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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have never been sober when I've kissed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hey, well I still have the whole intimacy problem. Iam with this dude for 2 months now and I've never kissed him sober. Actually I never kissed anyone sober. I dont know what my problem is and I cant get over it. Am I the only person with this ...

My GF hangs out late drinking with her many guy friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm not sure if this is me being insecure or overly protective. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. Recently in the past 2 months, she has been hanging with guy friend(s), I say this because she is not clear who she hangs ou...

I want to bring up all these issues, but if I do he says I chose this life and should've had an abortion.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - This is my first time on the site and it is mostly because I don't want my friends to judge me. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I feel that he is taking me for granted and does not love me. He has gone through some tough times with his ...

My husband does not look at me 'nice'...What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My husband does not look at me 'nice'...Does not touch me...Does not want to do things with me. No intimacy. He tries, but he just 'cant' keep denying ,that he is not into me... Now I heard, most marriages after 20 years goes steal..Is this true? ...

My boyfriend is becoming abusive...please some constructive advice...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello! I came to tis website beause i really dont know what to do anymore. Im 18, my boyfriends 19.My boyfriend of a year and 3 months was such a great guy, he never cheated on me,never cheats, never flirts with other girls,he treats me like his...

Has she gone of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: Title is Posters Original Title) hii, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!. i think my girlfriend has gone of me.... she never realy wants to kiss me if i go for a kiss all i get is a sourfaced peck, she never wants to have sex with me, but she...

I feel hurt, trashed and betrayed, I need to move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I am 34 years old. I have been in a relationship for about 11 years with a 46 years old man. Last May I found out that he was taking to this 28 years old girl, married. I spoke with him and he said he stopped. Last month I found out that not ...

My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...

She's telling me one thing while wanting something different!

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18 December 2009 (M) - ok here goes 32 yr old male here and need some advice..been with this girl for about 9 mo. now and we have had our ups and downs..i live about an hour away and have alot more responsibilities in life than her..i'm looking to settle down and find ...

He says he has moved on, so why did he kiss me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - hey me and my boyfriend split up because my dad found out that he was round when he wernt ment to be because my boyfriend is older then me im 15 and hes 17 and of cause my dad didnt really like it . And i went to see him and he kissed me then i...

ITs going too slow for me and I am worried his ex wife is on the hunt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted before but was asked for more context/ info, so I'm re-posting with more detail. I split up with my long term partner a few months ago - we broke up after a big argument which was involved some big misunderstanding then we both sai...

Did the last 12 months mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - any suggestions or comments would be grateful please so i can find closure... i met someone 3 months ago, all has been great, i do have children and the person i was dating they hadnt of met my children yet we have just been enjoying the dating and ...

It hurts me when he makes up with g/f and then I don't hear from him for days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I'm so upset. My best guy friend and I talk all the time, and he's in a rough spot with his girlfriend right now so I've pretty much become his crutch for the time being. I'm the person he goes to to talk when his girlfriend is mad or whatever. I ...

Dramas with thieving ex boyfriend and his parents threaten me!

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18 December 2009 (F) - can anyone help my fella has stolen all my jewellery, he has admitted to it to me, but lied about where it is, i have been to the place with police. we are not in contact anymore, i have a phone number i beleive is the man he sold it too in the pub, ...

My husband wants to watch me with another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 13 years and during this time he has hinted off and on that it would be a turn on for him to see me have sex with another man. I remember at first feeling repulsed by even the thought of being with someone else ...

I just dumped my married b/f he says I am being childish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Good day all and may u all have a blessed xmas and prosperous new year :-) . Well i'm in need of TLC i just dumped my married boyfriend of 3 half years via sms .. thing is i went on his facebook and saw pics of his wedding day and of him and soon...

Drawn to him even though I know he is only there for the cheap thrills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I can't understand why I am being so stupid and why I keep doing this to myself. I am a shy 26 year old who has never been with a guy sexually, everyone who knows me thinks I am sheltered and basically thinks it's funny, which is fine. I am tryi...

My guy wants to keep our relationship a secret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - How do i make my guy be more romantic?he never even hugs me when we are in public..i mean he never asks me out anywhere..nor does he wanna tell his friends about us! how can i make this happen without directly forcing him to tell his friends!i feel ...

I'm not sure what is the best way to approach this situation as I've never got back with an 'ex' before.

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I just want to know what do I do to stop being so attached to him!

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18 December 2009 (F) - well, i have been in a relationship for 1 and a half year. day after day seems like he doesn't want me anymore. i have to force myself on him. i beg for attention. this morning i knew he starts work early so i rung him so many times but his phone ...

How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive, been in a relationship for 18 years, we have three children. My partner has always flirted with other women even in front of me which has been hurtful but when he kissed a girl in front of me four years ago I told him to leave, he swore it ...

I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...

I feel like the only time he wants to be alone with me is when he wants to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is always playing games on his xbox live and him ad his friend are attached to the hip, the sit around all day playing xbox or somtimes they watch movies. I never get to spend alone time with him because I can never pull him away from ...

We are constantly fighting due to his alcohol problem!

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18 December 2009 (F) - hi everyone please help me i dont know what to,me and the father of my son broke up two years back and got back together this year but im not happy at all last time we broke up it was because of alchol and he promised he wil stop when we make up but ...

Can someone take what I've just posted and make sense of it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Is it possible, once a women says she doesnt feel in love with you anymore, to ever feel in love with you again? the relationship was rocky for the last year, I got to comfortable, and didnt really pay much attention to her, as we rarely talked, she ...

She is sensitive and insecure due to her past and I hanged up on her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I am madly in love with this girl who has a had an abusive past and as a result can often be really sensitive and insecure. She often thinks that people dont care about her feelings, especially since in her past experiences, her thoughts and feel...

Will I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ok,(I gotta give some background here) so I was with this guy, lets call him Bob for this, for 8 months. It was absolutely amazing. He changed my life. Literally. He loved me, I loved and still love him. It was a great relationship. We never really ...

I put my life on hold but now I want to get it back

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18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a huge problem and I would appreciate some much needed helpful advice and an insight into what the heck is going on. I'm 21 years old I had a very troubling past but got my life on track. My partner and I got together two years ago. Just ...

Dumped before the baby was born, I found a new guy but now the ex wants back in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy awhile back, we both weren't ready for a relationship and very immature. After that broke off I found a new guy and ended up falling in love with him. We ended up having a baby on December 4th [ yes just 2 weeks ago ]. But that ...

I find it difficult to move on!

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18 December 2009 (M) - A couple of months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. It didn't last long, but it was the first relationship I've had that was in any way conventional or actually desired. And once we both seperated to go to university she ignored me for two ...

Three years on I haven't met his kids, aged 11 to 17, because he doesn't want to unsettle them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years,my boyfriend has four children and was seperated from his wife for 18 months before we got together,they were divorced two years ago. I can truly say that he is the love of my life and is everythi...

What should I say to put him in his place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend has no problem telling me he is smarter then me.It upsets and annoys me and I have told him to stop, but he still does it. He tells me I'm not smart because I won't let myself grow. Sure he is smarter in certain areas, and is al...

She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...