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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Ive fallen for my ex's sister-in-law! What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a dilema, my girlfriend has recently broken up with me and i am just starting to get over her. But i kept in contact with her sister in law, she has been a rock to me we have always got on great and she has confided personal things ...

Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost ...

My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought ...

I think he's gotten too close to his female friend. But am I looking too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - me and my b/f have been together for almost 4 years everything was perfect until about 6 months ago. i suffer from depression and he was unsure how to handle the situation and he turned to a close friend who happens to be of the opposite sex. now ...

My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...

Keep ending up with men who put their ex-wives first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Twelve years ago I was in Love with whom I thought was the love of my life. He was not ready for a commitment, and I dedcided to move on with my broken Heart. I had other relationship's, but I had come to accept that I would not ever fall in ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

Got a girlfriend, now an old flame wants to come visit... scared of what might happen!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - i have hit a big decision! i am currently in a relationship and have been for the past 4 months. i love my girlfriend with all my heart and have never once in my life before been disloyal to a partner. recently, an old friend of mine got back in ...

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

I have love and companionship and a cosy home.. but no sex. Is it worth risking everything for a sexual relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I've been married 8 years, no kids. I'm in my late 40s, my wife just over 50. We knew each other for a few years before we got together romantically. It was sexy and exiting at first and I remember thinking at last here was the girl who had ...

My husband and I are perfect, except for the sex. He said I could have other partners so long as I came back to him... but now I've fallen in love with one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Please can you offer me some advice. I am married and have been with my husband for 5 years. We have one 2 year old boy and I am 6 weeks pregnant with our second child. We are happy together and we are made for each other but he just does not do i...

Besotted with this other woman because of boredom in my marriage! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

23 January 2007 (M) - Hi. I am in a bit of a muddle - not sure whether it is fate or love... I am 21 and have been married for 1 year and been with my wife for 6. She was the first love of my life, and I seriously have never taken my eyes off her! However, a girl...

She frequently calls another guy between 2 - 4am - should I demand an explanation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - Ok, this is a followup to something I wrote previously. But, it looks to still be an issue. So, I'd like some opinions on what to do. I had previously written that I noticed some weird calls on my girlfriend's phone. These usually were at ...

Happily married but I want to 'swing' with the couple from our church! Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I’m a happily married female, but flirting has gotten me into trouble. A few months ago my husband and I went on a dbl date w/a couple from church. We have become very good friends now. Recently I have noticed her husband checking me out....

He said he doesn't want sex b/c he's "got something" that's none of my business. Then I found a vile text from him to another woman!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid My partner had been tempted to have a fling with a girl he met at the gym and I found a text he was going to send her, which was vile. He swore nothing came of it and never would. It forced me to look at myself and why he may want to ...

Am I just his back-up girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Well i like this guy and everyone at school told me that he liked me to and he even asked me to the movies but i found out that he has a girlfriend in a city that is three hours away he told my friend that he liked me but basically using me as a ...

I'm 24 and leading a double life with two different men!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I love two men. One of the most complicated things that ever happened to me. Ive been struggling with this for almost a year. I have been living a double life, because they dont know about each other really. One has been my boyfriend for 6 years he ...

My brother's wife is quite rude to our Mother! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - My brother's wife gave birth for the 1st time 2 weeks ago, she had lots of help from my mummy and I like doing the shopping or tidy her house b4 she came back from hospital, my parents are wealthy and try to help them anytime, my mom invites them ...

My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I...

There were photos of another girl on his phone. He also meets w/ his ex but says he dislikes her. I don't understand!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and his ex were together for 2 years and were engaged. before he met me, he liked this girl i have met her once. while i was with him he kept looking at her. i looked at his phone once too, and there was a few photos of her on there. he ...

This guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend because he likes her. And I want him to leave her alone but she doesn't have the heart to tell him. What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - This guy likes my girlfriend and always tells her that he likes her, and that i don't deserve her, that he wants to be with her and all that stuff. My girlfriend is 100% loyal and im with her 90% of the day and the other 10% we're on the phone with ...

I don't get any attention from him when his 3-year old daughter comes to stay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - My bf has a 3 year old daughter and has joint custody. When we have her it is like I am not even there. I don't want him to get upset because I know how much he loves and misses her when she is gone. But it is putting a strain on my relationship ...

He is going on a cruise with his best friend, who is female and not taking me with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - Ok here is the story... I meet this guy when I was in a bad marriage. A few days after meeting him, I finally got the courage up to file for divorce. Realizing without a current job it was not worth being miserable anymore. I started dating h...

I like my boyfriends best friend but he is going out with my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - Ok. My boyfriends best mate is going out with my best mate. Confusing right? Well. I like my boyfriends best mate. I drew a portrait of him. I stare at his numbers. I cry over him. My heart literally aches. I never felt like this before....

My best friend nabbed the guy that I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - One of my best friends just started going around with a guy I was dating. I have strong feelings for this guy and I would tell her all about it and she still went ahead and turned around and went out with him. What do I do? I feel betrayed. ...

Some days she doesn't talk to me...and I'm afraid her male friend is more than just a friend! Am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

15 January 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half months now and we've been having problems recently. first, some days she won't talk to me and if i ask her why she denies that there is a problem. at first i though it could be time-of-...

