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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He said he wants a divorce over my refusal to have sex without a condom...how can I prove I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband since i was 15. we have been togethor for 5 years. and married for 1 year. we have 2 children. a 3 year old and a 6 month old. we have been through alot together. after a huge fight last year we were able to patch things ...

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...

Is this a good time to make amends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi Guys Happy New Year to everyone! My problem is that I confessed feelings I had for a female friend of mine this year, and to cut a very long story short, we haven't spoke since I did so, and basically cut each other out of each others li...

Lied about my age .. again :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Help :( I have always had a problem with revealing my true age, I guess it relates back to primary and high school days where I was bullied and I guess I have had a "make up for lost time" kind of attitude towards life. I am currently 26 and...

B/f says I'm selfish and keeping him away from his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and living together for 3 years! We have a two year old boy and i am pregnant with our second!! I know our relationship has never been the best in the world or the healthiest Lately we have been ...

Will I go to jail if I had sex wit my exgirlfriend who is 17 and now pregnant.??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Well i met my ex at 16 yrs of age at a 18 yr and older club she lied to me and told me she was 18..She looked 18 and was at a 18 yr and older club.We started dating had unprotected sex now shes pregnant.And she bearly decided to tell me her age.I ...

He is sweet but lacks the initiative, does he really care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Which one says the truth about my ex who I recently reconciled with? When I am with him, he doesn't want me to do anything but sit or lie beside him. He stares at me all the time and like to cuddle the whole day. When I am not beside him, he g...

The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to m...

I'm caught in the middle of a family fight!!! Please, I need your help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I am stuck in the middle of three sisters one my Mums side of the family and a bad relationship with my mum and my Dad's sister. I try to be nice to everyone in My family because I hardly see them and when I do I like it to be a good, happy time, ...

My boyfriend wants to split the cost of a big ticket item with me, but I don't think I'll be with him that long!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend wants to get a ps3 (he lives with me)he wants us to split the cost to get it. the thing is i do not want to since i do not think i will be with him for that long. he thinks everything is going great but i am just not that happy wi...

Engaged and attracted to another man. How do I overcome these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - there's this lady who is engaged and she's having deep feelings for another suitor. what can she do to stop these feelings? this guy is someone that they see each other almost everyday. ...

Not ready to say the "L" word

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - What do you do when he says I love you and your not ready to say it back? I have been seeing this guy, but we havent been together all that long ( I would say we have gone out about ten times). The other day, when we were talking he said he loved ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

Does he ever think about "us"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I just want some ideas about whether he thinks of me and why he doesn't seem to want to "be" with me again. We were friends for about the past year and eventually we moved past that stage when he came clean about his feeling for me. I am married so ...

After our breakup he seems to have rewritten history

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have a real problem which is distressing me so much. I was with my partner for 6 years and he was the love of my life and we broke up last February because he left after an argument then we were on and off together since then and he seems to be ...

I am now on a bitter liver...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Alright...--- Well I guess I should start explaining my spot in life. I'm a freshman in highschool and I'm an all around person kinda girl. I never believed in friends but always acquaintences. Just to keep wild emotions out. Im patient, reassur...

He isn't giving me enough attention and now he wants space! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with hi...

Is it wrong to wish he'd just pass away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My dad has been a severe alcoholic most of my life. He was emotionally dead when I was a teen and went through a brief point of sobriety when i was in my early 20''s. for the last couple of years, he's cheated death several times. he has survived ...

What do I do in the meantime while my boyfriend is in jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going to jail. I'm very confused about what to do. Here is the thing: we had dated previously and had had a very rocky relationship which ultimately ended badly. It had been a relationship full of lies and cheating and both ...

Do I try and show her father I've changed? He's a cop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Ok , I live in a small town wehre everyone knows everyone. As a teenager and in to my ealrie 20's i went through the whole bad boy stage. Ditching school , drinking, fighting, racing cars, drugs, tattoos, I did jail time for break and enter and drug ...

I have faked it for 10 years...help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - i have had sex for 10 years and have never felt any sexual pleasure form it for ten years i have faked it. it hurts becasue my marriage is now over becasue it gets worst everytime, i know i wont feel nothing os i dont get horny. oral sex only gives ...

Ex leaving threatening messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have recently emigrated to another country with my 9 year old son. I am a single mother and have been for some time. My son has had very little contact with his father during his 9 years of life (even though his dad lived only 5 minutes down ...