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Archived questions from: June, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Work demands are keeping his too busy to see me, but somehow he has time for fun with his mates...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - dear cupid I have been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last year. Things have always been good between us, he has a very demanding work load which has seemed to double over the last few weeks. We dont live together, but manage to se...

My partner and I hit a brick wall every time we try to discuss our future. He just isn't ready for marriage.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years we have lived together for 4. We love each other very much but everytime we talk about marriage we hit a brick wall. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but tells me he just isn't ready. I'm ha...

Why would I call my girlfriend by her sister's name? I have no interest in her sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

30 June 2005 (M) - Hello there. I have a problem, I am deeply in love with my girlfriend but, in the last three weeks, she says that before I fall asleep or when I am really tired I have called her by her sisters name. I really don't recall saying it, but she is ...

My boyfriend says he "loves" me, but he's not "in love with" me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 10 months. Two and half of these months has been long distance. Were about 5 hours apart. It has been hard but I believe in him so much and love him so much that I'm willing to do this long distance ...

He's with another woman, he's violent, he's given me sexually-transmitted diseases, and he's bi... but I just can't leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7075 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I have been with this man now for 8 months on and off. I love him I really do, but the problem is him. He is married with a baby mother and bisexual. He claims that he doesnt have sex with his babymother, yet he is by her house everyday. Don't ...

My sister disdains her own adult daughter, and Sis's problems are causing difficulties for everyone in the family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - My older sister is 53 yrs old. She's a bright, intelligent woman with much in her life to be thankful for. Since we were kids, she has struggled with low self-esteem and weight problems. She married at 19 to an alcoholic had one daughter, divorced...

I think my boyfriend might be (or might become) an abuser...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7076 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Question for Bev You responded to the question "What are the trouble signs of a potential abuser" I am in this situation. My boyfriend has many signs, and the sad thing is, that he believes this is perfectly normal for a man to be. He...

My gf says she feels "claustrophobic" and that I'm around too much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7075 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years, and living together for the last 5. When we first started going out with each other, she didn’t know anyone in the area as she had moved here as a student, so I tried to spend as much time with her as possi...

Was my boyfriend just tired, like he says... or was he trying to get rid of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7075 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, Am I just being paranoid or is there some truth in what I'm feeling? Is he cheating on me? i I've been with me boyfriend for five months and everything was going really well up until a couple of weeks ago when he started to get dist...

The talk about us getting married has dried up, but that's all I've ever wanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, we get on well. Up until now, I have always assumed we will get married as he talks about it a lot and it is always him that brings up the subject. However, the other day, while having a generali...

I feel sexually unequal to my girlfriend, ever since I found out that she's slept with a lot of men...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Hi this may seem strange. My girlfriend recently revealed to me that she has been with a large number of men and has had a large number of one night stands (between 20 and 30 of them - I didn't pry for too much info). I am having a truly hard tim...

Is it the distance between us that's causing the rift, or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I have a long distance relationship that has been going on for 3 years and 2 months to date but lately it has been going up and down between us. We hardly see each other due to the fact that we are so far apart but take full advantage when ...

I thought we were happy, but my boyfriend has been spending hundreds of pounds calling and texting another woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I thought we were really happy, but last night when I was trying to read a message from a friend on his mobile I pressed the wrong button and he had naked pictures messages from another girl. ...

What are the trouble signs of a potential abuser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - Question for Bev: I have been checking out your advice on this site. It seems like you know all the red flags in relationships that could mean your guy is an abuser or a potential abuser. What I want to know is this: Do THEY know? When you say that...

Will my fiance's anger issues fade when he can get back to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7077 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I am thirty-five, divorced, and I have three children and own my own home. I have a problem with my fiance. We have been engaged just over two years. Just after we got engaged, he moved into my house. He was then in a serious accident and was ...

We can't agree... I want a house, THEN a baby. He wants the baby first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - This is a toughie. I've been with my guy for 7 1/2 years. We were engaged about 4 years ago...broke it off and got back together. We have lived together for a year now, back at each other's parents, but now looking at houses together. I've ...

Why did my guy get so distant, so suddenly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - When a man pulls away from you emotionally...what is going on? I was dating a man for a long time. We had a nice relationship but then he suddenly would get cold and distant with me for no reason. It was usually after his ex-girlfriend with whom he ...