We broke up 6 weeks ago and the phone bill says they've been talking over 4 months! Should I confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

15 January 2007 (M) - Me and my g/f of 11 years broke up about up 6 weeks ago, said she didnt love me anymore, needed some space etc. all this came out of the blue. We still talk about once a week, just as normal. she has had her hair dyed a different colour since. ...

I want to jump on him and rip all his clothes off. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - Ok I have a boyfriend and I love him very much. We have been together for over a year and we could not be happier. Where I work there is this guy. He just makes me feel up with butterflys when I see him, almost like I want to jump on him and rip ...

Is this email chick hitting on my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

14 January 2007 (F) - I just saw an email from a girl to my boyfriend, i don't know if i'm being way too sensitive, but in the email she says. "I so need to see the sun. I want to get out of town. Seriously. Some place hot?" is she trying to attract my boyfriend or am I ...

My guy left me for someone else then came back. How should I deal with the ex that won't leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) - Hi guys has been a while since i last wrote quick update husband left me for another women, then he came back and decided he was going to go again. i told him he had to make a final decision and that whoever he chose he would be able to have no ...

I love my ex, but she doesn't know who she wants. Should I leave or stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) - look me and my ex lashenia have been apart for 1 year and 6 months and i want her back we talk like every day but she tell me she want me back also after dumping me because she have feeling for someone else but she came back to me and we started to ...

I saw that a woman emailed my husband about spanking him! I'm devistated but don't want to end it b/c of an email!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I put this one on other place and I have never done this before but I need help. So public I need your advise. Here we go. I have been happily married for 12yrs. been together for 15yrs. We don't have children. We have always done things t...

We split after 8 years last April. Then he dated and split w/ the girl after 2 months. We've been getting along, but now she's back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6515 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years ...

My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. ...

Been together 3 years, have a baby but I am fond of someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Sorry did post b4 but didnt add some details I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only ...

My bf promised to break it off with his "geisha," but hasn't yet. How long should I wait for him to do so?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - My boy promised to break it up with another girl. she's kind of like his "geisha." It's very painful to me, but we have a long-standing relationship and my heart is his. I can't contemplate another man without feeling like a cheater myself. How lo...

I feel trapped that I cannot go out with anyone else. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only 19 yrs old and i feel trapped that i cant go out ...

I like my best friends girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) - Hey....Well I got a mega problem....I like my best friends girl friend and my best friend is like my own brother almost...And in the past he treated her badly and i have feelings for her but i don't know what to do becuz he is my best friend/bro... ...

I still love her and having problems accepting her current boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) - I was originally not a member and I posted a question, now I have joined and my problem is still here and I need some help. My problem is this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-more-than-she-knows-what.html Now I have told her the nex...

Is he genuine, or does he consider me to be forbidden fruit?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - Thank you for your kind advice. I have posted a question earlier with title "I wish never met the other guy. I do not want to have an affair" Since then, I have spoken to husband Peter and tried to work things out, we have talked a lot. Lots of ...

Do I stop snooping and just confront him, demanding an answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - While paying the phone bill I found that my boyfriend sent 33 text messages in the past month. Not that unusual except that he has only sent 1 or 2 a month in the past and when I asked who he had sent so many messages to, he responded with a smile ...

I've fallen in love with my best mates daughter, but I don't want to hurt my gay partner of 16 years. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - ive been in a gay relationship 4 16yrs and have fallen in love with my best mates daughter im not happy in my relationship and have not been for a few yrs now but we have 2 children together so its stopping me from leaving her as i dont wanna hurt ...

He's casually dating both me and his ex. I don't want to be jealous, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - What's the proper way to act when your one of two people seriously dating someone? In my previous relationships I've always jumped right from casual dating into a relationship and have never been one of numerous people dating 1 person. But in my...

Am I just sensitive, or does my bf actually like this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Me and my bf went to dinner last night with a group of people and I think he is interested in this girl. What are the signs guys show when he is interested? I know she loves to have all the guys attention to her all the time. My bf looked interested ...

We went out for his birthday and he got drunk and let a girl touch all over him! I felt so stupid and small.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, Just wondered peoples opinions on this situation. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now I am having doubts because of something he did which to be honest made me feel very small. It was his birthday and we met up with ...

I hate my bf's ex as she spreads nasty rumors about us. What should I do about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - Okay right now i'm fuming so sorry to all the readers if this doesn't make sense...Basically i've been with my boyfriend quite a while now but his ex from 3 years ago who is also my ex best friend started spreading all these rumours saying when they ...

Married man dilemma! I am hooked! What should I do now?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I am in a dilemma - divorced 5 years ago, several opportunities for relationships along the way and always declined. A co-worker that I have known and talked to daily for the past 3 years - and purely work conversations - for never an instance...

We both have respective bf/gfs, but we get on so well, I want to know if we're into each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - hi, a quick question to any boys reading - if you have a boyfriend and you meet a guy and become good friends with him but don't tell him about your boyfriend for a long time, it pretty much means you like your friend a bit too much, yes? and if you ...

Been with boyfriend for 4 years, but am getting on so well with another guy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - I am 39 years old and divorced and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We have been quite happy together and I trust him, but I have always got upset and made unhappy by the fact that he will never move in with me, he says that the time isnt ...

We both can't see us growing old together. Can anyone help us get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) - My wife informed me that she had kissed one of her female friends three weeks ago. prior to this i had expressed my feelings, that i did not trust this woman and i did not think she was the good friend my wife thought she was. Now i am can't get ...