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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, we get on well. Up until now, I have always assumed we will get married as he talks about it a lot and it is always him that brings up the subject. However, the other day, while having a generalised chat, he claims he will never marry as its a mug's game. I am very upset about this as he has made promises in the past that have never materialised. My only ambition in life is to get married and raise a family. He wishes to have a family but it is against my beliefs to have children out of wedlock. I dont want to lose him but obviously our major life plans are different. What do I do? I dont want to live unmarried forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2005): Hun, to begin with he might have said that he wants to get married because he didn't want to lose you. Now that you guys have been together for so long he has become comfortable, honest and more open. He may have been so honest because he knows that you culd never break it off with him because you love him and can't imagine being without him. Could that be true? You realllyyy need to tell him where you stand, if marriage means that much to you you havee to let him know. Otherwise he will stay with you and never marry. If you sound serious he will take you more seriously. If you tell him that you won't stay if there is no ring (which is totally reasonable) he should change his mind. If is still feeling the samw way, break it off. He will miss you and may want to get back together, if not he will have a verryy hard time finding a girl who does not want marraige or kids. X
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