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writes: I have be in a relationship with a 32 year old men for about 7 months. He is has already been married twice and just told me about 2 months ago about the 1st marriage. Also kids (5) just keep on popping out that he has out of nowhere. He told me that he only had 3 kids. He just told me that he has a 15-year-old daughter and a 3 –year- old son. Within the last 2 months he would pack up and go to his uncle house and, say that he is moving out but then he will come back after 2 or three days. Just this past week he told me that he did not want to be with me and it just was not working out after getting caught in a BIG lie. Then just on last night he calls me and told me that he missed me and that he thinks that we should be friends. (Which is understanding) Then late last night he calls me and asks me if I could take him to work. (He does not have a car) so I took him to work and all he kept telling me is that he needs me to help him get a car because he don’t have license or the credit. But at the same time he’s telling me that he needs secured with me, and need to come into something on his own. I guess my question is: that I need to know that is he meaning by secured? Should I continue to be this person friend or just let it know? Needing help in Florida Reply to this Question
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reader, communicatrix +, writes (22 June 2005):
 I have no idea what he means by "secured" but that's really not the issue here. The issue is that this guy has lied to you repeatedly, treated you unfairly and continues to take advantage of you. Believe me, he's no friend.Tell him to stop calling, and if he won't, change your number. And please, take a long, long break and a good, hard look at yourself before getting involved in another relationship, since it doesn't seem like you have the best judgment when it comes to the people you choose to have in your life.
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reader, dogga5 +, writes (22 June 2005):
I think you know deep down what the answer to your question is. He is just using you.While this man has you exactly where he wants you he is going to continue to use you for whatever purpose he needs, get you to sign a credit agreement, free rides, loans etc etc.Make a clean break now and cut all ties with him. It will be hard but how can you trust and love someone who continues to lie to you? You need to do this so you can move on and find someone who truely deserves and appreciates you.Good luck
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