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writes:Okay right now i'm fuming so sorry to all the readers if this doesn't make sense...Basically i've been with my boyfriend quite a while now but his ex from 3 years ago who is also my ex best friend started spreading all these rumours saying when they were together he hit her I know he didn't because a) they were never alone together she always made me come alongb) he would never hit her So this kinda angered and upset him. So basically I was furious and then about two months ago she started emailing him saying she wanted him back although she is in a two year relationship and claims to love her boyfriend. So my fella told her where to go - he adores me and I feel the same for him. So then came more rumours "They are only together to piss me off" she would go around telling everybody.This was the last straw for me so I confronted her and she ran to a teacher which I thought was rather pathetic considering our ages (16) and how mature I am for my age that I know not too get myself into trouble which is why I confronted her calmy but she said I was being threatening which is not true she also said I threated to 'knock her out' which also untrue.So I was like okay don't worry about stay calm. So things were okay for three days until she went upto a friend of mine and said "oi you smelly greb what the fuck are you looking at" (very immature - I know) she had once again upset and angered someone very close to me so this time I did threaten her I simply said"oi u fuckin wanna stop spreadin shit alryt n u betta fuckin leave James alone n dnt even fuckin fink bout sayin 1 more fing bout me n Keiran n ur so pathetic runnin to a teacha u fuckin pathetic little slag just cus u cnt stick up for ya fuckin self say 1 more fing bout me n Keiran n see wot appens alryt"Yeah, I regret losing it but honestly right now I wanna knock all her teeth out. I'm going on holiday for the upcoming two weeks which means I wont be at school but now i'm scared my boyfriend is going to face the consequences for my actions and I shouldn't have lost it but seriously that girl is so messed up she has serious issues and is trying to ruin my relationship and if she succeeded I couldn't take it.Please just tell me what I should do before I do something stupid which I more than likely wont regret as she is deserving of any pain inflicted upon her.Sorry about this guys.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): the exact thing is happening to me right now me and my friend's ex hooked up once to go and see a movie and she totally flipped and started spreading rumors and now i think that her ex totally hates me it's so dumb like i like him so much but she just is getting in the road and now i don't know if i'll get to see him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): I think you should just deal with it. People made fun of me for a long time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Make sure you keep well away from her. Never be left in a room with just her. Always have someone there to hear what she has to say, a witness. She needs avoiding at all cost. She is wicked and will only reap misery because that is all she gives out. Let her stew in her own juice. Ignore the silly girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Well, that is a tough one since she is spreading lies about you, but now you have gotten in her face and made a veiled threat so her rumors now have legs...
As far as damage control goes, maybe you should first apologize to her for getting angry and ask just say I am sorry that we used to be best friends and we let some boy come between that, but the two of you were broken up and we are all young and single and have a right to date whomever we want, I would like us all to someday put this behind us and just be friends...tell your boyfriend that is what you are going to say to her and that you expect him to be respectful but distant until every one has a chance to calm down.
Then you all need to stay away from her and don't respond to any more of her nastiness if it continues and just stay silent and walk away....it takes two or three to keep the fight going, just don't agree to play that way and eventually she will stop doing what she is doing if she gets no more reactions out of you....she feels hurt and slighted because you are dating her ex and the two of you used to be friends....this whole thing needs a hero, be the bigger person and apologize for hurting her even though that was not your intention acknowledge her feelings and say that you did not mean or intend to hurt her by dating her ex.
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