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anonymous
writes:One of my best friends just started going around with a guy I was dating. I have strong feelings for this guy and I would tell her all about it and she still went ahead and turned around and went out with him. What do I do? I feel betrayed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): me 2it's horrible, my best mate did the same, knowing i really liked him she never even glanced at him but now shes all over him I know how you feel, it's horrible but the best thing to do is move on. I'm gonna pick myself up and show him n her. If i can you should too... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have told her how I feel but it seems as if she ignores it. We work together so that is the worse part of it all. And when other guys from the office try to cheer me up or just being talking to me it seems as if she tells them something behind my back. I don't understand why she does these things. I have only been a friend to her and almost like a sister. I am wondering if it is jelousy that is making her do this. What do you think?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You have been betrayed girl.
I hope you've told your friend how much she hurt you. What she did wasn't fair. But throughout your life, you'll have friends who suddenly turn their back on you, or show that they're not so good at "friendship". She sounds like one of them.
I am all for forgiveness, so if eventually you can find it to forgive her, fabulous. But if I were you, I'd be ticked, and rightfully so. However, try to be the bigger person and be cool about it. The less drama the better. She's the one who is being immature right now, so try to keep yourself together.
I'd tell her how much she hurt you and leave it at that. If she wants to make things right, she'll figure out how to.
Sorry, sweetness. Things'll get better. In the meantime, try to find a friend who you can REALLY trust!
xxIndia
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