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writes: My boyfriend has started to smoke cannabis nearly every night and seems like he is starting to get hooked on it. We hardly see each other anymore cos I don't want to be around him while he is smoking it.All my mates I've asked say I should dump him because he knows how I feel about the drug, yet he keeps on doing it. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2005): Time not spent with you is the least of your problems... try dealing with him when he's trying to score & can't or when you total up the amount of cash he's blown on HIS habit or you feel sorry for him when he doesn't have the cash so you start selling your stuff or when he starts to believe things that really didn't happen. I could go on but I have 2 words for you - RUN AWAY.
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reader, woody +, writes (27 June 2005):
ok.firstly i am an actual expert on cannabis.i have written a book on the subject and i do know that pots not for everyone and it is in fact unhealthy although no worse than alcohol and doesnt give you a hangover.although not adictive a reliance may be formed around it.giving up is very dificult.if you love your b/f and he loves you then accept it is what he does and get over it.its just a bit of pot.if he wants to give up then help him but if not it is hes choice.if your feelings for him are strong enough to see past the smoke then stay with him.otherwise get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2005): I have tried weed before, and I actually love it. Try it, you might just like it! It relaxes and de-stresses you, and it really is a lot of fun, especially around friends. If you do not want to try it, or it is against your religion/beliefs, then your best bet is to drop him. He most likely will not choose you over the green!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005): You should smoke with him of course! Weed is not addicting, that is a proven fact. Have you ever smoked the reefer? If you cant deal with the man wanting to get high, then you need to say goodbye. Try getting high with him and have really kinky sex all night, maybe that is what you need.
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (26 June 2005):
he has already made his choice ...cannabis...you should find someone who's choice is you.
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