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writes: Me and my g/f of 11 years broke up about up 6 weeks ago, said she didnt love me anymore, needed some space etc. all this came out of the blue.We still talk about once a week, just as normal. she has had her hair dyed a different colour since.Since then i have discovered that her mobile phone which is in my name and i pay the bill there has been numerous calls and texts to the same number, i called and a bloke answered, i just hung up, i thought it was someone from her new job she had just started. All these calls and texts were made when we werent 2gether (i.e. she was working or i was working). so i checked the rest of the bills and this goes back nearly 4 months, gradually more texts and calls.I want to confront her about this. Is this a good idea?If so how do i approach the subject?i would also like to hear from anyone who has had similar happen to them.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I Think she was probably talking to him as a friend and maybe things just happened and they ended up together, u can ask but she won't admit it, maybe you can tell her that rather than talking to other people about your relationship she should have been brave enough to talk to u straight ahead or at least to help you move on so that you could still be friends even of you had not been abel to solve the thing, tell her u feel betrayed as regards couple adn friendship terms, do not let her take teh easy path make her realise u know what's going on
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reader, cd206  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Would it make you feel better to confront her? I don't think it'd achieve anything to be honest, except make her angry that you called the number which she'll see an invading her privacy. Really, if you're over, it doesn't matter whether she was seeing anyone or not. I think you owe it to yourself and your relationship to remember the happy times however hard this is to do.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (15 January 2007):
 This depends on whether you think you are going to get back with your ex. I wouldn't jump to conclusions, if this is going to bother you and your going to keep thinking about it then i would ask her about, after she seems to of made the decison that she wants to end this relationship so i can't seem what harm it's going to do
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