Neither of us wants to leave, even though I think our relationship is reaching its end...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7073 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now but it has begun to feel like this relationship has reached its end but, neither of us want to leave or so I believe. Am I staying for the wrong reason when I just don't want to leave her and ...

I'm pregnant, working 50 hours and week and exhausted., but my husband says I should "get over it"!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - Help! I just got married .. I mean like three weeks ago .. and I am already ready to leave. My husband is so much different than who I thought I married. I feel like I am raising a second child. I am now pregnant and have one infant and feel like ...

I'd like to get married and have a child someday. How can I bring up this topic with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7072 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on since we met about 3 years ago. This last go-around we have been exclusive for a year. At the time we first started going out, he had said he was unsure if he wanted to get married again or have another ...

My bf's plans only include a vague promise to "get married... one day", but I want to know where we stand...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7063 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years and live together. For almost a year now he has been discussing getting married on and off but this just seems to be all talk as he has made no further plans, ie: engagement. He has also ...

My girlfriend is heavy and I just don't find her attractive any more...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for eight months and two months ago we moved in together. The problem is that I just don't find her attractive anymore. I am 30, she is 22 but she is very overweight and has put on weight since we started living t...

What seemed to me to be minor misjudgements sent her into a fury...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7073 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - Six months ago I met and fell in love with a lady with a sweet, gentle nature and a heart of gold. It wasn’t long before I was thinking that one day we might marry. (She’s been divorced a long time; I’ve never married)( we’re both in our 50s). ...

I'm away with my work and my bf won't answer my messages! What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

26 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend wont answer my emails, texts, messages - what should I do? We have been together 10 years and I am away for 6 weeks for work. He hates it when I am away but we planned to keep in touch so we'd could check in and know we were both OK....

We do nothing but argue because I keep imagining he's cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7078 days ago

26 June 2005 (?) - My hubby and I have been together for 5 yrs, married 4 and we have always had a very good and open relationship. Lately I have lost all trust in him even though he has done nothing to start this. I feel like I am pushing him away because I keep t...

He'd rather smoke his cannabis than spend time with me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7078 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has started to smoke cannabis nearly every night and seems like he is starting to get hooked on it. We hardly see each other anymore cos I don't want to be around him while he is smoking it. All my mates I've asked say I should dump him...

It wasn't full-on sex, but since then, I don't know if I've wrecked our friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7079 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - I've become pretty good friends with a girl that I have worked with the last six years and I have had a crush on her for a while. We've gone out together a few times but never alone, always with other friends. She had a party at her house and af...

When my friend has a crisis, I'm there for her, but now she seems to go out of her way to make me feel bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7079 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - My friends don't make me happy any more. Well not all of them, just one in particular, but most of them follow her. Her mum died 8 months ago and I was there for and supported her and recently I had an abortion and the day after I returned from hos...

My boyfriend's temper is unpredictable! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7075 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - I'm not sure whether my boyfriend wants me around or not. We live together and I love him very much. He works hard and I recognise he needs space sometimes as he suffers from stress. He has a temper which can just erupt; if he thinks I'm not lis...

Any stress in my boyfriend's life he takes out on me... I'm only trying to make it better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - Hi - he takes his stress out on me. When my boyfriend is stressed from work or tired, he won't talk to me. Instead he snaps at me and bites my head off if I try talking to him. He'll spend the whole evening ignoring me - sometimes he won't even lo...

I'm afraid that my boyfriend doesn't want to be with me and our daughter any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7079 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and have a baby girl called Sydney but I'm scared he doesn't want to be with me no more. I am 17, he is 18, our baby is one. What should I do? ...

I've been scared that things will go bad between us, and now I find out he's gotten someone else pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7081 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - Hello. I have been dating this guy for the past year and 2 months. Even though it has not been that long, we have been through a lot. He is the only guy that I have ever taken to meet my grandmother because I really feel like he is the one. Th...

I'm sick of his goatee, but he wants to keep it. Am I insane for missing his smooth face?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - Tell me if I'm insane. My husband has a goatee and I'm sick of it...I really miss his smooth face. I've asked him to shave but he becomes mad and refuses. It's been 9 months and now every time I look at him I just see this mean person who doesn't ...

Having second thoughts about getting married to my fiance! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - I am engaged and I am having second thoughts. I love him with all of my heart but I dont know if he is the one. How do I tell him?...

