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writes: My wife informed me that she had kissed one of her female friends three weeks ago. prior to this i had expressed my feelings, that i did not trust this woman and i did not think she was the good friend my wife thought she was. Now i am can't get past the feeling of betrayal(not about the physical kiss -- more about emotional risk she has put on our relationship). We have been married for 12 years and we both agree we cant picture us not growing old together. we have been open and honest in our discussion and have been trying to work through this. But can anyone tell me how to help us get past this? Reply to this Question
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reader, LoveOnlyOnce +, writes (8 January 2007):
 12yrs is a long time for most couples to be faithful and committed to one person and I think that is fantastic, its called a marriage!!!,so if there is kids involved, then I would stick it out and try and work things out with your wife, but if you are both mutral about not seeing a further future together, I suggest living away from each other to see if you can rekindle the romance AND if that doesnt work, then its meant to be... Maybe counselling??? Good luck as 12yrs is hard for anyone to give up on!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Dude, don't dwell on it too much. If you get lucky, maybe she will bring her home and you guys can have a threesome. Now wouln't that be something to remember! So don't go and screw this up.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 It seems your relationship needs help form a therapist. The kiss throws a new angle into the big picture. Get some help as a couple.
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