pushed her away because I thought I was HIV positive. I'm not, now I want her to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hello all, My situation is rather embarassing, but regardless, i'd like to know how people would handle it. I dated a very special girl for four years. Right before I dated her, I had an incident while on vacation in south east asia. I w...

I'm 19 and my parents are trying to control my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Ok, this is going to be really long, so please bear with me. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. My parents don't want me to move out, therefore I was pretty much forced into going to the local college so I could live at home while I go to ...

Is it the winter blues that have me wanting to stay home with a mug of hot chocolate and a longing for someone to cuddle up with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - My problem is i cannot seem to find a nice or decent boyfriend. i really want a guy i can settle into a relationship with for a while now, i have done a lot of dating (i know im still quite young but i have been with quite a few guys) (please do...