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writes: I've become pretty good friends with a girl that I have worked with the last six years and I have had a crush on her for a while. We've gone out together a few times but never alone, always with other friends.She had a party at her house and after quite a few drinks we passed out on the bed in her spare bedroom with another guy there. I woke up in the middle of them making out and when she saw that I was awake she asked me to go down on her and I did. From that point on it was pretty much me and her. We didn't have sex, just that.Now that it's happened I don't know what to do. I really like her but now how do I approach her to tell her after something like this? I'm not even sure she'll remember doing it.How do I approach her to ask her out now? Did I ruin my chances? Our friendship? How long do I wait to call her? Do I call her? Do I talk to her about it? Help!
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reader, pops +, writes (26 June 2005):
Call her> She may be embarrassed to contact you for the same reasons you are shy. Tell her you enjoyed yourself at the party, and see if she responds. If she is embarrassed, she may pretend that she was so drunk, she doesn't remember what happened. If she does that, she's not interested in a further relationship with you, and you should find another lady. On the other hand, she may not know what she wants. Play it cool. You are both in the learning stages. If she comes around later, she will contact you. After all, you do work together. If she tells you that she had a good time at the party, then ask if her if she'd like to go out with you. But call her.
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (26 June 2005):
Yes you talk 2 her bout it&yes u call her! Its simple really be straight up say do u even remember what happened the other night if she replys no then explained what did happen, see what her reaction is. either way if she does or doesnt remember go ahead and spill the beans tell her youve liked her 4 a while! and that you want to know if she feels the same! she can rather say no or yes at least when you do ask your know where you stand! the way 2 the truth is to be straight with her no little secrets only she holds the answer so you should ask her! and if you ask me! you not lost her as a friend it seems your getting closer as friends! GOOD LUCK!
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