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writes: My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now but it has begun to feel like this relationship has reached its end but, neither of us want to leave or so I believe.Am I staying for the wrong reason when I just don't want to leave her and be by myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (2 July 2005):
Depends on why you think the relationship has reached its end. Have things gone a bit stale? this happens from time to time in all relationships, as long as you get on well and communicate this should work out ok. Do you want to move on? If so, yes, end your relationship now.
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reader, thats1foru +, writes (28 June 2005):
I think that you should first see how she is feeling about you two. If she is thinking the same thing then I would say it time to end it and see other people. However just keep this in mind : You dont want to be hurt, and I hope that you dont want to see anyone else hurt. What have you personally done to make the relationship work? The best thing that I can see is before you make any move make sure that this is what you want in you mind and heart.
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (28 June 2005):
Have one long break, say 2-3 weeks away from her. Then after the break, if it's not working, get out before things get worse. But turn round and tell her 'we're not working out so good, and it's hurting to carry on. I think it's time to end it'.When you do end it, remain friends, if she wants and go to single clubs or go somewhere and guarantee you'll find someone that it will work with.
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