Past girlfriends have cheated on me, so I can't believe this girl won't too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Hi everyone,I'm 20 and male. I have been with relationships since 15yrs of age and had not very much, this may sound shocking,but I find it hard to love again, since my first love, I was cheated. I'm not a guy to cheat, at all. But because of all t...

We talked for years about having kids one day, and now he says he never wants to have them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7082 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have just bought a house and after talking for the last year about having children in a couple of years, last night he turned to me and said he never wanted children. I desperatly want children, and he h...

A flirtation with a co-worker made me realise that I'm no longer in love with my partner...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Hi there, I've been in a relationship for nearly 10 yrs now(since school). We have 2 children. Although I love my partner, I am no longer in love with him. I have met someone who I have totally fallen for and we have kissed on 2 occasions (through...

He says he wants me, then he says he doesn't care. Where do we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7070 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - I have been dating a man for 1 year. Shortly afer we met, about one month into it, he pressured me to have sex with him and sex was mostly the topic he discussed. I gave in to him too soon, but I liked him and didn't regret it after. After the firs...

Our marriage has been rocky, but what if I clean up my act only to find her playing up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7082 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - My wife and I have been married for aboput 3 years, 2 children, one who is mine and one who isnt. We've had a rocky road so far, cheating and lying and drinking, mostly on my part. We seperated about 10 days ago when I got a d.u.i. She says she...

We're getting older and I'm happy with my looks... but my partner thinks I need plastic surgery!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7083 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - My partner and I are in our mid-40's. Lately, he's been making unkind remarks about my body. Now,I am nowhere a perfect woman-I have small scars from childbirth but most noticeably, a large scar on my lower abdomen from my battle with cancer, 11 ...

I feel guilty now for little things I did early in the relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7081 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have being going out for 8 months. I'm head over heels in love with her and she has just went away to Greece and for some reason I keep thinking of things that happened early in the realtionship and feeling guilty. E.g. t...

He promised a week ago never to binge-drink again... but he's already at it again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7082 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for 14 yrs. We have 3 children 10, 2, & 1. Over the yrs we have been through some rough times and always managed to come out of the other side. B But this time i really dont know what to do. He tends to binge drink and i fe...

Secrets and lies and five kids that he's told me about! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7083 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - I have be in a relationship with a 32 year old men for about 7 months. He is has already been married twice and just told me about 2 months ago about the 1st marriage. Also kids (5) just keep on popping out that he has out of nowhere. He told me ...

After all the upheaval we've been through... could we remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7083 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - Not sure if I'm after answers or just venting my thoughts. Me and my ex started going out in Jan of this year, we fell completely for each other and as we're both 30 it wasn't some teenage obsession, we've both had serious relationships. We fell in ...

My mother is in denial, and my sister doesn't know, but my dad is keen on Sis's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7083 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - Make sure you are sitting down for this awful situation I have found myself in. My father has taken to my sister's boyfriend. I dont mean that in a platonic way and will spare you the gruesome details for your own personal sanity. I have brought ...

We've been attracted for 12 years & he lives in another country. What next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I have a very difficult problem. Twelve years ago I met a man who was a tourist in my country. We liked each other very much but didn't have a relationship. When he left for his country we spoke on the phone and corresponded regularly. Two year...

I just know that she's the one for me, but she's still stressing over her divorce...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7084 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I am a 25 year old man and have been dating a women that is 32. We met at her workplace and hit it off right away. I knew from the time i saw her that she was the one. She was married and after meeting me and knowing for the 2 years in her ...

No matter what I do, I think of reasons not to trust him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7084 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my fiance for a little over a year. I can't seem to trust him no matter what I do. I am always accusing him of something, even though I know it is only in my head. I have had two bad relationships in the past and have a child ...

My fiance's a changed man: he went from dream guy to dope-smoking drinker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - Hello all, this question is for Bev, but of course all others are welcome to comment. Bev, I have been with a man I love for four and a half yrs. We have a child together a precious daughter of 3 yrs. My fiancee and I have argued about 4 hours ...

Was I out of line being offended that my female friend would show an interest in someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7083 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I had a very regrettable night the other night with my female companion who I have known for over 2 years. We were just doing the usual thing, having a drink at the table we were at the club we regularly go to. All of a sudden this guy decides ...